If my current crush, Kiefer Sutherland, calls me up and is willing to pick up where we left off (you know, in my head, and all), I'm on it.

Yes, you're nuts.


I haven't had a real crush in a long time. It sounds kinda like fun, except for this blasted monogamy bullshit that I've gotten myself tangled up in. . .

charlottegelin said:

charlottegelin said:

Hrm...I wouldn't call him shallow. He's just another person that was once burned by someone close and is not not willing to put his heart on the line again. I'm sure he will when he meets the right girl. I know that this girl is not me so I'm not even gonna try.

As for jealousy, I'll feel it for sure but I am really good at dealing with those issues without acting out on them. I won't feel hurt, resentment or anger because I've already dealt with the fact that I'm not someone he wants to be in a serious relationship with.

I'm ok with all that.

I just like the feelings I am feeling now and am wanting to hang onto them as long as possible...but of course, at the same time I am seriously craving that physical attention from him that I know I can have if I just say the word.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

Come on its not that bad and you know it.

notoriousj said:

What, having a crush on Kiefer? It's torture! We live in different states! You know how awful that can be! Of course, souls know nothing of miles when they touch, so perhaps you're right. . .

Oh, wait, you mean monogamy. No, dude, it sucks. My main course is delicious, but I still wouldn't mind a side dish now and again.

charlottegelin said:

Hrm...I wouldn't call him shallow. He's just another person that was once burned by someone close and is not not willing to put his heart on the line again. I'm sure he will when he meets the right girl. I know that this girl is not me so I'm not even gonna try.

As for jealousy, I'll feel it for sure but I am really good at dealing with those issues without acting out on them. I won't feel hurt, resentment or anger because I've already dealt with the fact that I'm not someone he wants to be in a serious relationship with.

I'm ok with all that.

I just like the feelings I am feeling now and am wanting to hang onto them as long as possible...but of course, at the same time I am seriously craving that physical attention from him that I know I can have if I just say the word.

OK then

would be nice though to meet a guy who DOES want to be only with you though, hope your feelings for this one aren't standing in the way.

JustErin said:

Seriously...you're not nuts...it just sounds like you're lonely and want some attention from a guy you are attracted to. It might be better to hold out a bit longer for someone who honestly and genuinely is interested in YOU. Don't sell yourself short.

applekisses said:

Don't sell yourself short, BUT, if you want this guy for booty calls and he's cool with that, hit it! Life is too short, sex is too good. . .

charlottegelin said:

It would very nice. I certainly don't have blinders on when it comes to meeting new people and I'm not pining away to be with this guy. I guess I'm just enjoying the attention he's giving me and I don't want it to stop.

I just want to have my cake and eat it too!

HereToRockYourWorld said:

There ya go! I totally agree...but, keep it in perspective and it's ALL good

eh i had one but they dont last long. basically i just see it as someone to entertain me for the moment. there is someone who is more than a crush but we just don't have time for eachother

eh i had one but they dont last long. basically i just see it as someone to entertain me for the moment. there is someone who is more than a crush but we just don't have time for eachother

applekisses said:

Ya, I do want that. I'm just afaid that he'll lose interest quickly. When there is such a huge buildup the end result can be very anticlimatic, you know?

applekisses said:

Ya, I do want that. I'm just afaid that he'll lose interest quickly. When there is such a huge buildup the end result can be very anticlimatic, you know?

JustErin said:

Well...see...you have set an expectation...you may not be in it just for the booty...if that's the case, then you run that risk of being hurt.

applekisses said:

Argh!!!!

Ok, I hate smart people.

i dream about you last night..
and i fell out of bed twice..
you can pin and mount me like a butterfly.
but take me to haven of your bed
was something that you never said..
two lumps please..your the bees knees
but so im i!
meet me at the fountain
shove me at the patio..

weepingwall said:

I love that song...

weepingwall said:

I love that song...

brownsugar said:

Hey, now. . . life is too short, love is too good.

notoriousj said:

What, having a crush on Kiefer? It's torture! We live in different states! You know how awful that can be! Of course, souls know nothing of miles when they touch, so perhaps you're right. . .

Oh, wait, you mean monogamy. No, dude, it sucks. My main course is delicious, but I still wouldn't mind a side dish now and again.

My hard-to-resist-crush (won't be up long):


*Le sigh*
[Edited 5/2/06 22:13pm]

JustErin said:

i missed it.