1. Someone who cares.
2. Someone who still cares. | |
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ummm, let's see...
- teeth yeah, that would be very nice. | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: ummm, let's see...
- teeth yeah, that would be very nice. I still have some of my teeth! | |
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RebornVirgin said: IrresistibleB1tch said: ummm, let's see...
- teeth yeah, that would be very nice. I still have some of my teeth! front or back? (can you smile or can you chew?) | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: RebornVirgin said: I still have some of my teeth! front or back? (can you smile or can you chew?) One tooth in the back is missing. | |
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Fauxie said: Ocean's tummy
Mochalox's smile starkitty's hair Red's hands naked's eyes charlotte's boobs Shanti's bum Natsume's cheeks AzureStar's legs YES I made another list... | |
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Ex-Moderator | HereToRockYourWorld said: I'm cleaning up my hard drive, and I came upon this wish list that I wrote up. . . I was thinking about all of the things I want in a partner.
I bet I'm not the only one who has done this. Anyway, thought I'd share: "You laugh and cry with ease. You love to touch and be touched. You are deeply, wildly sexual, and we find each other sexually intoxicating. You love to play, but you can be serious. We love to talk to each other, and we love to be quiet together. You are quirky, and you like that in me. You are smart. . . wicked, crazy smart. . . and unpretentious about it. You are introspective. You believe in yourself. You know you're wonderful. You don't believe in not telling other people that they're wonderful if it's true. You don't get bored, except maybe by television. You are funny, with a deep dark twist. You are thoughtful, but you can let it go. You are honest. You don't play games with people. You have a filthy mouth. You mostly don't take yourself too seriously. You are down to Earth except when you're not. You take baths. You love to travel, and you love to be at home. You care about your surroundings, and have aesthetic opinions. You have your own style. You LOVE music. You want an urban life, with moss and saltwater on the side. You are gentle, and you are kind. You are open to people who aren't like you. You want to be your own person, but hold your life's partner close to who and where you are. You are beautiful, and you have multidimensional views of beauty. You live for emotional intimacy. Your friends are deserving of your time, and you give it to them. You respect your mother. You like animals, and you're the type of person who carries a spider outside in a cup. You take the time to find creatures in the clouds. You like tea and rain. You have tremendous integrity." I think if I edit out the spider in a cup thing (I hate spiders and I don't care who kills them), that's pretty much my list too. |
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Ex-Moderator | CalhounSq said: HereToRockYourWorld said: I'm cleaning up my hard drive, and I came upon this wish list that I wrote up. . . I was thinking about all of the things I want in a partner.
I bet I'm not the only one who has done this. Anyway, thought I'd share: "You laugh and cry with ease. You love to touch and be touched. You are deeply, wildly sexual, and we find each other sexually intoxicating. You love to play, but you can be serious. We love to talk to each other, and we love to be quiet together. You are quirky, and you like that in me. You are smart. . . wicked, crazy smart. . . and unpretentious about it. You are introspective. You believe in yourself. You know you're wonderful. You don't believe in not telling other people that they're wonderful if it's true. You don't get bored, except maybe by television. You are funny, with a deep dark twist. You are thoughtful, but you can let it go. You are honest. You don't play games with people. You have a filthy mouth. You mostly don't take yourself too seriously. You are down to Earth except when you're not. You take baths. You love to travel, and you love to be at home. You care about your surroundings, and have aesthetic opinions. You have your own style. You LOVE music. You want an urban life, with moss and saltwater on the side. You are gentle, and you are kind. You are open to people who aren't like you. You want to be your own person, but hold your life's partner close to who and where you are. You are beautiful, and you have multidimensional views of beauty. You live for emotional intimacy. Your friends are deserving of your time, and you give it to them. You respect your mother. You like animals, and you're the type of person who carries a spider outside in a cup. You take the time to find creatures in the clouds. You like tea and rain. You have tremendous integrity." GAWD, I love love LOVE your list! Nothing I can say can compare to that, I agree w/ everything you said... except the part about spiders, he can kill those fuckers I basically said the same thing! |
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-Has to be really handsome.
