jerseykrs said:

dude, I've told you before.....stay away from them!!!! too old!

early 20's.....

abierman said:

You're so right though.

jerseykrs said:

really, most women of that age I run into are fun in the beginning and then they start throwing their shit on you.....what the fuck is she talking about? 'Fathering you'? Geez.....

20 year olds are fun, they like anything and don't have the time to start whining about some shit.....

abierman said:

Most 20 year olds are too fucking stupid to do anything but talk about how cute Paris Hilton's dog is.

JustErin said:

there are exceptions, trust me.....but I know what you're saying!

abierman said:

Yes, of course. There are exceptions to everything.

JustErin said:

yeh. like me

JustErin said:

But 30-something women need to unnderstand that guys do not want to hear about their shit from previous relationships.....we're really not interested!
In Jersey's case, this girl is talking about getting the feeling that she's fathering him.....how stupid is she at 34? She should have noticed long ago that he's not interested!

im happy im not in the dating game anymore
far too many generalizations and bullshit

SammiJ said:

wow that kinda sounded like spats
only with some good sense knocked in



but seriously...if that's how everyone is in the game, generalizing others are like this n that
then what's the point, cuz clearly none of yall will ever be happy.

abierman said:

Actually, the chick said she felt like she was"bothering" him, not fathering him.

And to tell you the truth, guys are doing this "talk about my ex" stuff, too. I had to break things off with a recent guy I dated because it was absolutely boring and sad to listen to him talk about his ex. Some of us 30-something women have used our past experiences to learn and move along, healthier than ever!
[Edited 5/21/06 15:13pm]

AnotherLoverToo said:

I must have heard it wrong.....I alreading found it weird, a chick who is is 'fathering'.....but this is about Jersey, so you never know!


And you are right.....I was only generalizing!

abierman said:

Hey, since English isn't your first language, you get a pass! It was hard enough listening to that recording, let alone having it make sense!

Which makes me wonder: Jers, what are you doing still having that around and playing it when you said you had to stop talking to her a long time ago?

Imago said:

me likes...

AnotherLoverToo said:

i know, right?

Why, to make threads so people can make generalizations and judgements of me of course!

actually, to be honest, I spent a good amount of time today cleaning up my PC. You know, organizing files and cleaning out unused files. It was in my sounds folder and being the attention whore I am, I posted it here before taking it off the PC.

JasmineFire said:

jerseykrs said:

I love you, JohnnyCakes!

jerseykrs said:

oh.

well, it is interesting. i thought that only teenagers left messages like that.

I have a feeling she likes you

Imago said:

jerseykrs said:

Aww, hey, I wasn't trying to do that. I can understand being freaked out by someone's (over)reaction, I had a conversation similar to that last week that left me feeling like I was in an episode of The Twilight Zone.

I always feel a little badly for someone when embarrassing pictures or (in this case) vocals are put up here on the Org without their knowledge. I think of how I'd feel if someone I thought was my friend--even if they weren't into me romantically--put me up for public ridicule.

None of us know what happened--or DIDN'T--between you two, so we shouldn't make any generalizations or judgements of you and what you did or didn't do to her.

AnotherLoverToo said:

I was just being sarcastic

jerseykrs said:

Then obviously she has a problem dealing with reality...and that you will be nothing more then friends. She needs to realize that you do not like her in the way she likes you. She may never realize that, but if she does hopefully you will be able to go on being friends. Think about it women do not like rejection, and what she is feeling now is hurt and confusion as to why you don't like her in that I wanna me more then friends way. Talk to her face to face and not by email or over the phone...and explain it all to her truthfully...if she gets it then great the friendship goes on...if she can not understand it from your point of view and except that is how its going to be then she will just have to move on with one less friend in the world at her own faults.

Omg we so need to talk. Your life is so much more interesting then mine.