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PrintableNovabreaker said: Fauxie said: And if I remain so the rest of my life?  Well, there's always the excitement to be drawn from porn...  But I don't really get into that anymore either. | |
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Fauxie said: REDBABY said: Then that means I am a cheat and UNFAITHFUL.. does it?  Well, I don't know. Depends on your definition I guess. I have no answers, only questions. I've only been with one woman and never come close to cheating. As far as I see it, I've made a commitment and standing by that is extremely important. Sometimes I think I'm more committed to the idea of being faithful and being a good man than I actually am to my wife, but I think that may just be my cynicism picking holes unnecessarily. All I know is, I'm not scared of dying, not scared to live this life and not cram every possible achievement into it, and not scared of not finding the best everything I could possibly seek out for my life. I love my wife, don't get me wrong, but do I think at times there might be someone better out there for me? Yes I do, and the same for her in regards to me. But, this is just one road, one life, and I made a choice I'm happy with and I'm going to see it through. I don't see the sense in continually running around in circles looking for perfection. I'm happy and I'm interested. This life will be interesting and I'll be proud to say I lived my life with one woman, loving her, looking after her, and will have no regrets. If this one life is all there is, so what? There you go. I want to be interested, engaged, and never coasting. I could cheat, but my integrity won't allow it, and I know I will never cheat no matter what. My decision has already been made irrespective of what the future holds. It's my path and I'm loving seeing what happens as my life unfolds. Only been with one woman? I could never do that. Life is too short to not go out an expereince all you can. You only live once. Don't waste this life on one person. There is always someone better out there. | |
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Fauxie said: Novabreaker said: If I'd get married oneday, I'd never ever even look at other people.
I stopped checking women out the moment I fell in love. Why would I need to? That was the sign that I was in love. I figured the absence of wanting to do that was an indication that I had all I wanted or needed. Maybe I'm just a young naive pup. I think you are.I always kept checking out women even when i had girlfriends every friend i have does and i think most men do. Some for different reasons. Like their bored with their current woman. Their current woman has let themselves go. Stuff like that. I always checked out other women do see if there was anyone better looking around and to see what i was missing out on. | |
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I have never cheated. If i wanted someone else i would leave who i was with first. | |
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cant say i've never been unfaithful except for the 10 year relationship i ended. when i'm serious about a man and he is serious about me, he is the only man i need. | |
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Spats said: Only been with one woman? I could never do that. Life is too short to not go out an expereince all you can. You only live once. Don't waste this life on one person. There is always someone better out there. an opinion that is true and has value to YOU ... not everyone shares siad opinion  | |
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Mach said: Spats said: Only been with one woman? I could never do that. Life is too short to not go out an expereince all you can. You only live once. Don't waste this life on one person. There is always someone better out there. an opinion that is true and has value to YOU ... not everyone shares siad opinion You are right.Sadly there are other people who have a different opinion. | |
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Fauxie said: 
Do you think how attractive you are has a bearing on this? How about confidence? I've never cheated on my wife and she's the only person I've ever been in a relationship with, but I'm terribly shy and not particularly confident when it comes to my appearance, and I sometimes wonder if I'm really faithful or just so shy that I never put myself in tricky and tempting situations. Do you think if you're very attractive you have an excuse for cheating? Is it more difficult to stay faithful? Does it matter why you're faithful as long as you are? All these questions and no more, coming up, in this thread, right now. having good looks is not a reason to cheat  thats a copout. Being faithful in a relationship is only hard when you or that other person is not happy-and it has to be something really serious and just being 'tired' of that person. if your being faithful for anyother reason besides loving/respecting that person and feeling like you love this person in your life then it for the wrong reasons. | |
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Spats said: Mach said: an opinion that is true and has value to YOU ... not everyone shares siad opinion You are right.Sadly there are other people who have a different opinion. i dont see it as sad or bad that there are so many different opinions ... i dont see mine as right, except for me ... and i dont push mine on others...i hold respect for their choices and their process through life  | |
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Fauxie said: You all are some cheating mother fuckers.
 He cheated on me first  So I did the ultimate payback...I screwed his fraternity brother and best friend at the time....that'll teach a mother fucker a lesson or two. | |
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| i have never cheated I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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Spats said: I have never cheated. If i wanted someone else i would leave who i was with first.
Same. | |
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Guess I am the only one on here who can admit to screwing outside of relationship...ya'll some lame ass liars...  | |
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I honestly have no idea why anyone would want to cheat. It seems pretty useless to me.
I'll always check out other people, but not because I am looking for something better. I'm just looking, it's always nice to look at attractive people. I might become interested in someone else while in a relationship but that only happens when the relationship I am in is failing. So I don't bother sticking around, I just end it and move on. I also think that cheating vs not cheating has nothing to do with looks. It's all about the kind of person they are, not what they look like. | |
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notoriousj said: Guess I am the only one on here who can admit to screwing outside of relationship...ya'll some lame ass liars...
