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Help! I'm madly in lust with a pair of babies! So I've developed a mad lust for not one, but two, of my guy friends. One's 18 and in a local metal band. The other's just barely 17 and a punk. The problem? I'm 21, making anything further than a hug with the metalboy awkward and anything with the punkboy illegal.
So do I grow some patience and wait til one or the other is older/of age, say to hell with it and go for it now, or do I find some lovely guy or girl my own age to get busy with? "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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meow85 said: So I've developed a mad lust for not one, but two, of my guy friends. One's 18 and in a local metal band. The other's just barely 17 and a punk. The problem? I'm 21, making anything further than a hug with the metalboy awkward and anything with the punkboy illegal.
So do I grow some patience and wait til one or the other is older/of age, say to hell with it and go for it now, or do I find some lovely guy or girl my own age to get busy with? The punkboy is illegal, so stay away from him till he's legal period. | |
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coolcat said: meow85 said: So I've developed a mad lust for not one, but two, of my guy friends. One's 18 and in a local metal band. The other's just barely 17 and a punk. The problem? I'm 21, making anything further than a hug with the metalboy awkward and anything with the punkboy illegal.
So do I grow some patience and wait til one or the other is older/of age, say to hell with it and go for it now, or do I find some lovely guy or girl my own age to get busy with? The punkboy is illegal, so stay away from him till he's legal period. I know that in my head, but if you saw this kid you'd understand why my libido's made it a problem. He's friggin' beautiful. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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metal or punk? GO FOR IT! JUST DO IT! YOU CAN DO ITTT! You only live once....just pray his mommy don't call the cops and bust you for statutory rape I know....how helpful looking for you in the woods tonight Switch FC SW-2874-2863-4789 (Rum&Coke) | |
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coolcat said: meow85 said: So I've developed a mad lust for not one, but two, of my guy friends. One's 18 and in a local metal band. The other's just barely 17 and a punk. The problem? I'm 21, making anything further than a hug with the metalboy awkward and anything with the punkboy illegal.
So do I grow some patience and wait til one or the other is older/of age, say to hell with it and go for it now, or do I find some lovely guy or girl my own age to get busy with? The punkboy is illegal, so stay away from him till he's legal period. My understanding is that it's not illegal to have sex with a 17 year old in Canada. The legal age of consent is 14. There are exceptions like being in a role of authority, and that kind of thing but it's not illegal for a 21 year old to have sex with a consenting 17 year old. Not that I am condoning an adult sleeping with a child. | |
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AnckSuNamun said: metal or punk? GO FOR IT! JUST DO IT! YOU CAN DO ITTT! You only live once....just pray his mommy don't call the cops and bust you for statutory rape I know....how helpful
That's about the advice I got from my other friends I've asked. Even the more straightlaced ones. If it wasn't for the illegality of it, I'd be leaning more towards punkboy. He's not nu-punk, he's old punk. Think late 70's, Clash/Ramones/Sex Pistols style. Yum. Where someone his age in this city picks up that look is beyond me, but that's so not the point. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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JustErin said: coolcat said: The punkboy is illegal, so stay away from him till he's legal period. My understanding is that it's not illegal to have sex with a 17 year old in Canada. The legal age of consent is 14. There are exceptions like being in a role of authority, and that kind of thing but it's not illegal for a 21 year old to have sex with a consenting 17 year old. Not that I am condoning an adult sleeping with a child. That's what I thought too. My problem is I haven't been able to find anywhere that clearly states the terms and conditions of it, because there's all kinds of exceptions and "in case of"s. More of a problem for me is that while both are physically bigger than me, and both act older than their ages, invariably something always pops up to remind me of their real ages. :-S "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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meow85 said: JustErin said: My understanding is that it's not illegal to have sex with a 17 year old in Canada. The legal age of consent is 14. There are exceptions like being in a role of authority, and that kind of thing but it's not illegal for a 21 year old to have sex with a consenting 17 year old. Not that I am condoning an adult sleeping with a child. That's what I thought too. My problem is I haven't been able to find anywhere that clearly states the terms and conditions of it, because there's all kinds of exceptions and "in case of"s. More of a problem for me is that while both are physically bigger than me, and both act older than their ages, invariably something always pops up to remind me of their real ages. :-S The legislation on it is actually pretty straightforward. Here is a site that explains it very well: http://www.web.ca/clgro/consent.htm and here is the actual Gov of Can site on it: http://dsp-psd.pwgsc.gc.c...b993-e.htm | |
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JustErin said: meow85 said: That's what I thought too. My problem is I haven't been able to find anywhere that clearly states the terms and conditions of it, because there's all kinds of exceptions and "in case of"s. More of a problem for me is that while both are physically bigger than me, and both act older than their ages, invariably something always pops up to remind me of their real ages. :-S The legislation on it is actually pretty straightforward. Here is a site that explains it very well: http://www.web.ca/clgro/consent.htm and here is the actual Gov of Can site on it: http://dsp-psd.pwgsc.gc.c...b993-e.htm Ya know, I actually did not know it was that clear cut. As for that whole "position of trust" thing, I've had to babysit both while they were too drunk to function, but I'm pretty sure that doesn't count. In that case.... Hey lil boys, how's a three-way sound? "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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meow85 said: AnckSuNamun said: metal or punk? GO FOR IT! JUST DO IT! YOU CAN DO ITTT! You only live once....just pray his mommy don't call the cops and bust you for statutory rape I know....how helpful
That's about the advice I got from my other friends I've asked. Even the more straightlaced ones. If it wasn't for the illegality of it, I'd be leaning more towards punkboy. He's not nu-punk, he's old punk. Think late 70's, Clash/Ramones/Sex Pistols style. Yum. Where someone his age in this city picks up that look is beyond me, but that's so not the point. Oh my, Erin, you're naughty | |
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GlamSlamKidjr said: meow85 said: That's about the advice I got from my other friends I've asked. Even the more straightlaced ones. If it wasn't for the illegality of it, I'd be leaning more towards punkboy. He's not nu-punk, he's old punk. Think late 70's, Clash/Ramones/Sex Pistols style. Yum. Where someone his age in this city picks up that look is beyond me, but that's so not the point. Oh my, Erin, you're naughty "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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