What is the deal with ex's? I mean when you get divorced or when you decide not to date anymore it would go smother for everyone just to be friends especially if there are children involved.Dammit!!! They just have to be assholes instead of just cooperating and going with the flow . My ex-husband is really the prime example of this . How do you and your ex get along? Is it friendly or do you just want them to walk out into heavy traffic?

Sadly too many couples use their children as weapons. It's sickening.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Supa, do you have any ex's that really get under your skin?

nurse said:

check your orgnotes

I talked to an old friend from highschool. I asked him how life has been treating him he said "Horrible,it sucks"

I asked him why..he said "my ex wont let me see my daughter unless I be with her"

How silly is that.


He's miserable just because of her. Very sad. He says he hates her

ThreadCula said:

Exactly the kind of shit I'm talking about. People piggy back on faggots for the decline in the nations morals. This is straight people we are talking about here. Fucking up the next generation

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

ummm hmmmm...

She shouldnt have a kid..she went to his job and tried to beat him up

ThreadCula said:

I hate women using their kids against their exes. It's so wrong.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I'm happy that you were a strong enough person to regain your life after this experience. It has enlightened me. Thanks so much for sharing this with me .

nurse said:

ThreadCula said:

This is a damn shame! People should never use their children to regain a relationship.

nurse said:

I know! Why would she want to waste her time,he said he hates her. Its so sad.
And she keeps coming on to his job...if he loses that job he wont be able to take care of their child. That silly heifer

brownsugar said:

ThreadCula said:

Yeah-it is sad to chase after someone who doesn't want you and she really needs to stop harassing the man at his job. To hell with her .

ThreadCula said:

thanks. the shit can really get stressful if you let it.

My ex-wife and I get along great, very smoothly...I always feel it's because we were, in reality, little more than very good and loving friends to begin with, so the way we interact now isn't that far removed from how we interacted for most of our marriage. It's just that now there is no pretense of romantic, passionate love between us, which only added stress...

I've also shown sincere and consistent appreciation and value to what she gave of herself and what we shared together, even if the intimacy, passion and connection were by and large absent. I even called her up out of the blue after the divorce was final simply to tell her that I never wanted her to even slightly doubt that what she gave of herself to me wasn't valued and treasured, and that I knew it could feel that way to her ...I didn't have to do it, and she definitely wasn't expecting it--she ended up bawling on the phone ...but she knows that while I never really loved her as a wife or partner, I"ve always loved her as a wonderful woman and a beautiful friend, and still do. I think our daughter is so much more emotionally healthier because of it.

Byron said:

This just beautiful . I wish that more relationships could end like this. Cheers to you Byron for being such a great person .

Byron said:

Now thats a blessing...Thats how adults should act!

Byron said:

you are a lucky man.

nurse said:

I'm not that great a person...seriously...I've just learned to never diminsh or devalue what someone gave of their heart, time, body and emotions to me...those are extraordinarily valuable things for one person to give to another...I don't need to remain in a relationship to show that appreciation.

Byron said:

He's right. He aint that great.


































He's the greatest!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

...You're biased, tho, cuz you're my brother...lol

Byron said:

That is lovely. I wish more people could be like you and your ex.

Your daughter is a lucky girl to have you as her father and role model.

ThreadCula said:

...Being humble with each other helped.

Byron said:

I wish I wasn't

WillyWonka said:

Thanks...*smile*...I'm forever greatful to my ex for seeing something in me that was worth being receptive to, when she had every right to feel otherwise. I still don't feel that love for her...and I know I never will. But I admire and respect her more than I ever have.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

We'd just end up fighting over politics all the time...lol

Byron said:

Believe it or not, that has ruined a couple lays

I think I would prefer to mutilate all of my sexual organs before going with my son's father again. Better yet, I would circumsize my damn self, bury the good parts and stab my eyes out so I wouldn't have to look at him. I could go on with this one....