people do seem to go around spouting all sorts of shit, don't they!

Lammastide said:

I reconnected with a friend from high school who, once he found a new female, decided to dump me and told me that "getting to know me again as an adult was a mistake"...that really hurt - and still does. Not sure I will ever get over it, to be honest.

I do not even want to go down that road- repeating all of the bad and hurtful things ppl have said to me. Yikes- hate to think back on that stuff. I try to surround myself with loving , caring ppl that do not want to hurt me with words. Someday's it is unavoidable though..

"I've wasted 19 years of my life on you"

"dude don't even bother she doesn't put out" --- that coming out of the guy who told me he loved me...that was even more hurtful than anything else said about me.

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

Does he pay you to write his blogs or something?

fantasyislander said:

But did you ever hear the answer? I mean, it could've been 'organising community fundraisers' or something.

"How can something so long precipitate something so short?"

Pffft.

That's a very pretty avatar Fauxie

twister6 said:

Thanks. I found it myself.

BucketOfBouncyBalls said:

I really wish this didn't bother you because it speaks VOLUMES about the type of woman YOU are.

Mercedes73 said:

My mother didn't even have the decency to name me or my sister when we were born. Our names are not on our birth certificates. She's been gone for 13 years but I try to love the part of her that was loveable.


This thread breaks my heart.

I'm the only 1 in my family 2 have a middle name, guess y that happned?

twister6 said:

Obviously cause your mother and father decided to give you one.

LOL, they never could agree on anything.

Romera said:

it does

Romera said:

Thanks Romera.

Probably my stepfather saying no one would want to hire me because I'm so lazy.
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Romera said:

i can't remember anything anyone has said to me that was hurtful enough to stick. people have said messed-up things to me, but i've always been able to recognize that it was more about them than me. the only time people can really affect me is when i know they're saying something critical about me because they care.

Anx said:

got a couple of months? what anyone has said about me it doesnt matter i know who and what i am and comfortable in my own skin. so..

Mean ppl suck!

you have the right to remain silent

its not a good thing to hear trust me

Savour said:

this girl called me a peasant and said I looked like a rat. She was way into David Bowie.

The worst thing anybody ever said about me really cut deep, because it wasn't said in anger - just in a very matter-of-fact manner. It was also given credence by other proclamations which my mother also believed to be true...

My sister went to a psychic when she was younger - too young really as she was about 15 or 16.

When she returned home, she recounted what the psychic told her about deceased relatives we'd never met or spoke of. I remember my mother being suitably amazed by the revelations regarding our Great Grandfather and his ability to tapdance on dinner plates in the bars of local pubs (don't ask)...

My mother was gripped and asked if any messages had come through regarding the present. My sister replied that one of "the spirits" had told the psychic that her younger brother (i.e. me) would constantly hurt our mother with "his lies".

I felt bad at the time because although I'd outed myself at high school, I conspired each and every day to keep my parents in the dark about various situations and events. It made me a nervous wreck. In quiet moments I still dwell on it, to this day.

But who tells their parents everything? Nobody.

ufoclub said:

then she was probably complimenting you!