I've been in a few relationships that I would consider "REAL." Let me talk about them in order of their importance to me. I will not be sharing real names but simply numbers. The number goes along with their importance, not order in which they took place in my life.

1)I met this girl on a "blind dates" of sorts. I tried my best to impress her and really thought I did. Later, I found out I totally blew it. After that I suggested we be friends. (My friend's idea at the time, so I thought why not?) I'm so glad we did. She was one of the best female friends I had. She was like the big sister I never got a chance to have in some ways. I could call her upset and she would listen. She influenced a lot of the things about myself also. While we aren't close anymore, she was a big influence on me.

2)This girl I dated for almost a year. (10 months...give or take) and she was ready for the whole deal: marriage, kids, etc. At 17, that kind of scared me, but she was hot enough and nice enough, so I went along with it. While we did break up, it was strange for awhile, because she went from being someone I would speak to ten times every day to NEVER speaking to at all. While it did fill that teenage wish of mine for a "long term" relationship, it also showed me that it wasn't everything it was cracked up to be in my head.

3)This was the first real girlfriend I ever had. She was hot, she was nice and we still are in contact to this very day via MySpace. She was always a blast to be around and she could always make me laugh.

There you go.....sorry for ranting.

Great thread!!!

Cheek said:

that's no good, or maybe it is?

Okay....if we are talking physical "relationships" then I have had maybe 7 or 8... that only includes those that were meaningful and last some time... each of those relationships were learning experiences and I left all of those relationships on good terms. I've seen most of them here or there and have always had very cordial interactions with them.

If we are talking all relationships that include non-physical.... hell I dunno...maybe a few hundred.... There will have to be a much better definition of "relationships" if you want a clear answer...

I would define it for this topic as a an intense physical or HIGHLY emotional connection with someone you loved... to this the number would be maybe 3 or 4....

charlottegelin said:

Sorry!!! I had to do that!!!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: