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Reply #30 posted 04/18/06 6:57am

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He looks like he has a tarantula on his head... neutral



all of the other reindeer used to laugh and call him names. nod
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Reply #31 posted 04/18/06 7:18am

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cool thread! Grew mine for 12 years. Rasta say that locs are like your antenae to God/the univers/nature, etc. I really do believe that. I cut mine about 3 years ago, and its kind of hard to reach that same level of awareness that I had w/my locs. Its possible..just takes more meditation.


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Reply #32 posted 04/18/06 7:37am

JasmineFire

I read somewhere that in order to grow real locs you just let your hair fall the way it naturally would instead of twisting and shaping it becuase dreadlocks represent your hair in a natural and unmanipulated state. I don't have locks so i don't know, but i was wondering if that is true.

i have finally stopped chemically treating my hair and it looks and feels so much better. now i have curls all over the place! i'm so happy that i did it.
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Reply #33 posted 04/18/06 7:44am

unkemptpueblo

JasmineFire said:

I read somewhere that in order to grow real locs you just let your hair fall the way it naturally would instead of twisting and shaping it becuase dreadlocks represent your hair in a natural and unmanipulated state. I don't have locks so i don't know, but i was wondering if that is true.

i have finally stopped chemically treating my hair and it looks and feels so much better. now i have curls all over the place! i'm so happy that i did it.


It depends on the look that you want. Light twisting and manipulation helps to shape and train your hair in the form tha you want it. Basically, your hair texture is that of a spiral. What your're doing is "locking" the spirals together. Its a matter of choice, really. You could just let your hair do its own thing and not do any twisting/shaping, but if you're particular about your looks that may not be the move, because you could end up with one big ass dread. not that theres anything wrong with that.
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Reply #34 posted 04/18/06 7:47am

JasmineFire

unkemptpueblo said:

JasmineFire said:

I read somewhere that in order to grow real locs you just let your hair fall the way it naturally would instead of twisting and shaping it becuase dreadlocks represent your hair in a natural and unmanipulated state. I don't have locks so i don't know, but i was wondering if that is true.

i have finally stopped chemically treating my hair and it looks and feels so much better. now i have curls all over the place! i'm so happy that i did it.


It depends on the look that you want. Light twisting and manipulation helps to shape and train your hair in the form tha you want it. Basically, your hair texture is that of a spiral. What your're doing is "locking" the spirals together. Its a matter of choice, really. You could just let your hair do its own thing and not do any twisting/shaping, but if you're particular about your looks that may not be the move, because you could end up with one big ass dread. not that theres anything wrong with that.

i thought that the "rasta way" was no manipulation but i know that i would have a really hard time not manipulating my hair. lol
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Reply #35 posted 04/18/06 7:53am

unkemptpueblo

JasmineFire said:

unkemptpueblo said:



It depends on the look that you want. Light twisting and manipulation helps to shape and train your hair in the form tha you want it. Basically, your hair texture is that of a spiral. What your're doing is "locking" the spirals together. Its a matter of choice, really. You could just let your hair do its own thing and not do any twisting/shaping, but if you're particular about your looks that may not be the move, because you could end up with one big ass dread. not that theres anything wrong with that.

i thought that the "rasta way" was no manipulation but i know that i would have a really hard time not manipulating my hair. lol


LOL..I'm pretty sure theres more than one"rasta way" of doing a lot of things. But of course having locs doesnt make one a rasta, so whatever you feel like doing is what you do.
cool
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Reply #36 posted 04/18/06 7:58am

JasmineFire

unkemptpueblo said:

JasmineFire said:


i thought that the "rasta way" was no manipulation but i know that i would have a really hard time not manipulating my hair. lol


LOL..I'm pretty sure theres more than one"rasta way" of doing a lot of things. But of course having locs doesnt make one a rasta, so whatever you feel like doing is what you do.
cool

quite true
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Reply #37 posted 04/18/06 10:49am

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unkemptpueblo said:

JasmineFire said:


i thought that the "rasta way" was no manipulation but i know that i would have a really hard time not manipulating my hair. lol


