Any of you have a crush on someone right now? Would you rather make a move or just keep on crushin'?

I have a crush on someone that I had a fling with a couple of years ago. We always kept in touch and now we talk almost every day. I always love talking to him and getting that little excited feeling when we do. Now that I am single we talk about picking up right where we left off years ago, but a part of me wants to just keep this crazy sexual tension alive and just not go there...even tho it's killing me and I'm just dying to hook up with him.

Is that weird?

dunno. Haven't had a crush in years

JustErin said:

It's not weird...the fantasy is always more fun than the reality...but, it lacks in other areas...

JustErin said:

This is crazy chick talk. No games, do what feels good for both of you!

JustErin said:

sounds like a kate bush song.

yes

SUPAsexy said:

Is it really?? Damn, I thought I grew outta that!

I just know that once we go there...all those feelings will disappear.

charlottegelin said:

yes. and i'm planning on doing something about it.

Potential is a powerful thing.

Enjoy your crush for awhile. The buildup makes the end result all the more delicious!

JustErin said:

Why are the feelings going to disappear??? This sounds like some other issue to me.

WillyWonka said:

like fountains of chocolate cascading over Marshmallow mountains?!

SUPAsexy said:

I think it's much like that...

i have a crush on someone..im not sureif this person is male or female..but well first off all if this person dont exist..this person is just a mix of what i find alluring..is there something wrong with me?
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weepingwall said:

ur loosing it

twister6 said:

screw you..mostly becuase your telling the truth.

SUPAsexy said:

Because I am clearly nuts, I guess.

I know that this guy is not interested in anything serious. If he was, we would of had a serious relationship when we first met. He's all about the bootay.

He is smoking hot, smart, funny, we get along like two peas in a pod, and had amazing sexual chemistry but he's also a commitmentphobe. In the two years since we met he's been with countless girls.

I just know that once we hook up all that tension will be gone and we'll probably stop talking.

OMG...I'm sounding like a teenager.

SUPAsexy said:

OH MY!

But, erm..yes! Like that.

JustErin said:

doing this whole you wanna dance routine but sitting in the bleachers batting your eyes wondering if you should dance but knowing both of you really want to go to the hop....well it is kinda Don't worry tho, I'm crazier than a bat in a belfry

weepingwall said:

EXED

SUPAsexy said:

Hahaha.

He's just too delicious to resist so I should just go ahead and make that late night call, get it over with then move on.

I'm an adult, I can deal with the rejection that is sure to follow.

I was just wondering if there are others as nuts as I am.

JustErin said:

just pour some chocolate on his marshmallows and dig in!

JustErin said:

you sound very sensible. If you want to keep enjoying it, keep doing what you're doing, cause once you cross that line - jealousy, anger, disbelief, hurt, resentment etc. once it's over with you and he's onto someone new (from what you're saying the guy is shallow).

Byron said:

This thread just went over to the dark side

WillyWonka said:

If my current crush, Kiefer Sutherland, calls me up and is willing to pick up where we left off (you know, in my head, and all), I'm on it.

Yes, you're nuts.


I haven't had a real crush in a long time. It sounds kinda like fun, except for this blasted monogamy bullshit that I've gotten myself tangled up in. . .

charlottegelin said:

charlottegelin said:

Hrm...I wouldn't call him shallow. He's just another person that was once burned by someone close and is not not willing to put his heart on the line again. I'm sure he will when he meets the right girl. I know that this girl is not me so I'm not even gonna try.

As for jealousy, I'll feel it for sure but I am really good at dealing with those issues without acting out on them. I won't feel hurt, resentment or anger because I've already dealt with the fact that I'm not someone he wants to be in a serious relationship with.

I'm ok with all that.

I just like the feelings I am feeling now and am wanting to hang onto them as long as possible...but of course, at the same time I am seriously craving that physical attention from him that I know I can have if I just say the word.