It is so funny how the L word is so scary to some ppl. It is a beautiful word and can mean so many different things. I love so many ppl in all sorts of ways. Love has so many levels and layers.

I do not know why Love is such a frightening word...

Sweeny79 said:

Me too.

Because women who need to hear their guy say it to them is needy and insecure. That is very unnattractive. Women don't realize it but it is. If you need to hear that then you have issues. Not enough attention from Daddy or whatever.

And if you nag the guy to do it then he will not want to do it even more.

Romera said:

Hey Stymie

Spats said:

Hearing someone say I Love You is not being needy.. When you are with someone in a serious long term relationship then you can start giving advice and opinions about women...
Like I have said a few times already- you do not understand women..

Romera said:

thank you!

i say it when i feel a want/need to say it. i don't like saying it because i feel obligated, because then i'm just parroting words and i feel like it's not sincere. i would much rather do something nice that makes my partner feel loved than run those three words into the ground.

that's just how i am, though.

Ha! Never again will *I* say it! I learned my lesson!

CarrieLee said:

Best wait and let them say it

When men tell you, just keep

REDBABY said:

Fuck that love shit. I'm all about the lust right now.

shanti0608 said:

Needing to hear it is being needy and insecure. I have been with enough women to know what they are about.

i always tell my wife I love her.sometimes it doesnt have to be said tho' little things show it the most.

how retarted, whatta setup at the end

age group 25-30 is such a good waste of time ...

IAintTheOne said:

TMBGITW said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

You wouldn't believe how often I get that request.

my mate WILL say he loves me.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

HereToRockYourWorld said:

YO, no editing of my posts allowed

Spats said:

so, what are the women you've been with about? $25/hr?

IrresistibleB1tch said:

Girl don't give him that much credit you know he aint spending more then 10 dollars an hours.

I have never been with a hooker in my life. I have only been with pretty, clean, women.

Spats said:

How many times a day do you wash your hands....

Spats said:

come on, can't you even PRETEND to have a sense of humor?

IrresistibleB1tch said:

Spats said:

Needing to act macho and full of yourself is a sign of being insecure. It is not that I need to hear someone say it all of the time but if you are with someone that you care about how else do you if that person cares for you in return unless you tell one another.
IMO there's nothing wrong with needing/wanting to hear how your partner feels inside..

Spats said:

...and then they change their sexual orientation.

Natisse said:

water fight!

shanti0608 said:[quote]

Spats said:

Needing to act macho and full of yourself is a sign of being insecure. It is not that I need to hear someone say it all of the time but if you are with someone that you care about how else do you if that person cares for you in return unless you tell one another.
IMO there's nothing wrong with needing/wanting to hear how your partner feels inside..[/quot

I am not full of myself and i don't act "Macho".

I only believe it when he's written it in his own blood... preferably across my bathroom mirror so it's the first thing I see in the morning...

TMPletz said:

Shit he could turn me lesbo just by looking at me.