I'm cleaning up my hard drive, and I came upon this wish list that I wrote up. . . I was thinking about all of the things I want in a partner.

I bet I'm not the only one who has done this.

Anyway, thought I'd share:


"You laugh and cry with ease. You love to touch and be touched. You are deeply, wildly sexual, and we find each other sexually intoxicating. You love to play, but you can be serious. We love to talk to each other, and we love to be quiet together. You are quirky, and you like that in me. You are smart. . . wicked, crazy smart. . . and unpretentious about it. You are introspective. You believe in yourself. You know you're wonderful. You don't believe in not telling other people that they're wonderful if it's true. You don't get bored, except maybe by television. You are funny, with a deep dark twist. You are thoughtful, but you can let it go. You are honest. You don't play games with people. You have a filthy mouth. You mostly don't take yourself too seriously. You are down to Earth except when you're not. You take baths. You love to travel, and you love to be at home. You care about your surroundings, and have aesthetic opinions. You have your own style. You LOVE music. You want an urban life, with moss and saltwater on the side. You are gentle, and you are kind. You are open to people who aren't like you. You want to be your own person, but hold your life's partner close to who and where you are. You are beautiful, and you have multidimensional views of beauty. You live for emotional intimacy. Your friends are deserving of your time, and you give it to them. You respect your mother. You like animals, and you're the type of person who carries a spider outside in a cup. You take the time to find creatures in the clouds. You like tea and rain. You have tremendous integrity."

Has to be a non-smoker, non-drinker, no mind games

luv4u said:

Well. This list makes me look terribly picky.

1. Easy access.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

This and that...more that than this, though...

someone with a lot of patience eventhough i'm not. someone who loves deeply, likes to laugh and make me laugh especially. someone who can take the hard things in life in stride. determined. very intellectual, very sexual and extremely passionate about it. a dreamer like me. someone who doesn't mind sharing themselves with me on a deeper level. a person who is not so caught up with themselves that they don't see or are aware of the things that are happening to other people in this world. someone who appreciates the finer things but doesnt take it for granted. a person who treats me as i would them. respect,respect,respect,respect (need i say more?)

Byron said:

This is often overrated, I think, while that is quite often essential.

Fauxie said:

...both of those things you said there, although I don't agree with either thing you said there.

-Has to be really pretty.
-Has to have a nice body and be in good shape.
-Blonde hair would be prefered but black or brown will do.
-Either my height or slighty shorter. Not too short.
-Good sized breasts. Not too big not to small.
-Full Lips
-Have Cute nose. No big noses.
-No glasses. Wear contacts if needed.
-Must have modern day views. Not into gender roles
-Good table manners. Good manners in general.
-Not into drama. Save the drama for your mama
-No issues. No neediness
-Must not want to get married or have kids
-Must be nice.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

Well, i have taken spiders out of my home in a cup.

Tall, aware, dress well, cook good, don't play roles.

does anybody really take the time to read this stuff?

brownsugar said:

They don't. Shoot, neither do I.

Ocean's tummy
Mochalox's smile
starkitty's hair
Red's hands
naked's eyes
charlotte's boobs
Shanti's bum
Natsume's cheeks
AzureStar's legs

Be taller than me, have short hair, clear skin, straight teeth, great eyes and a sexy mouth, have a nice...er...package, have great style, be healthy, don't smoke, be smart and funny, be honest, be assertive and confident, don't put up with my bullshit, don't be a jealous jerk, don't be clingy or smothering, must like the same things as I do sexually, must not try to be my son's 'daddy', must have a good paying job, must like animals, be monogamous (no open relationships for me, thanks!), don't be too lovey dovey or touchy feely all the time, must maintain your relationships with your friends and not be bothered by me maintaining mine.

Basically, I want someone that is not expecting a fairytale romance.

brownsugar said:

I do! It's interesting to me.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

They need to be able to shoot laser beams from their eyes!

Still on the lookout for a sane...

slim, smooth, pretty, nice, intelligent.

JustErin said:

Me too.

Spats said:

And I don't want to get married or have kids! We're ALMOST entirely wrong for each other!

- intelligence. book smarts are good, but not necessary.
- good sense of humor. I like scat talk too, so that's a bonus.
- creativity. it doesn't matter how they vent that shit out, but it needs to be released.
- has to be into films!
- likes to travel, has a sense of adventure
- likes to go out but likes to stay at home, too~
- has some sort of goals in their future
- I hate to say it... but is family oriented. not anti-marriage or anti-children. not afraid of commitment.
- someone who drinks and is open to drugs. no alcoholics or drug addicts, though.
- generally open to music (meaning: DOESN'T OBJECT TO PRINCE! )

this is a work in progress. notes off the top of my head...

brownsugar said:

I read your post. It was only one line.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

Love your list.

Fauxie said:

Grr whats wrong with my hnds

Ocean said:

I've never seen them. Come to think of it, I'm not sure I've seen Red's. I was going with my instincts there.

A hand shot won't get a pic of me in a bikini in return though, before you ask.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

GAWD, I love love LOVE your list!

Nothing I can say can compare to that, I agree w/ everything you said... except the part about spiders, he can kill those fuckers

Spats said:

Spats, YOU would not make anyone's list. I guarantee you...

HereToRockYourWorld said: