ShySlantedEye1 said:

Its that serious huh?

ShySlantedEye1 said:

Damn!! Let me give you a .

ThreadCula said:

Oh hell yeah! The fucker is nuts!

nurse said:

Byron said:

You have no idea how wonderful I think that (you) is (are).

I have an ex and our relationship ended badly. Years and years later after the hurt had subsided (on my part) and I'd thought we'd both grown up, I tried to contact them just to say "Hey, I know we had our tough times and I'm sorry for the hurtful things I said and did during our relationship..but I still think of you fondly, I still can see the terrific qualities you have as a person, and I'd love to be able to email or talk every now and then"

The response I receieved was so cruel, and so hurtful, and my overture was rebuffed in the most nasty manner I could've imagined. I later found out from a mutual friend that my ex said our time together (almost 4 years) "wasn't ever that important", and that I never really meant anything. That stung, and I felt incredibly foolish.

You're giving your daughter a great gift by role modeling to her how to value exes, and maintain a relationship with them. Again I say, your daughter is a lucky girl to have you as her father.

ShySlantedEye1 said:

i hear ya

WillyWonka said:

Those oompas can be so mean!

WillyWonka said:

Awww sorry Willy, some people just don't appreciate someone who's as good as you .

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Oh boy, don't I know it!

nurse said:

Thank you.

WillyWonka said:

I'm sorry you had to experience that... ...The truth, though, is that if you "never really meant anything" to this person, they would not have reacted and responded with the emotions they did (even if those emotions were negative)...they would have responded with calm indifference. They betray their own words with the way they responded.

It's not much to hang on to, I know...but I do believe it to be true.

I never had a very serious ex thank god

I have never spoken to any of my ex girlfriends since we broke up. I cut it off completely.

I have stayed friends with some of my ex's for a while usually does not last. Depends on the situation really.
Some of them were more friends to me then lovers so I could go back to be friends with them.

I had coffee with my first boyfriend a week ago, nothing there. I can't even imagine that I was with him for 5 years he's a nice guy and all, nothing hideous or anything. I just feel I have grown up and moved on and he still seems exactly the same as 17 years ago

Spats said:

Restraining orders do have that effect...

I dumped their asses. Not the other way around.

Byron said:

Ha! You read my mind Byron!!!


Well- being dumped by Spat was a blessing to those girls I am sure...

nurse said:

Very friendly. She's coming over tomorrow night to watch TV.

I have very complicated relationships ... my ex would often just never want 2 use that word cuz they would b trying 2 play the jealousy card, then later they would pretend as if nothing serious ever happened (which is true 2 some extent) .. and the ball keeps rolling

I still talk to (& occassionally kick it w/) my ex's, we cool like dat

Spats said:

Revisionism at it's finest

Seriously. I have only been dumped once.

Spats said:

That's not what you implied

I'm very good friends with all of my ex's except this last one. He won't talk to me and he hates confrontation. He's a coward!

The other day my boy toy bumped into him, literally. I told him he shoulda asked the ex to smell his fingers and guess who it was

CarrieLee said:

damn

I am friends with all of my ex's as well. The only one that causes a bit of a headache is my son's father. He's still trying to deal with the fact that it didn't work out. It's too bad because he's the only ex that really matters.

JustErin said:

brownsugar said:

Aww...thanks. I just take it one day at a time.

I either dont see or get on well with my ex girlfriends. Im a decent person and never hurt or set out to hurt anyone and I think they appreciate that. Sometimes I think about what they're up to which is natural and I know for sure that one thinks about me. They were all sweet girls deep down.