when i was a youngin like you i cheated on a guy to get back at him .. thinking i showed that bastard ... only to learn i really just cheated myself and didnt show him a thing | |
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brownsugar said: Fauxie said:
Do you think how attractive you are has a bearing on this? How about confidence? I've never cheated on my wife and she's the only person I've ever been in a relationship with, but I'm terribly shy and not particularly confident when it comes to my appearance, and I sometimes wonder if I'm really faithful or just so shy that I never put myself in tricky and tempting situations. Do you think if you're very attractive you have an excuse for cheating? Is it more difficult to stay faithful? Does it matter why you're faithful as long as you are? All these questions and no more, coming up, in this thread, right now. having good looks is not a reason to cheat thats a copout. Being faithful in a relationship is only hard when you or that other person is not happy-and it has to be something really serious and just being 'tired' of that person. if your being faithful for anyother reason besides loving/respecting that person and feeling like you love this person in your life then it for the wrong reasons.Hey, I was just raising the question, not putting it forward as a valid argument. I totally agree. | |
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Spats said: Fauxie said: Well, I don't know. Depends on your definition I guess. I have no answers, only questions. I've only been with one woman and never come close to cheating. As far as I see it, I've made a commitment and standing by that is extremely important. Sometimes I think I'm more committed to the idea of being faithful and being a good man than I actually am to my wife, but I think that may just be my cynicism picking holes unnecessarily. All I know is, I'm not scared of dying, not scared to live this life and not cram every possible achievement into it, and not scared of not finding the best everything I could possibly seek out for my life. I love my wife, don't get me wrong, but do I think at times there might be someone better out there for me? Yes I do, and the same for her in regards to me. But, this is just one road, one life, and I made a choice I'm happy with and I'm going to see it through. I don't see the sense in continually running around in circles looking for perfection. I'm happy and I'm interested. This life will be interesting and I'll be proud to say I lived my life with one woman, loving her, looking after her, and will have no regrets. If this one life is all there is, so what? There you go. I want to be interested, engaged, and never coasting. I could cheat, but my integrity won't allow it, and I know I will never cheat no matter what. My decision has already been made irrespective of what the future holds. It's my path and I'm loving seeing what happens as my life unfolds. Only been with one woman? I could never do that. Life is too short to not go out an expereince all you can. You only live once. Don't waste this life on one person. There is always someone better out there. I have all I need. I'm glad for not feeling I need to look elsewhere. I like the contentment. I met a woman, fell in love and that feeling is still there. I'm hardly going to start looking around just for the sake of it and because you or someone else think that's what every guy does or should do if I'm already happy. I'm also glad for being shy as I go unnoticed by women. Suits me just fine. No drama, no worry for my wife, no worry for me about her feeling paranoid or insecure. | |
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Fauxie said: Spats said: Only been with one woman? I could never do that. Life is too short to not go out an expereince all you can. You only live once. Don't waste this life on one person. There is always someone better out there. I have all I need. I'm glad for not feeling I need to look elsewhere. I like the contentment. I met a woman, fell in love and that feeling is still there. I'm hardly going to start looking around just for the sake of it and because you or someone else think that's what every guy does or should do if I'm already happy. I'm also glad for being shy as I go unnoticed by women. Suits me just fine. No drama, no worry for my wife, no worry for me about her feeling paranoid or insecure.  | |
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Imago said: Fauxie said: I have all I need. I'm glad for not feeling I need to look elsewhere. I like the contentment. I met a woman, fell in love and that feeling is still there. I'm hardly going to start looking around just for the sake of it and because you or someone else think that's what every guy does or should do if I'm already happy. I'm also glad for being shy as I go unnoticed by women. Suits me just fine. No drama, no worry for my wife, no worry for me about her feeling paranoid or insecure. What? Does it really sicken you so?
I'm off to bed, it's past 1am. | |
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unfortunatly i have....just once.
once a long long long time ago. i would have been 20 so....um...12 years ago. i was dating this guy and i slept with someone else. i felt so guilty i broke up with my boyfriend the next day. i still feel guilty. sorry Jonny. [Edited 5/8/06 12:02pm] you're only as old as you feel..............so how old do i feel 
Now that food has replaced sex in my life, I can't even get into my own pants. | |
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I've only kissed another guy while in a relationship - but the relationship was dead as fuck anyway, never felt an ounce of guilt about it    I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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Once.
It's not an excuse but it was already over when I did it. It was New Years, 20 million years ago. M MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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CarrieMpls said: If I don't post on this thread, will that implicate me in some way?
exactly what I was thinking
Im faithful if anyone cares "Nobody makes me bleed my own blood...NOBODY!"
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JustErin said: I honestly have no idea why anyone would want to cheat. It seems pretty useless to me.
I'll always check out other people, but not because I am looking for something better. I'm just looking, it's always nice to look at attractive people. I might become interested in someone else while in a relationship but that only happens when the relationship I am in is failing. So I don't bother sticking around, I just end it and move on. I also think that cheating vs not cheating has nothing to do with looks. It's all about the kind of person they are, not what they look like.  but it's the methods by which you do so that can arouse curiosity of an unknown nature | |
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Mach said: notoriousj said: Guess I am the only one on here who can admit to screwing outside of relationship...ya'll some lame ass liars...
when i was a youngin like you i cheated on a guy to get back at him .. thinking i showed that bastard ... only to learn i really just cheated myself and didnt show him a thing Actually I felt better...cause it hurt him like he hurt me....we were even....alls fair in love and war.  | |
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I almost had a full blown affair with someone 6 or 7 years ago. Biggest mistake of my life. I'm SOOOO glad that things didn't go beyond just the one kiss she gave me, and I'm glad I was honest about it with Rachel and she forgave me. It was a hard time in my life where everything was just a bit mixed up. but I'm glad it all ended like it should have. | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: Once.
It's not an excuse but it was already over when I did it. It was New Years, 20 million years ago. A Jurassic Affair? |
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 @ Jurassic Affair. Seems like a phrase that'd be in a pun that might follow:
"She was sooooo big..." "How big was she?" 
As for the thread question. No, I've never cheated. I know what it's like to be in a relationship with someone who might have (to this day, I'm still not sure). And, I know very well what's it's like to be tempted to cross that line. Sometimes, women get all manner of evil and flirty, when they know you're seeing someone... | |
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