LOL..I'm pretty sure theres more than one"rasta way" of doing a lot of things. But of course having locs doesnt make one a rasta, so whatever you feel like doing is what you do.
cool


I think some people look down on salon locs (what I have, they're very manicured) b/c they're "not authentic". BUT I'm not a "rasta", I loc'd b/c I love the look, it wasn't a spiritual thing for me. It's funny, how people form thoughts about your philosophy & such just based on how you wear your hair smile
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Reply #38 posted 04/18/06 11:22am

SammiJ

yeh here it's not looked down on too much if it's manicured, i'm not rasta nor will i ever be, i'm doing it because this is how my hair is supposed to be *in my mind*

and calhounsq, interlocking, like knotting the roots in a twisting/weaving kind of way so they're stronger as they grow nod

unkemptpueblo, 12 years omg wow, do you still have them? i'd love 2 see pix nod


excited im so happy that they're growing so fast, by christmas i'll be able to show them off!!*


*keeping them secret for a while because my parents are olskool jamaicans and have reserved thoughts about the style... giggle
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Reply #39 posted 04/18/06 11:25am

CalhounSq

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SammiJ said:

and calhounsq, interlocking, like knotting the roots in a twisting/weaving kind of way so they're stronger as they grow nod


Are they super tiny? Like individual braids are? smile

Mine are on the Cassandra Wilson tip batting eyes
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Reply #40 posted 04/18/06 11:30am

SammiJ

CalhounSq said:

SammiJ said:

and calhounsq, interlocking, like knotting the roots in a twisting/weaving kind of way so they're stronger as they grow nod


Are they super tiny? Like individual braids are? smile

Mine are on the Cassandra Wilson tip batting eyes

love i always loved her hair

they're not too tiny @ all, they're about her size too nod
i always have a hard time describing what interlocking is but you take one lock, and thread the tip of it through it's own root (in different directions as to not separate the root and have a wonky lock) nod that's what i've been doing for about a year now, while they're still in extensions, so once i take the extensions out they'll probably be down by my chin... excited
i do however need to chop off the dead ends of relaxed hair that didnt lock feeling ill

once i get them going full gear, i'll prolly peroxide a few of them and then dye them crazy colours every so often giggle


mushy i love locks love
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Reply #41 posted 04/18/06 11:33am

CalhounSq

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SammiJ said:

CalhounSq said:



Are they super tiny? Like individual braids are? smile

Mine are on the Cassandra Wilson tip batting eyes

love i always loved her hair

they're not too tiny @ all, they're about her size too nod
i always have a hard time describing what interlocking is but you take one lock, and thread the tip of it through it's own root (in different directions as to not separate the root and have a wonky lock) nod that's what i've been doing for about a year now, while they're still in extensions, so once i take the extensions out they'll probably be down by my chin... excited
i do however need to chop off the dead ends of relaxed hair that didnt lock feeling ill

once i get them going full gear, i'll prolly peroxide a few of them and then dye them crazy colours every so often giggle


mushy i love locks love


I knew a chick w/ fire engine RED locks - it looked so fucking amazing on her!!! woot! I've always wanted to do it, go that bold w/ a color b/c I know it would be so damn striking, but I stay in the brown/golden brown family of colors lol
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Reply #42 posted 04/18/06 11:36am

SammiJ

CalhounSq said:

SammiJ said:


love i always loved her hair

they're not too tiny @ all, they're about her size too nod
i always have a hard time describing what interlocking is but you take one lock, and thread the tip of it through it's own root (in different directions as to not separate the root and have a wonky lock) nod that's what i've been doing for about a year now, while they're still in extensions, so once i take the extensions out they'll probably be down by my chin... excited
i do however need to chop off the dead ends of relaxed hair that didnt lock feeling ill

once i get them going full gear, i'll prolly peroxide a few of them and then dye them crazy colours every so often giggle


mushy i love locks love


I knew a chick w/ fire engine RED locks - it looked so fucking amazing on her!!! woot! I've always wanted to do it, go that bold w/ a color b/c I know it would be so damn striking, but I stay in the brown/golden brown family of colors lol

yeh, brown and golds are beautiful in locks nod
when my sister started out she had stripped her hair and stayed blonde for a long time, then she did a honey brown, then she stripped it again and went for a wine and crimson colour...THAT was the best...

