I do not understand why ppl play hard to get..
I guess as I get older I have less patience for love games..
I am a real genuine person who does not to pretend to be something I am not- when I feel something for someone I say it or express it to them.
Why play games and waste someone else's time. Seems so immature to me. If you do not like someone tell them, if you like someone tell them.
I do not get why people play games with their emotions..

shanti0608 said:

as spats. I think it's stupid too, and wouldn't get involved with a game player. it's a sign of something

shanti0608 said:

I agree. Vote GOP!

Having second feelings about your liberal boyfriend/husband? Granb a loofah and get in my shower!

StephenColbert said:

OHHH Stephen.. my liberal ass would love to lather you up with the truth...

PurpleRein said:

That's what got me thinking about playing hard to get and the other love games that Spats talks about..
Love is too important to me to play games with it..

I don't play hard to get. I'm just really dumb when it comes to hints. If they don't say it bluntly, I will not know if they want me or not.

RebornVirgin said:

bring your tight ass over here now and spin on my penis, your sexy fucking bitch!!!!!

RebornVirgin said:

Why do so many guys say this? I find it very hard to believe.

Imago said:

What does that mean?

RebornVirgin said:

JustErin said:

It's true. I can tell you many stories from my past of hints and hints that I never knew were there until either something happened, or until I realized days or months later that those were hints.

RebornVirgin said:

I just don't get it. I know so many guys that say this. Does it have something to do with low self esteem? Are you guys thinking, "Naw, she's not really into me, she just can't be into me, she doesn't really mean what she is saying/doing"?

I think women are much more guilty of this than men are. It's kind of wierd though, becuase women who are very direct come accross to me as intimindating. And women who beat around the bush can get kind of annoying and--yes, immature.

As for me, I echo RBV's statement that sometimes the clues are very hard to pick up on. WOmen often have to walk a fine line between being too confusing and seeming like sluts. Oh, I know ya'll think I sound like spats now.

JustErin said:

Well, I'm talking about hints. I'm guessing it has something to do with self esteen. For me it's usually because most women just want to be friends. so I never expect someone to want me otherwise. And when I don't expect it, I don't really notice the hints.

IrresistibleB1tch said:

Clearly a liberal stance. When will you women learn to submit to your man?

StephenColbert said:

how's wednesday at 3:30 for you?

IrresistibleB1tch said:

I'll bring the loofah

StephenColbert said:

AND the falafel!

IrresistibleB1tch said:

That's kinky.

RebornVirgin said:

AND vegan!

IrresistibleB1tch said:

Well then I was a vegan today. Since I had falafel!

Though later I had pizza with pepperoni.

RebornVirgin said:

don't tell anybody and try again tomorrow!

IrresistibleB1tch said:

Falafel is food of the enemy!

RebornVirgin said:

That sucks, man. You should really think a little more highly of yourself. You're probably missing out on a lot.

Unless, of course, you're happy with the way things are now.

JustErin said:

Well, yes. I don't think too highly of myself I just don't have much to offer except my friendship and my care.
I rarely talk, and hate crowds. To me even 3 is a crowd. I got shyness to a new level. I can't even look in someone's eyes when I talk to them, not to mention I go red even with the mention of my name.

StephenColbert said:

So make peace and have a bite!

IrresistibleB1tch said:

and you know what they say about vegans

I never played games because I think games are rubbish, YET when I first met my husband, his housemate (now my best friend) told me that I should play harder to get since he liked a challenge

So I didn't ring him and sure enough, he started to chase me, which was a bit weird for me I was usually the chaser.