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Printablesixftblonde6 said:[quote] shellyevon said: I've been through living hell in my life too.
I think most of these abusive people don't stop to think about what they do. They just go berserk when they aren't happy, and it's never their fault in their heads. They don't accept responsibility for their own actions. We make them get mad at us.We're the bad ones. Glad you found your way out of it all.   thank you for your reply if you need to talk im always here dont go through it you dont have to xxxx[/quote "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"-Dr Seuss
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shellyevon said: thesexofit said: I've known more then a few girls who go out and stay with men who abuse them. "because i love him". And why the fuck would u stay with someone who punches the fuck outta u? Its tragic
These guys can be charming when thet're not angry. You always tell yourself that it wouldn't happen if you just could get "it" right. Only it's never right enough. You're never good enough and the only way to have any dignity is to not tell anyone. That's how it happens. You sound like one of the good guys, sexofit. These days iam a good guy i guess. Like most people on here proberly, i've been a bastard before (never, ever abusive physically though) but i've grown up. | |
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thesexofit said: shellyevon said: These guys can be charming when thet're not angry. You always tell yourself that it wouldn't happen if you just could get "it" right. Only it's never right enough. You're never good enough and the only way to have any dignity is to not tell anyone. That's how it happens. You sound like one of the good guys, sexofit. These days iam a good guy i guess. Like most people on here proberly, i've been a bastard before (never, ever abusive physically though) but i've grown up.  You're honest and that's really good."Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"-Dr Seuss
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shellyevon said: thesexofit said: These days iam a good guy i guess. Like most people on here proberly, i've been a bastard before (never, ever abusive physically though) but i've grown up. You're honest and that's really good.Iam a little too honest, but those days on here are long gone. I just hate seeing girls get manipulated by any man. U'd think they'd learn during their early teen years about how alot of men will manipulative u to fall in love with them. I talk to women like i do to men or anyone. I use to compliment a women constantly to bed them, and that premise works, but i dont do that anyore. Unfortunately, women will go for men who do constantly slur crude, insincire lines, or pretend to be sincire, playing on womans general insecurity about themselves. Iam still far from perfect, but i wont keep on chatting a girl up with bullshit about how nice they look. | |
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Women have been known to play games, too -- especially with "nice guys."
But, this thread is about the evil that men do. I'm not disputing that. I wish we all would be committed to being honest and loving with our respective significant others. 
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its nice to see that there are men who have replyed to this topic .....i know woman can to the same to men..but as im a woman who lived through the hell i just wanted to help others ..and to let them no that there not alone i was so scared of leaving him even though i was terrified not knowing what he was going to do next ...you find the strength and courage from somewhere to realise there is a world out there and there are decent people .....you dont need to live a life of abusive and mental torture ..i was scared of being alone how would i cope.....but with all the courage i had left i found it and live a happy life and now have a man who treats me like i never thought i could be treated with respect,love .and tells me im his world .....so please god if you are a man or woman going through this ....find the courage YOU CAN DO IT ...leave the evil world you live in ..LIFE IS TO SHORT..an precious .....but to all those who have owned up and admitted i take my hat off to you .....love ya all xxxxx | |
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don't make it an excuse to hate on all men.
what i don't understand is why good girls are constantly needing to try and "fix" dickhead guys. because it really can't be done... unless the guy in question just has a few problems that can be ironed out over time, i say look for someone at least fairly together to begin with. why go for the bad-boy image... they look and act like that for a reason... they're losers. EVERY relationship my sister has had has been like this... always fixing the fucked up ones.... only now she's realising the pattern others close to her have seen. there are good guys out there; don't think there aren't... remember, no one can treat you well if they don't treat themself well first.. maybe kinda obvious to some, but apparently not, to others. . [Edited 5/28/06 8:22am] | |
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JPW said: don't make it an excuse to hate on all men.
what i don't understand is why good girls are constantly needing to try and "fix" dickhead guys. because it really can't be done... unless the guy in question just has a few problems that can be ironed out over time, i say look for someone at least fairly together to begin with. why go for the bad-boy image... they look and act like that for a reason... they're losers. EVERY relationship my sister has had has been like this... always fixing the fucked up ones.... only now she's realising the pattern others close to her have seen. there are good guys out there; don't think there aren't... i know what your saying i lived through it and now have a great guy there are good ones out there its just sad that people have to suffer like this if a lot more admited what there doing and got help this world would be a better place ...as you lose your trust and self respect its hard to find it again but i found my man who give me all that back and more
remember, no one can treat you well if they don't treat themself well first.. maybe kinda obvious to some, but apparently not, to others. . [Edited 5/28/06 8:22am] | |
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sixftblonde6 said: JPW said: don't make it an excuse to hate on all men.
what i don't understand is why good girls are constantly needing to try and "fix" dickhead guys. because it really can't be done... unless the guy in question just has a few problems that can be ironed out over time, i say look for someone at least fairly together to begin with. why go for the bad-boy image... they look and act like that for a reason... they're losers. EVERY relationship my sister has had has been like this... always fixing the fucked up ones.... only now she's realising the pattern others close to her have seen. there are good guys out there; don't think there aren't... i know what your saying i lived through it and now have a great guy there are good ones out there its just sad that people have to suffer like this if a lot more admited what there doing and got help this world would be a better place ...as you lose your trust and self respect its hard to find it again but i found my man who give me all that back and more
remember, no one can treat you well if they don't treat themself well first.. maybe kinda obvious to some, but apparently not, to others. . [Edited 5/28/06 8:22am] what did you say? | |
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