Were you the fave in the family or the black sheep?


I was the middle one and no matter what I did I was always wrong

I used to be fave until my lil sister came along.. I was Daddys girl.. and then he shunned me for a younger model


Disclaimer: Lets not get all PC about black sheep - I love them as much as white sheep..

i've just recently become the newest black sheep of the family...
it's shitty

SammiJ said:

your not here
[Edited 4/22/06 8:16am]

SammiJ said:

I was the black sheep for 5 years.

Now, I'm the favorite.

andykeen said:

thank you

SammiJ said:

Oh because of recent developments?


BUT before were you fave? do you have a big family? I am middle

Brother, me, sister, brother

me = :clown:

SammiJ said:

Sammi, sweeheart, you really must learn to distinguish between politeness and sincerity.

Imago said:

its funny how that happens, my sister was, now she's the second fave..next to my oldest brother - he can do no wrong
my youngest brother was a rebel, with cause - and my parents never understood him..he stays away now...


guess it's my turn - maybe i'll end up the fave someday?

REDBABY said:

you're not here.

REDBABY said:

yeah, school, engagement...i'm not the daughter they wanted... (not to mention i was a mistake to begin with )

i have 4 brothers, and a sister, 2 of the brothers are only half brothers, but family just the same - they're the smart ones, they stay away.

Imago said:

ASS!!

In my immediate family, for the most part, I'm the favorite. I'm the dautghter who can do no wrong. As for my extended family, I'm not so much a black sheep as a bit of an outsider. We really have nothing in common.

Imago said:

omg I am a clown here too..

CarrieMpls said:

remind me to start hating you - if I can..

I am the black sheep of the family. Which is really fucking stupid as I am one of a very few that has some level of success in my life.

Nut people love me when they want something from me.

Romera said:

Thats usually the case

actually this is really interesting, cos I thought me being the black sheep was me being failure, not as expected.. etc etc

I think what it means is, we have our own minds, set to it and do what we wanna do and achieve it.. colour or not, maybe white sheep follow each other and are just *normal*

we set a challenge.. and we make it.. so we are different

dont you think?

REDBABY said:

It's not that hard, though. My brother was a bit of a screw up when we were young and I was always the good kid. I liked being the good kid, so even when I started to rebel a bit and do some stupid things, I just never let them know about it.
My brother now has a wife and 4 kids and I'm single and probably will be for, like, ever so the tables have turned just ever so slightly. But I'm still seen as the more responsible one.

I was and i am the black sheep of the family. The funny thing is that recently found that i am the favourite 2 cause i am diff then all of them....Black sheep dont always mean that they dont like/love u.

Janeau said:

Oh I dont mean they dont like or love you - just you are the more difficult within the bunch

REDBABY said:

My family used to and still spends much time talking about me behind my back and yet smiling in my face, traits that I do not have.

They also can't dig that I embrace people of all nationalities and races as well as having my gay family. I used to live with my grandmother who threatened to put me out of her home because I let a gay friend babysit my son overnight.

i used to be the favorite all the while growing up.lately it seem i'm the black sheep. my family gets mad at me 'cause i won't bend to what they ask for without realizing or caring that i'm no in a a position help them right now in any kind of way i really don't care.

REDBABY said:

I can be difficult, but mostly to myself. What makes me diff then my fam is that i dont wine about my problems. I am a very private person. I solve my own problems. The rest of my fam loves 2 wine and run 2 mamma when shit happends ....In a way i am mystery 2 my fam. They dont really know me. I am tottaly diff with my friends. I feel much comfy around friends then around my sibblings.

Janeau said:

It definately means that they don't like me nor love me. I am absolutely 100% cool with that. I just went out and made a family for myself out of friends. I'm not missing a damn thing.

brownsugar said:

Fuck 'em girl. Fuck 'em.

Romera said:

Be proud of what u r !! sounds like u the yt sheep of the fam .....thats what my Gf fam say about my gf. Yes,she is a black girl. And some of her fam members dont like thats she has a yt BF.

Janeau said:

Oh yeah, that's another thing that don't like about me.

Everyone I have dated in the last ten years has been of another race.

Romera said:

Oh yeah, they don't like that I'm bisexual either.

Romera said:

I been around 2 ...not bisexual though. though my fam thinks i am cause i have gay friends. My fam feel uncomfy when i visit them with gay friends. Thats the reason y i do it .....let gives them something 2 talk about.

Romera said:

This is really interesting..

Being completely sincere, we've never had any black sheep or favorites in my family, never felt anything except equally loved...and I'm thankful to my parents for that.