-Has to have a nice body and be in good shape. -hair would be prefered but bald is cool too. -Either my height or taller. Not shorter. -Good sized biceps. A 6-pack also preferred. -Full Lips, but not too red -Have manly nose. No wussy little baby noses. -No glasses. Wear contacts if needed, but not coloured ones. -Must have modern day views. Not into gender roles -Good table manners. Good manners in general. -Not into drama. Save the drama for your mama -No issues. No neediness -Must want to get married or have kids -Must be nice. -Must be practical -Must be intelligent and have quick wit or he will not "get" me at all. what do you reckon, I'm not asking for much am I? [Edited 5/21/06 5:09am] | |
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Kindness
Honesty The ability not to take themselves too seriously To love unconditionally To take the bad times along with the great ones And a nice furry chest is luverly | |
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- Loving
- Kind - Gentleman - Funny- witty - Good communicator - Knows what my needs are or is willing to learn them - Good listener - Down to earth - Straight forward- no games - Must have a sweet & sensitive side but also a strong manly side, must know when each side is appropriate.. - willing to let me love them and open up to me - be spiritual - love animals - be someone I could see having children with- good daddy material - Cannot be too much older then me- I like them younger or about the same age as me If he has all or most of those things- I will find him pretty adorable.. The only physical things I find unattractive are: - Too much body hair - Being too built & muscular One thing I have found as I get older is that I do not have a set type of man that I find attractive.. For me it is more personality and less about the looks- I guess I have learned the hard way that just because they are hot does not mean they are good lovers or partners.. | |
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You know what's funny? And this is not a judgement on anyone, but the initial post was so beautiful b/c it describes the essence of a person - the nougat that makes them sweet & special. There isn't one physical characteristic in it, which is why I think it's so cool.
Most of the others are chock full of "outer"... it's interesting . [Edited 5/21/06 5:12am] | |
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CalhounSq said: You know what's funny? And this is not a judgement on anyone, but the initial post was so beautiful b/c it describes the essence of a person - the nougat that makes them sweet & special. There isn't one physical characteristic in it, which is why I think it's so cool.
Most of the others are chock full of "outer"... it's interesting . [Edited 5/21/06 5:12am] My list was not serious, I hope you realise | |
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CalhounSq said: You know what's funny? And this is not a judgement on anyone, but the initial post was so beautiful b/c it describes the essence of a person - the nougat that makes them sweet & special. There isn't one physical characteristic in it, which is why I think it's so cool.
Most of the others are chock full of "outer"... it's interesting . [Edited 5/21/06 5:12am] I mentioned that in my post.. For me it is more personality and less about the looks- I guess I have learned the hard way that just because they are hot does not mean they are good lovers or partners.. | |
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ZombieKitten said: CalhounSq said: You know what's funny? And this is not a judgement on anyone, but the initial post was so beautiful b/c it describes the essence of a person - the nougat that makes them sweet & special. There isn't one physical characteristic in it, which is why I think it's so cool.
Most of the others are chock full of "outer"... it's interesting . [Edited 5/21/06 5:12am] My list was not serious, I hope you realise Didn't I say this wasn't a judgement on anyone? And I'm sure Spat's list (& some others) were totally serious I'm not pointing fingers | |
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CalhounSq said: ZombieKitten said: My list was not serious, I hope you realise Didn't I say this wasn't a judgement on anyone? And I'm sure Spat's list (& some others) were totally serious I'm not pointing fingers Oh I realise that but now looking back at my list you can't really tell that I'm taking the piss | |
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CalhounSq said: the initial post was so beautiful b/c it describes the essence of a person - the nougat that makes them sweet & special. There isn't one physical characteristic in it, which is why I think it's so cool.
Indeed, it was beautiful to read... I felt like I was reading a description of my Moonbeam (Ian)... because he is all that and more. Life can be bloody difficult, no doubt about it... but I know I am blessed because someone like the person HereToRockYourWorld described in her wish list adores me as much as I love them and I don't have to close my eyes and wish him into my life, he is already there, every beautiful part of him. No-one should ever give up on finding the person of their dreams, or think that people like that don't exist... trust me, they do. --ยปYou're my favourite moment, you're my Saturday... | |
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Diva said: CalhounSq said: the initial post was so beautiful b/c it describes the essence of a person - the nougat that makes them sweet & special. There isn't one physical characteristic in it, which is why I think it's so cool.
Indeed, it was beautiful to read... I felt like I was reading a description of my Moonbeam (Ian)... because he is all that and more. Life can be bloody difficult, no doubt about it... but I know I am blessed because someone like the person HereToRockYourWorld described in her wish list adores me as much as I love them and I don't have to close my eyes and wish him into my life, he is already there, every beautiful part of him. No-one should ever give up on finding the person of their dreams, or think that people like that don't exist... trust me, they do. nougat | |
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i mean i can give a list and all, and most of everybody else's lists were good, but c'mon, i'm not gonna realistically find a guy who meets all my needs on my wish list...i'm lucky if i could find one with half of the qualities that I want in a guy, and thats very hard to find. i'd rather make a list of inequalties that i could deal with in a guy since every guy i seem to meet has some.... I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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missfee said: i mean i can give a list and all, and most of everybody else's lists were good, but c'mon, i'm not gonna realistically find a guy who meets all my needs on my wish list...i'm lucky if i could find one with half of the qualities that I want in a guy, and thats very hard to find. i'd rather make a list of inequalties that i could deal with in a guy since every guy i seem to meet has some....
