Love can be defined as many things to different people . It has many forms and comes and goes freely, but I think that love is just an unbreakable bond between two people. The feeling of love for another can never be changed "it just is" like Prince said . How do you define love? Do you think that it can be defined? If you care to share-what is your most memorable moment of love? I would have to say my most memorable moment was when my son was born and I saw him for the first time .

In memory of Captain Chaos, I would like to say that love is usually $50- $200 an hour depending on the girl.

u2prnce said:

Interesting -so you think that love can be bought?

nurse said:

Certain kinds of love, I guess. I'm really just speaking in memory of the Captain. It's not necessarily my point of view.

for me, love encompases everything: trust, honesty, respect, security, fear, co-operation, adoration, affection, comfort, support, loyalty, etc...
EDIT: and lust, passion, compassion, desire...

all the components that are required for a healthy relationship equal love for me...
now, depending on the intensity of the love, depends on how many of those components are present...



and then, there's a difference between loving someone, and being in love with someone...

and when you have BOTH of those..it's truly a beautiful thing...
[Edited 5/7/06 10:30am]

SammiJ said:

This is so true. Healthy relationships do require all of these things and like you said, unfortunately some get being in love confused with loving someone. Nicely said SammiJ .

nurse said:

thanks
and just so make things clear, not every well-rounded relationship has to have ALL of those...most do, but people will make what they have work, determination, which i think is the biggest component
if the love is strong enough, the worth of keeping it is so much stronger
and the reward is beautiful

SammiJ said:

Beautiful...and perfect answer.

Byron said:

thankyee

My most memorable moment of experiencing/feeling love would probably be any one of the thousands of times I've felt the connection with my daughter...the first time I laid eyes on her it was overwhelming.

My most memorable moment of romantic love...I'll keep that one to myself.

Byron said:

Thanks for sharing these moments Byron . The babies always get me too .

nurse said:

The first time I saw my little brother after he came back from the hospital in 1995.


I was so scared as my mom came up the elevator and I saw her holding a little bundle on her shoulder. I was 14.

She went down the hallway and I saw a little peach face with big grey eyes open lookin dead at me.

I couldnt move! I knew that i would love my little brother forever at that moment!

paisleypark4 said:

Awww! How sweet .

nurse said:

I cant imagine the love that is of your very own child. I cannot wait for my day


Matter of fact..I had a very strange dream last night...



I was at a Sperm bank where all the celeb's go.
And i was paid like $40 fo mine for some reason. I had to come back later because I 4got my keys.
And I saw in the office a woman saying yes I would like that one as she went in2 the room pointing to a pic of me. I ran in the door to find her, but she wasnt there anymore. LOL!!!!
[Edited 5/7/06 10:59am]

paisleypark4 said:

Too funny .

WOW!Nobody has any other love stories .

It's a hormone.

That's not an easy question for me at the moment.

Truly respecting the other one's core and dreams, and your own, and make the positive energy that flows from this combination stronger.

Something like that.

MarieLouise said:

Truly a nice way to look at love .

Love? Love is wonderful.

Cupid, on the other hand, is a nasty little mofo

Thats all I have to say right now!

susannah said:

Yes-That damn Cupid!

IMO, true Love is always an outgoing emotion.

Love is a never-ending fuel supply that originates in every human being's heart with which we all have the choice (will) to tap into or not.

For me, if I'm ever feel lonely or sad, that is the universe's way of reminding me of this, which means it's time for me to go out & do something for some-one else. Whether it be surprising my girlfriend with flowers or some such, checking in on my elderly nieghbors, calling a friend with the intent of listening more than talking, planning the next step for cause I'm involved with, etc..
The feeling of being "unloved" is a reminder that it's time to be more loving.

I remember some-one once saying, "To fill your heart up with Love, just empty it assisting your fellow man. You will find that your heart refills itself up instantly."
For myself, this is great way not only to put some perspective on the "problem" of lonelyness (or any other self-induced form of negativity), but also to experience the unlimited supply & power of the Love that resides in us all.

Illustrator said:

Simply Beautiful .

Illustrator said:

wow...
that's a really powerful thought
something i think a lot of people should think about more often - something i should think about more often

..untouchable...


chemical embalancement...

dead..

self love is better thought....


emo...


i..like..these..dots...

they..make..me...look..romantic...



but seriously...i think love is a weird little fairy.

Novabreaker said:

:violin:

It usually involves candles, dripping wax and vegetables.

Illustrator said:

this is better than the index cards! (sorry Byron! )
so true, when I had a baby I thought I might run out of love! But I had an infinite amount of it so I kept having more kids which might not have been such a smart move financially, but they are so loved, and their daddy? well
[Edited 5/7/06 22:18pm]

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SammiJ said: