Fauxie said:

Bi girls are totally different. Don't get me started.

u2prnce said:

Is that a bad thing?

I can never tell who's gay or not - just whom would and wouldn't. If you know what I mean.

Justin1972UK said:

I think so

ehuffnsd said:

Fauxie said:

oh the possibilities

question...do same sex oriented people wind up in the sack more often with less effort trying to woe the other person into said sack...? That's my hetero impression anyway..

TMBGITW said:

see, this is why I hang out with my lesbian girlfriend or just really gurly men

how does the Gayday pick up Bi/Bi curious signals..?

PurpleRein said:

I wish everyone a happy gayday! Find someone of the same sex and celebrate.



Bi girls are next to impossible to pick up w/ gaydar, imo.

PurpleRein said:

ok it works like this... There is a societal pressure on women not to be promiscious and also a natural inclination for that as well. Men don't have that pressure or that preprogrammed state of being. Once you remove the pressure or the person that tends to hold back from having a sexual encounter you end up with a culture that has no qualms about random hookups because both people are ok with it.

PurpleRein said:

That's not my bag though.

u2prnce said:

I find that too and I am a bi girl! No end of annoying.

Everyone else though I can figure out pretty quickly; gay, bi, and curious guys, and gay girls. Just not my bisexual sisters. Must be some sort of blocking device. Must remember to get that uninstalled. Though realistically, I think it has more to do with how damn many women fake being bi to get male attention. Throws me right off.

It's hard to explain how gaydar works. Usually there's some sort of clue, subtle or not-so-subtle that gives a person away. But other times they don't fit the image at all and I can still tell.

meow85 said:

I used to get hit on on the ladies toilets all the time while I was minding my own business when people are drunk their gaydar is somewhat dulled and their bravado increased.

meow85 said:

I like your style. Very true.

u2prnce said:

i happened to be surfing around and decided to check this thread, i was absolutely surprised that the wholesome squeaky clean woman with the hat and child was such a beautiful woman when unsqueaked go get em, like the dimples too!

My gaydar is about 75% accurate, I'd say. Prolly better with boys than girls.

I have backup gaydar, in that if I'm attracted to somebody (male or female), there's a good chance they're queer. (Thankfully, in the case of the boys, I have a corrolating shutoff mechanism; knowing that somebody doesn't swing my way is a blissfully consistent crush-killer. Otherwise, I'd be in major trouble).

And bi people are a wild card.




Oh, my special talent is trannies. I can spot 'em a mile away.
[Edited 4/21/06 14:25pm]

7e7e7 said:

This is a literal conversation I had with some girl I play bingo with

Her: Can I ask you a question?

Me: Sure

Are you?

Yes!

Funny how neither had to use the word "gay" to know what she was after

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

She had to ask?

Is she. . . um. . . differently abled?

HereToRockYourWorld said:

She just wanted confirmation. As if they don't hand those out at every door I walk through

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Ida been like, "no". She'd start to question EVERYTHING. "How is this possible? Is there a God? Why are we here? What does it all MEAN?! "

I start noticing a tremor in the Force.

Mine doesn't. Everybody I see is potentially gay, or can be made to be gay.

7e7e7 said:

not really that squeaky, no

My gaydar is on the one..... I know who is whom and they know Ive got it like that... and sense a safe place in the MOST unexceptable of arenas... I will laugh deep from within and we will share a known moment.....

Imago said:

GAY ALERT

I've kissed girls when i was young.. it was a game we played to stay in the clique... i only kissed the ones with clean teeth. I also kissed guys. I liked the guys better. Much better. I haven't kissed any females since. Don't think i ever will.. although i like to pretend i'm Bi because women and men both like me... gay guys don't (i think). I'm very confused about my sexuality though am not tempted.. there is pressure. People just think i'm wierd and say nasty things to me, they don't understand that we're not all the same. The party starts and ends whenever i say so. haven't been out much... maybe i'm not curious or smart? not losing sleep over this tho.


not sure if i have a gaydar, but maybe guys who hang with girls are gay?
[Edited 4/22/06 1:49am]

Imago said:

how come gay men don't get straight?

chunky said:

two words: fashion sense