i want a kind of plum, a velvety kinda purple nod not all over of course, but scattered nod
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Reply #43 posted 04/19/06 4:41pm

SammiJ

to the orgers with locks
what products do you use?

i got some amazing products for my birthday from rachel3 ( batting eyes ) and i've been obsessed with my hair lately


so what do yall use???
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Reply #44 posted 04/19/06 6:55pm

CalhounSq

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SammiJ said:

to the orgers with locks
what products do you use?

i got some amazing products for my birthday from rachel3 ( batting eyes ) and i've been obsessed with my hair lately


so what do yall use???


I bounce around to different products but I keep it simple. To retwist I usually use Paul Mitchel Molding Mud - it holds *some* without being too stiff & it's not too greasy. Sometimes I'll use a mild gel to retwist but it dries my scalp out if I use it too much. I wish I could find an oil based twist butter that worked well enough to hold confused When I allow myself to go to the shop they make it look AMAZING & neat, I can never get it that clean lol

I'll use any shampoo that smells good (loving Dove shampoos right now), any conditioner for dry hair, still trying to find spray oils that I like (got a few I'm waiting to try).

When I wanna wear it crinkly I use a spray gel (drug store, Herbal Essences I think, super cheap!) & braid it overnight smile

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Reply #45 posted 04/19/06 7:01pm

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SammiJ said:

HereToRockYourWorld said:




Yeah, that's prolly the biggest reason why I ended up chopping mine off. They were damn near permanently damp. neutral

falloff my youngest brother Divine(no that's not his real name, but that's what he goes by..he's about 10 years older than i) has his down past his ass
in the summer what he'll do when he's washed it, is if he's going somewhere he'll just hang them out the car window, let'em airdry falloff it's the funniest sight i've ever seen

but when he puts it all up in something like a bun, it's the most regal thing i've ever seen on a black man (if that makes sense?) it just looks so good! it gives him such an air of strength...hell, he'd NEED strength with his lil pencilneck falloff


here's a pic of him from a few years ago:


I heart men with dreadlocks! Used to love it when Lenny Kravitz had them, and was soooo disappointed when he cut them all off. sad
RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you.
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Reply #46 posted 04/19/06 7:03pm

SammiJ

psychodelicide said:

SammiJ said:


falloff my youngest brother Divine(no that's not his real name, but that's what he goes by..he's about 10 years older than i) has his down past his ass
in the summer what he'll do when he's washed it, is if he's going somewhere he'll just hang them out the car window, let'em airdry falloff it's the funniest sight i've ever seen

but when he puts it all up in something like a bun, it's the most regal thing i've ever seen on a black man (if that makes sense?) it just looks so good! it gives him such an air of strength...hell, he'd NEED strength with his lil pencilneck falloff


here's a pic of him from a few years ago:


I heart men with dreadlocks! Used to love it when Lenny Kravitz had them, and was soooo disappointed when he cut them all off. sad


as was i nod
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Reply #47 posted 04/19/06 7:04pm

CalhounSq

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psychodelicide said:

SammiJ said:


falloff my youngest brother Divine(no that's not his real name, but that's what he goes by..he's about 10 years older than i) has his down past his ass
in the summer what he'll do when he's washed it, is if he's going somewhere he'll just hang them out the car window, let'em airdry falloff it's the funniest sight i've ever seen

but when he puts it all up in something like a bun, it's the most regal thing i've ever seen on a black man (if that makes sense?) it just looks so good! it gives him such an air of strength...hell, he'd NEED strength with his lil pencilneck falloff


here's a pic of him from a few years ago:


I heart men with dreadlocks! Used to love it when Lenny Kravitz had them, and was soooo disappointed when he cut them all off. sad