Yeah, which is why I posted Lauryn. | |
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CalhounSq said: You know what's funny? And this is not a judgement on anyone, but the initial post was so beautiful b/c it describes the essence of a person - the nougat that makes them sweet & special. There isn't one physical characteristic in it, which is why I think it's so cool.
Most of the others are chock full of "outer"... it's interesting [Edited 5/21/06 5:12am] Ya, I agree her list was very nice but I personally just can't make a wish list of what I want in a partner without also listing physical attributes. That's just as important to me. Maybe I'm just shallow. | |
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I've never made a list, but then again I was in a relationship for, like, 11 years. I would say I have to be attracted to her, sense of humor is way high on the list, unselfish and loyal. The rest would prob. just fall in line.
Oh yeah, fairly intelligent doesn't hurt either. | |
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jerseykrs said: I've never made a list, but then again I was in a relationship for, like, 11 years. I would say I have to be attracted to her, sense of humor is way high on the list, unselfish and loyal. The rest would prob. just fall in line.
Oh yeah, fairly intelligent doesn't hurt either. You're asking alot. Settle for a girl that doesn't press charges. | |
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kidelrich said: jerseykrs said: I've never made a list, but then again I was in a relationship for, like, 11 years. I would say I have to be attracted to her, sense of humor is way high on the list, unselfish and loyal. The rest would prob. just fall in line.
Oh yeah, fairly intelligent doesn't hurt either. You're asking alot. Settle for a girl that doesn't press charges. LMFAO | |
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jerseykrs said: kidelrich said: You're asking alot. Settle for a girl that doesn't press charges. LMFAO I would agree with your list, though. I don't wanna know anyone that doesn't get my sense of humor. Life's difficult enough as it is. | |
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kidelrich said: jerseykrs said: LMFAO I would agree with your list, though. I don't wanna know anyone that doesn't get my sense of humor. Life's difficult enough as it is. yeah, if I'm being honest, that has to be number one. I'm sarcastic in real life, always cracking jokes and stuff. I mean, of course I can be serious when appropriate. But if a girl can't laugh with me and make me laugh, forget it. | |
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jerseykrs said: kidelrich said: I would agree with your list, though. I don't wanna know anyone that doesn't get my sense of humor. Life's difficult enough as it is. yeah, if I'm being honest, that has to be number one. I'm sarcastic in real life, always cracking jokes and stuff. I mean, of course I can be serious when appropriate. But if a girl can't laugh with me and make me laugh, forget it. No one wants to be with a dud. | |
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JustErin said: jerseykrs said: yeah, if I'm being honest, that has to be number one. I'm sarcastic in real life, always cracking jokes and stuff. I mean, of course I can be serious when appropriate. But if a girl can't laugh with me and make me laugh, forget it. No one wants to be with a dud. Exactly. A girl that doesn't mind a 3 inch penis would be a bonus too. | |
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jerseykrs said: JustErin said: No one wants to be with a dud. Exactly. A girl that doesn't mind a 3 inch penis would be a bonus too. As long as it's got some girth... | |
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shanti0608 said: Fauxie said: Ocean's tummy
Mochalox's smile starkitty's hair Red's hands naked's eyes charlotte's boobs Shanti's bum Natsume's cheeks AzureStar's legs YES I made another list... Certainly did. Although Calhoun's post has now made me feel extremely shallow. Perhaps I'll add her nose or ears into the mix and she'll forgive me. Of course, my list, all aesthetic org admiration aside, would be very different. I just want someone who will challenge me, really. Someone whose life I can add something to and who can show me something I don't know or haven't experienced. Kindness is something I value, as is a personality very different to my own so that I can learn as I go along in the relationship. I just don't want to be bored ultimately. Someone I can enjoy stuff with, who has their own mind and will put their opinions forward in a well thought out way, who is not ferociously ambitious in the normal way, but who wants to finish up their life in this world with their soul in good shape. Looks are reasonably important, but ultimately I've always just wanted someone who would always hold my interest, be it through shared enjoyment or challenges, and make this lifetime a varied and interesting ride. | |
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