oh my goodness-how hard is it to say NO to temptation in the guise of the female form-i did tonight but fuck it was hard .....

gotta be a good lad eh lads?

be good

no i am-but sometimes women can be terrible eh?

brownsugar said:

Not that hard really.

infact women are bloody shockers-knowing your in a relationship they just go for it..its base and its hard sometimes thats all im saying!

jonylawson said:

when you think about what you have to lose in the end its not worth it.

so when was the last time a hot chick came out bold as brass and said they wanted to take you home and fuck you?

i mean A HOTchick?if thats happens to you alot and you turn it down then youve been a better man than me in the past

all im saying is that its damn hard sometimes to do the right thing

jonylawson said:

was she a hooker? no offense, but I can't imagine young ladies saying such things! but then I am very old fashioned

youve obviously never been out in NEWCASTLE UPON TYNE LOL

It can be a trip: I've often said the best way to basically have "it" offered to you on a silver platter is to be committed to someone else.

Never fails.

OH! yeah i understand-the devils out there man!

jonylawson said:

i think its okay to window shop just dont buy anything

jonylawson said:

Seems like, for men and women, when you have somebody you just seem to attract people that little bit more.

I don't find it hard though, honestly. For starters, I don't tend to put myself in situations where I might be tempted. Ultimately if I were ever tempted by another I'd know I was with the wrong woman. It's not having to worry about being tempted that lets me know I'm with the right one. Not that there's a line of women around the block trying to tempt me. Or even one.

jonylawson said:

I once had an adult class here with 6 female students. One student, nicknamed Ice, started flirting with me almost right away from the first lesson. She was very attractive and after class would ask me to go and get lunch with her at the shopping centre, but I turned her down. Instead I used to go downstairs to the restaurant with three or four of the girls to get something to eat to keep her at a distance. It became a bit of class joke how she'd flirt with me and though I sometimes had to keep her focused on why she was there, to study, it was ok that way with the other students around. If she'd ever got me alone I know she wouldn't have been joking so much as throwing herself at me and tearing my clothes to shreds.

No, I don't get that very often as I'm very shy and don't socialise much. To me that's my first line of defense too. I'm happy to be shy.

ThreadBare said:

it's because desperation can be smelled a mile away

jonylawson said:

You would be happier if you resist, you know that you can still pull without the need to do so. I’m presuming that you are in a relationship that’s worth keeping then? Good 4 you. Then resistance is not futile.

I used to work in an off licence with my then girlfriend who was the manager, well one of the other staff came on to me. I felt sorry for her as she was a having a bad time at home with her husband and all we did was talk. I hoped these talks would help her with her husband. Well it came to a head when she started work one night with me and told me she wasn’t wearing any underwear, I was like OK. Later on she asked me if I believed her I said yes and she didn’t have to prove it well as soon as I said prove it …………………… talk about being put in a corner

I resisted and married her ……. The manager!!!

charlottegelin said:

oldpurple said:

hey your avatar....hes from WWW.NEOPETS.COM

Women used to occaisionally come onto me even though I'm taken and i always resisted.

It appears I have got old and ugly because it doesn't seem to happen anymore.

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charlottegelin said:

Sorry, somebody had to break the cycle.

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jonylawson said:

Actually, VERY easy.