I love locs on dudes too BUT Lenny's were a little too thick for me. I still liked them on him but my preference is for the smaller, neater locs... I'm a loc snob boxed

lol
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Reply #48 posted 04/19/06 7:05pm

brownsugar

SammiJ said:

brownsugar said:

i haven't decided on taking that step yet. i'm just enjoying my 'fro for now. its really growing out nod

nod i've noticed since i stopped the chemicals that my hair has been growing like a weed eek lol
pictures! wink

and it really is a big decision to make because once you're in, you have to be willing to commit to it nod

to me, i think its a beautiful accomplishment more than a hair style, if that makes any sense to anyone lol


i want them but i change my mind so fuckin much that man i dunno. one day ill just go for the extensions and see how i that goes. i have always love lauryn hills dreads (or imagos rolleyes lol). if i get them i'd like them to be like that.
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Reply #49 posted 04/19/06 7:11pm

CalhounSq

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brownsugar said:

SammiJ said:


nod i've noticed since i stopped the chemicals that my hair has been growing like a weed eek lol
pictures! wink

and it really is a big decision to make because once you're in, you have to be willing to commit to it nod

to me, i think its a beautiful accomplishment more than a hair style, if that makes any sense to anyone lol


i want them but i change my mind so fuckin much that man i dunno. one day ill just go for the extensions and see how i that goes. i have always love lauryn hills dreads (or imagos rolleyes lol). if i get them i'd like them to be like that.


I think it depends on how often you like to change your hair too. I was doing my own version of a french roll for years before I loc'd, hairdressers never styled it right (they always made it too neat, I wanted it to be free when it was straight), so locking was the perfect solution for me. I'm not antsy enough to wanna disrupt the locking process - it takes about a year to get them to the point where you can really start to do stuff with them.

It's a big decision, be sure girl. There's time smile
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Reply #50 posted 04/19/06 7:17pm

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SammiJ said:

psychodelicide said:



I heart men with dreadlocks! Used to love it when Lenny Kravitz had them, and was soooo disappointed when he cut them all off. sad


as was i nod


Yup. I was like, "Lenny, what did you do to your hair?" omg
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Reply #51 posted 04/19/06 7:17pm

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CalhounSq said:

psychodelicide said:



I heart men with dreadlocks! Used to love it when Lenny Kravitz had them, and was soooo disappointed when he cut them all off. sad


I love locs on dudes too BUT Lenny's were a little too thick for me. I still liked them on him but my preference is for the smaller, neater locs... I'm a loc snob boxed

lol


giggle Nothing wrong with having your own likes/dislikes, we all have them. smile
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Reply #52 posted 04/19/06 7:19pm

SammiJ

CalhounSq said:

SammiJ said:

to the orgers with locks
what products do you use?

i got some amazing products for my birthday from rachel3 ( batting eyes ) and i've been obsessed with my hair lately


so what do yall use???


I bounce around to different products but I keep it simple. To retwist I usually use Paul Mitchel Molding Mud - it holds *some* without being too stiff & it's not too greasy. Sometimes I'll use a mild gel to retwist but it dries my scalp out if I use it too much. I wish I could find an oil based twist butter that worked well enough to hold confused When I allow myself to go to the shop they make it look AMAZING & neat, I can never get it that clean lol

I'll use any shampoo that smells good (loving Dove shampoos right now), any conditioner for dry hair, still trying to find spray oils that I like (got a few I'm waiting to try).

When I wanna wear it crinkly I use a spray gel (drug store, Herbal Essences I think, super cheap!) & braid it overnight smile

Share your secrets too, dammit biggrin pc

Where's Rhonda & Dex? pc pc




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coutesy of rachel3 hug it works amazingly, it's not too stiff and it doesnt leave my scalp 2 dry - i've used it before, and luckily she sent it to me when she did cuz i wanted some more


this one's alright, it smells yummy, but the hold isn't that great


beautiful oil, i love it

i also use African Gold shampoo and conditioner

rachel3 also bought me African Pride braid sheen spray with tea tree oil and peppermint oil (yummy! drool )

those are my secrets nod
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Reply #53 posted 04/19/06 7:27pm

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beautiful oil, i love it

i also use African Gold shampoo and conditioner

rachel3 also bought me African Pride braid sheen spray with tea tree oil and peppermint oil (yummy! drool )

those are my secrets nod


I'll have to try this one nod
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Reply #54 posted 04/19/06 7:33pm

SammiJ

CalhounSq said:

