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PrintableLleeLlee said: Spats said: I am not a man because i don't think pregnant women are attractive?? That makes no sense. They can go anywhere they want. I was just saying that it's a turnoff. relax.
you're not a man and discussing why you are not a man is pointless as you are too dim to comprehend anybodys point of view but your own. you have the social skills of a donkey. and the maturity of a fifth grader Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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jerseykrs2 said: If you have a problem with sex after that, then you're just an idiot.
every village has an idiot even the org 
so... just so we can keep track of opinions, so far on this thread nays - 
yays - every other single person on the thread  She couldn't stop crying 'cause she knew he was gone to stay | |
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unlucky7 said: ok weird question, but has anyone (female) dreamt of their child before it was born, I asked a few people and they said they dreamt of their child.
I did ! | |
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virginie74 said: unlucky7 said: ok weird question, but has anyone (female) dreamt of their child before it was born, I asked a few people and they said they dreamt of their child.
I did ! They say ur child turns out 2 b like the person u look at everyday | |
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shit, should women? | |
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Spats said: My friend told me he felt like he was in the movie "Alien".
 Ahhh I'm in luck then...that's one of my hubby's favorite movies  | |
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origmnd said: Michael Savage says the men should be in a bar drinking and wait till its over.
He says it'll kill their sex life by seeing her insides being ripped out. savage is a male discrace of course men should bare witness im glad i did | |
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yes fathers should be at the birth of thier chidren.
I held my daughter for the first six hours of her life, changed her first nappy (diaper). When they moved my family back to the ward, I think they had Top of the Pops 2 on and the Carpenters was playing 'close to you'. I play this on her birthday just for me and every time i have tears in my eyes. Just put in and yep tears!!!! | |
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EskomoKisses said: Spats said: My friend told me he felt like he was in the movie "Alien".
Ahhh I'm in luck then...that's one of my hubby's favorite movies One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
love is a gift 
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alwayslate said: shit, should women?
i'll never forget during the birth of my son, he was on his way and things were getting a bit crazy in there (the doctor was stuck in traffic) ... everyone was running around getting things ready and i said, "wait, i need a mirror" the ENTIRE room looked at me like i was a nut as if i had to fix my hair or something lol...
i said, "no, i want to WATCH" it was really funny, and i got my mirror  One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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Imago said: I'm not going romantacize it by saying that it is a beautiful experience.
It's a traumatizing, stressful, painful, and often tense experience. But (I'm going to sound like the raving Buddhist again), when the baby is finally born, and the room erupts in tears and jubilation, that part is beautiful, becuase at a very very basic level, the fragile nature of life and the obvious miracle of what it takes to give birth to it, becomes appearent in a way that can't be described except by experiencing it. Every selfish and greedy adult in that room is transformed into a protective being who only wants to bestow compassion on the newborn. I walked in just after my first nephew was born, and saw the afterbirth, saw the bloody baby, and saw an exhuasted younger sister of mine lying there looking relieved, and I swear to God, it was the first time in my life I felt the presence of something devine. The very first time. Men confound me, the way we've bought off on social norms of how to behave towards women, and towards ourselves.  I mean, most of our fathers barely even know who we are.
Whover that idiot is that made that statement about being in the bar has my sympathies. . [Edited 4/29/06 8:12am]  That is PERFECT!Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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Spats said: Not if they still want to have sex with their woman. A friend of mine witnessed it and it turned him off his wife. And I have heard plenty of the same about other guys. hell it's a turnoff seeing a woman pregnant. never mind seeing her give birth.
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I would have been really upset if I wouldn't have been in the room for any of my kids being born. Each time I held my wife's hand and was there for her, and I can't imagine being anywhere else. I wasn't just there to see my babies right away, but to be there for Rachel as well. If anyone can't handle it, then they're just showing their ignorance and being selfish, but I would expect no less from SOME people ( ).
