nakedpianoplayer said:

CalhounSq said:

That's true......I worded that post wrong...lol

Byron said:

what about shows you almost no attention, where did that come in?

Thats an odd one because deliberately not showing you attention is like showing you constant attention if you know what I mean. anyhow its not my cup of tea

Byron said:

not quite


but, WHATEVER YOU DO.... do NOT search yahoo for 'sexy bow legged' theres only one picture, and it DAMN SURE aint what im thinking of

LleeLlee said:

I combined the "shows you immediate and tons of attention" with "shows you no attention at all", and just labeled them "The amoung of attention he shows you"...lol ...I didn't know if there were women who become attracted to men who immediately make them seem like the center of their world, or if there were women who were drawn to men who acted like they barely noticed her existence, like it's a challenge or something...

nakedpianoplayer said:

Ok, I just Googled 'sexy bow legged' and got four pages of nothing but attractive women in thigh-high stockings lol...

Byron said:

yeh, on yahoo it's something about latina whores

Byron said:

I think women (speaking for myself) prefer a middle ground, those two are extremes. If somebody immediately makes you feel like the centre of their world I get a bit suspicious

maybe Brits are a bit too cynical

LleeLlee said:

Fauxie said:

hehe!

~sips tea and ponders her cynicism~

Um, MUSCLES aren't listed. That really attracts me. It's a little different than athleticism/active, which is listed. I relate muscles to masculinity and inner strength (because it takes discipline, hard work, strong will/mind, etc).

Secondly, INTELLIGENCE. This is just the quality I value in any human being.

I don't get how humor is so appreciated, if a guy is always joking and trying to get me to laugh, I think of him as immature.

Looks
Shows immediate and constant attention

his personality
clothes
face

Byron said:

Nah, I was responding more to Fauxie's comments that shyness is a turnoff. It's not, but it clearly isn't a top draw either

applekisses said:

Bugger!

CalhounSq said:

Exactly. Not a turn off at all, but it wouldn't necessarily draw me to someone.
That's the problem with us shy folk. It makes it hard to get together.

understanding

polite


that's what i'm looking for, if that's what u mean with pay attention in inverted commas
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chunky said:

Well, I did start off saying in the first post "I'm not asking which two characteristics you're looking for the most"...lol...it's more a question of what type or kind of guy you tend to gravitate to the most, and picking two of the characteristics from the list to define that "type".

By the way, the two characteristics listed on the other message board site I got this idea from were "cockiness" and "sense of humor"...humor ranks high on this site so far, but cockiness isn't making a dent...lol

Byron said:

cocki and have a "sense of humour" isn't any good... it's so typical for guys to act more like themselves and i tell you, it's quite annoying when they get overly excited... to "gravitate" (on a positive) then a guy that gently gravitates towards me - is my answer if they listen to me and answer my questions without being loud, bald and outrageous or make fun of me Not sure if i'm on the same page...
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LleeLlee said:

Me too, if a guy makes me the center of their world right away, I would suspect that they would be the controlling type (one thing I can't stand/tolerate is a controlling guy, telling me what to do every second of the day).

Byron said:

Ewww cockiness is an immediate turn-off for me. Can't stand cocky men.

All you ladies just describe me.

Imago said:

althom said:

Come Althom, it's about damn time we scrog!

Imago said:

althom said:

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althom said:

you bitch.

The ladies will be mighty impressed with us two when they see how we jacked this thread.