I think I'm too nice with girls.

althom said:

i think it's the hot cross buns...

IrresistibleB1tch said:

You think?

althom said:

brownsugar said:

<-- althoms sexy look

Yeah, my boyfriend was talking to a female friend of his, giving her advice. . . she went out with this guy, and she thought it went fine, and then he didn't call for five days. He was telling her, oh, he might just be following guy rules, if you like him, give him a couple more days.

After he hung up, I asked him if he was smoking crack.

I mean, if she wants to play games, fine, but otherwise, fuck that shit. If I like somebody, I let them know it, and I expect the same in return.

Spats said:

This makes total sense because so many women love a challenge. However, these usually are the same chicks that think that they will be the ones to change a guy into the guy they want them to be instead of accepting them for the guy that they are.

althom said:

...ya know it's YOUUUU, baaabe....

And if you'd just called her sometimes and talked to her you might have been getting some sacktime already.

For her sake, I'm glad you took the 'playing hard to get' approach. You should upgrade to 'playing impossible to get'.

I bet this girl's name is LleeLlee.

Fauxie said:

Good advice...


Poor girl- I guess she is lonely.. hope I am NEVER that lonely...

JustErin said:

Soooo, true.

Oh wait, are we still talking about bears eating monkeys?
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RebornVirgin said:

That is just the name i am using for her here. She is a babe. Her name does not matter here because none of you know her. It's like the "Pretty Blonde" and the "Plain Jane Coffee Shop Girl".

TMPletz said:

He hopes so.
Cuz we won't be talking about wild bores eating kitties, that for sure.

TMPletz said:

We probably should be. I don't know about you, but whenever I'm talking about something else I get this nagging guilty feeling that I should be talking about bears eating monkeys.

Illustrator said:

charlottegelin said:

She asked him for my number (Yes!!!) and after getting the ok from me tonight he gave it to her. She's supposed to call me tomorrow. We'll see what happens. He lied and told her he didn't know if there was a problem or not. He knows not to say too much. Now things are on my terms.

Now i just have to decide what i am gonna tell her if and when she asks if everything is alright.

Nikster said:

It had to be this way because i can't bring myself to do the whole routine where they expect the guy to do the calling. I don't like that. Now i have worked it where she is calling me. I didn't know 100% for sure if it would work but it did.

Spats said:

How about the truth?

If I started dating someone who had lied to me, I'd drop their ass unless they had a good enough explanation for it. Any relationship that's lacking trust or I'd feel the need to play games with is not one that I'd keep on with.

althom said:

Girls don't like that. They will like you as a friend but you won't be getting sacktime.

Spats said:

JustErin said:

I have been through that before with women and they were shown the door. She does not look like that type though. That would be unfortunate.

Spats said:

That's not what happened with me, and it got me a lifetime sackmate.

Fauxie said:

Yeah, but i would not be getting sacktime on my terms. I would be giving in to her.

Spats said:

sometimes its okay to give in.

Spats said:

I'm just curious, how old is she and how old are you?

Spats said:

But you're not sleeping with anyone at the moment, am I right?