SammiJ said:


beautiful oil, i love it

i also use African Gold shampoo and conditioner

rachel3 also bought me African Pride braid sheen spray with tea tree oil and peppermint oil (yummy! drool )

those are my secrets nod


I'll have to try this one nod

it's great nod
see if u can find the bottle with the tapered spout, it's easier to apply that way
you can control the amount you squeeze out
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Reply #55 posted 04/19/06 7:33pm

brownsugar

SammiJ said:

CalhounSq said:



I'll have to try this one nod

it's great nod
see if u can find the bottle with the tapered spout, it's easier to apply that way
you can control the amount you squeeze out


looks like it smells good too.
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Reply #56 posted 04/19/06 7:35pm

SammiJ

brownsugar said:

SammiJ said:


it's great nod
see if u can find the bottle with the tapered spout, it's easier to apply that way
you can control the amount you squeeze out


looks like it smells good too.

ohhh man mushy you gotta try it
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Reply #57 posted 04/19/06 7:35pm

Moonwalkbjrain

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SammiJ said:

HereToRockYourWorld said:




Yeah, that's prolly the biggest reason why I ended up chopping mine off. They were damn near permanently damp. neutral

falloff my youngest brother Divine(no that's not his real name, but that's what he goes by..he's about 10 years older than i) has his down past his ass
in the summer what he'll do when he's washed it, is if he's going somewhere he'll just hang them out the car window, let'em airdry falloff it's the funniest sight i've ever seen

but when he puts it all up in something like a bun, it's the most regal thing i've ever seen on a black man (if that makes sense?) it just looks so good! it gives him such an air of strength...hell, he'd NEED strength with his lil pencilneck falloff


here's a pic of him from a few years ago:


eek isnt he scared of them like getting caught on something?!!?

btw he's hot drool
Yesterday is dead...tomorrow hasnt arrived yet....i have just ONE day...
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Reply #58 posted 04/19/06 7:37pm

SammiJ

Moonwalkbjrain said:

SammiJ said:


falloff my youngest brother Divine(no that's not his real name, but that's what he goes by..he's about 10 years older than i) has his down past his ass
in the summer what he'll do when he's washed it, is if he's going somewhere he'll just hang them out the car window, let'em airdry falloff it's the funniest sight i've ever seen

but when he puts it all up in something like a bun, it's the most regal thing i've ever seen on a black man (if that makes sense?) it just looks so good! it gives him such an air of strength...hell, he'd NEED strength with his lil pencilneck falloff


here's a pic of him from a few years ago:


eek isnt he scared of them like getting caught on something?!!?

btw he's hot drool

lol naw, he'd hold it too just in case it would snag on a passing bicycle or something falloff

and yesh, my brother is quite the looker nod
he's a good guy
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Reply #59 posted 04/19/06 8:17pm

ThreadBare

CalhounSq said:

"interlocking" - does that mean you have sister locks? confused

Loving mine too (regular salon locs), they're WAY too long & I keep threatening to cut them but I never do giggle (they haven't hit my butt yet)...

But all stages of growth are cool as shit. When they're short they're spikey & funky. The longer it gets the less full it will be, but then you can do more w/ them when they're longer (buns, wavy & wild, straight & sleek, french rolls, etc.). It's one of the best decisions I've ever made nod

But back to the main topic - my locs are easier to care for than any other style I've had, certainly easier than a perm. It used to take me forever to retwist them but now I have it down to 45 minutes if I really hurry woot! I usually plop in front of the tv & take my time though, takes about an hour/hour & a half... biggrin

And there's always HATS exclaim lol


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I wanted to start locs. I had a mini-fro But time and genetics had, um, other plans. lol I was twisting at home, after work, but I kept noticing these two thin spots on top of my head...

I remember how I would pray -- when I was at that crossroads: I kept praying about finding a loctician in Baltimore -- even consulted one. She looked at me in all my buppiness and said: "Um, you want dreads?"

So, like I said, I was praying and all about what to do: "Cut or loc?"

And, every time I prayed about it, God would just give me this image of clippers from Wal-Mart.

falloff

Ask Him for wisdom, He's faithful to give it to you -- even when it's an answer you might not exactly like.
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