Everyone has their own likes/dislikes, love and hates

For Example, I will post this pic, feel free to comment

Is it beautiful or not?

What IS beautiful in YOUR eyes.. I mean not beautiful as EVERYONE dictates

What is beauty to you?






[Edited 4/22/06 7:52am]

How do you describe 'beautiful', Red?

I don't know... I think beauty for me is attached to emotion. When a person or a place or an object or an atmosphere makes you feel awe or wonder or joy. Something poerwful.

REDBABY said:

That definitely is not beautiful.

In answer to your question, it's hard to say, since people find beauty in different things and in different ways. Kind of like that saying, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."

^ No, thats definitly not beauty to me!... Don't understand why someone would wanna do that to her or his body. Yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Charisma is a great factor. You can have the face and body of Adriana Lima or Antonio Banderas but with no charisma that won't help you much.

CarrieMpls said:

Wel;l I posted that pic from another thread.. but that to me is not beautiful, although I know some people will say otherwise

I am pretty simple when it comes to beauty.. I am not a sheep follower, so most *beauties* (the obvious in the media) arent so beautiful to me

we all have our flaws.. beauty is beneath looks, beauty lies deep

There is someone that will find beauty in that picture, others will not. I find some people who others find physically appealing, appealing as well but how that person treats people will ultimately change that. I also find that, for the most part, people I am attracted to, most people wouldn't be. I have always preferred brains over 'beauty' and it's wild when you can find both.

Romera said:

Well I could post a different pic, cos I just made it as an example.. I could have posted Cindy Crawford for example or the nasty Naomi Campbell but thats too obvious.. my feelings are with you.. Romera

I have lots of friends who are much much more beautiful than any supermodel, miss world, actor etc etc.. I think.. and for me, beauty comes from within, and I am more likely to say phwoar, to someone with a rich personality than someone sat there looking pretty..

Everyone knows what Beautiful is. But most people settle for less than that. But they know who is beautiful.

Spats said:

OH?? Then I must be stupid, cos my beautiful is different from those.

Are you really so shallow?

I mean what you say "Everyone knows what Beautiful is. " I am thinking your idea of beauty is a super model...


humour me, please...

Spats said:

You could be Halle Berry with a messed up attitude and be ugly to someone.

Romera said:

Well I say Whitney USED to be beautiful.. she aint now..

and it isnt about appearance (SPATS)
its about beauty within

I would say my friends are more beautiful than any actor or actress, cos I know their kindness whereas actors/models and stuff are strangers to me, I dont know their personalities so I cannot compare..

andykeen said:

REDBABY said:

back 2 U

andykeen said:

dude, you change your avatar too much!

REDBABY said:

The beauty from within thing is a myth. It is about appearance. If it wasn't then the women here and everywhere wouldn't get so happy when someone complimented them on their looks. But they do.

My friends sure as hell aren't more beautiful then hollywood actors. Let's be realistic.

Spats said:

I AM realistic and I dont compare myself to models, hollywood actresses and the such, so when someone tells me I am beautiful I believe it just as I tell my friends they are beautiful


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Imago said:

lol says U, U always have a different one!!

tut tut

Spats said:

then why are you constantly moaning about needy women if personality doesnt enter the equation?



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LleeLlee said:

Exactly.

I didn't say personality does not matter at all. But Looks have more impact. Let's tell the truth here. Everyone wishes they were great looking. Everyone.

As far as personality for me. They have to be nice and have their shit together. No drama and no insecurity issues.

LleeLlee said:

BINGO!!

Spats said:

Looks fade. I will stick to what's inside.

Spats said:

Lets tell the truth.. you're contradicting yourself. First you say that beauty from within is a myth and then you post a list of your preferred personality traits including "nice."

so which is it?

The Beauty from within thing is not more important than the looks. I am not contradicting myself. A woman can be the nicest woman in the world but if she is an ugo then i am not having sacktime with her. But if she is hotter than hell but can be a real bitch i will still go for it.

But the ideal situation is that they are nice.

Spats said:

That's so incredibly fucked up. And people wonder why people of the opposite sex sometimes fuck them over.

Romera said:

I agree looks fade but i would rather be with a woman is beautiful for part of her life then not at all.

Spats said:

If I had the choice between beauty and intelligence I would choose intelligence, [Flame snipped - BananaCologne]

Spats said:

You know, I hate you think like that but I am glad you are being honest. There are a lot of folks who don't have the balls to say what you've said.

Romera said:

oooo you have turned the tables now..


so let the discussion continue..