I've watched my three babies being born, and still I love giving  to her.  | |
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I am pregnant and my bf wants to be here, but next to me, not in front. I don't blame him. | |
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Just as with any serious life event involving a couple, a decision like this needs to be worked out between the two involved. There are actually a few situations where the father being there might not be the best thing for either the pregnant woman or him. Since she's the one taking the physical risks, doing the work of labor and delivery, she needs to be supported and comfortable. Most of the time, this involves the father of the baby being there--other times, it might not. | |
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Men should see as many childbirths as possible. Their own children. Other people's children. Repeatedly, with their eyelids held open. | |
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u2prnce said: Men should see as many childbirths as possible. Their own children. Other people's children. Repeatedly, with their eyelids held open.
As a birth control method? | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: u2prnce said: Men should see as many childbirths as possible. Their own children. Other people's children. Repeatedly, with their eyelids held open.
As a birth control method?For people like the , yes. | |
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I gave birth to twins. At first I thought my then husband was gonna faint. But he hung in there after my first daughter was born he was soo confused he didn't know whether to hug and hold the first baby or wait for the next one to come out LOL..The the doctor took mercy on him and he ended up holding his new baby girl while he witnessed her sister coming into the world. He could not speak for 8 at least hours after that. He said he witnessed a miracle! | |
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nammie said: I gave birth to twins. At first I thought my then husband was gonna faint. But he hung in there after my first daughter was born he was soo confused he didn't know whether to hug and hold the first baby or wait for the next one to come out LOL..The the doctor took mercy on him and he ended up holding his new baby girl while he witnessed her sister coming into the world. He could not speak for 8 at least hours after that. He said he witnessed a miracle!
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AnotherLoverToo said: u2prnce said: Men should see as many childbirths as possible. Their own children. Other people's children. Repeatedly, with their eyelids held open.
As a birth control method?Yes. it will turn millions of men off sex for good. | |
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cborgman said: Spats said: My friend is an idiot because he married an ugo. Not because he was disgusted by the birth. alright, i will modify. your friend is an immature idiot who should be barred from reproducing his immature and stupid ways, and pity the girl who was unfortunate enought to bear his retarded seed. i mean, seriously, how old are you and he? 14? I pity the girl because she's ugly. What a person finds physically attractive has nothing to do with how old you are. | |
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LleeLlee said: Spats said: I am not a man because i don't think pregnant women are attractive?? That makes no sense. They can go anywhere they want. I was just saying that it's a turnoff. relax.
you're not a man and discussing why you are not a man is pointless as you are too dim to comprehend anybodys point of view but your own. you have the social skills of a donkey. Become an expert on what a man is and then judge me. | |
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Spats said: I pity the girl because she's ugly.
I cannot believe you just said that. | |
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I have three kids and no one should witness childbirth, men or women.  When my daughter was born, the doctor asked if i wanted a mirror. I told him: hell no. Didn't stop her dad from delivering the blow by blow to me. I felt like throwing up. I was like: Dude, shut the fuck up. If I don't want to watch it, you can be damn sure I don't want to hear about it.
And yeah, Savage is a fucking moron. | |
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TMPletz said: Spats said: I pity the girl because she's ugly.
I cannot believe you just said that.
You will never, ever see a picture of Spats on this website.  | |
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TMPletz said: Spats said: I pity the girl because she's ugly.
I cannot believe you just said that. Well she is. When he was dating her i tried to discourage him from dating her. But he would not listen and Now he is paying for it. | |
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SammiJ said: jerseykrs2 said: For our first child, while she was in the thick of pain, her mom, sisters, friends, all SORTS of people were there. She screamed to me "GET EVERYONE THE FUCK OUT OF HERE CHRISTOPHER!!!!!" I laugh at it now, but at the time, I was like, um, yeah, everyone needs to get out.....yeh i wouldnt want the whole family seeing my vajayjay all possessed like that but the FATHER?! yeeeh...he's gunna stay right there!!  reminds me of the newest dairy queen commercial... 
http://youtube.com/watch?...ry%20queen d00d u can find ANYTHING on youtube! 
[Edited 4/29/06 7:41am] u're the only one I know who uses that word.... and it's supercute. | |
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