SammiJ said:

jthad1129 said:

Baby!

I could throw all the cliches at you about time being a healer and billions of fish in the sea but just know I am here if you wanna talk k? Matters of the heart are just horrendous. I'm sorry you're hurting

Did he tell you why he wants to split? Is this unexpected or something you've seen coming?

cborgman said:

Just make sure he's not a drug addict stalker OK?

"Two tears in a bucket, fuck it..."

SammiJ said:

Holding it in is the worst Cry your pain away. One day you won't have anymore tears for it

Dude, I've heard of spring cleaning but not relationship cleaning and it seems to be happening to EVERYONE!!!

First off, good for you for not being able to stay with someone that does not love you. A lot of people do and it's just not right. So kudos for that.

I've said it a million times this month and I'll say it again...it DOES get easier. But with time, and it all depends on *you* how long it will take. When you decide to stop being sad then you will. You need your friends though, and you need to keep busy. The first month I was single I wore myself out every night so when I got home I would just fall asleep and not think about anything.

I'm sorry you are sad, but it will get easier. Be strong.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Listen to Supa - get it all out. Holding it in will only delay your healing.
At least now you will be open to someone who can and will treat and love you as you deserved to be. Everything happens for a reason sweetie. Don't think of it a a waste; think of it as a learning experience.

Tom said:

not to be picky, but it's 'motherfuck it'

and god bless chablis!

CarrieLee said:

I know right!!! Hi Carrie

leave his ass

cborgman said:

ohh oops!!! i'm sorry!!! would u ever forgive me?

Yes, the pain is excrutiating. Same here after an 8 year breakup.

Stay as strong as possible. I'm glad you're not holding anything inside, that will make you sick.

Everyone has pretty much covered it. It will get better. Really.
We're all here for you.

Much love.
xxooxx
M

It's the fucking worst.

One day/hour/breath at a time. . . you'll be ok. . .

missfee said:

it didn't bother me, i was just claryifying. and i doubt he would be offended either. relax.

easy mistake to make... the best example was when spats read a post of mine and said 'you all think i don't understand the female mind, this is the female mind, and i totally understand it' without realizing i am a gay man.



classic.

cborgman said:

Spat didn't realize he knew your Miguelgomez and Cborgmans so well
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

and a newbie told lammastide he would understand racism better if he were black just yesterday.... i couldn't stop laughing.

cborgman said:

Well I got called a homophobe once so go figure

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

okay, back on topic.

Must be a sign:

While packing up and listening to the itunes shuffle...


Turntable - TLC
Gotta Go Gotta Leave - Vivian Greene
One Minute Man - Missy
99 Problems - Jay Z
It's all good (remix) - Fantasis
A Rose is still a rose - Aretha

hahahahaha

jthad1129 said:

do you have cher's "strong enough"

we need to put you on some power "screw you" songs.

You're gonna be fine, sweetie. Feel this pain...get through it and it will be behind you soon...you'll be brand new and ready to start with a man who truly appreciates you

Take care and be sweet to yourself, ok?

damn! One of my friends just called and asked what i was doing. I just started bawling , she freaked, all i could say is that we broke up. I was just fine, packing my shit, taping boxes. She asked if i wanted to talk about it and I couldn't even get words out. She just said call me later.

I didn't mean to scare her, or myself, just didn't see it coming.

jthad1129 said:

That stuff is gonna happen...but, each time you tell the story it will get easier.

jthad1129 said:

Honey, you're probably gonna be crying at commercials for a little while It's OK to cry

cborgman said:

"One Minute Man"

Yeah, Christina's "Fighter" should be in that mix too.

SeattleInvasion said:

Now its getting funny...

Sorry - Madonna
Free - Ultra Nate
My Happy Ending - Avril

Go ahead and bawl, jthad. It's supposed to hurt. Something would be wrong with you if it didn't.

Eventually -- no one can say when -- thing'll hurt less sharply, and you'll be stronger.

...And if it's any consolation, I still show off your X-mas card. That should give you a smile.

Like they say, to get over a man, you have to get under another one.

I'm kidding. I just hope everyone on here is making you feel a little better. I know they did in my time of need.


xxoo
M

I'm sorry to hear about the breakup!!


I understand how strong love can be with someone. It happens to everyone and it doesn't come with a warning either. You are obsessed with this person because he's part of your life, he's the person you've turn to, a fate that brought you two together....you get the point I'm trying to make.

And for him to suddenly break up with you without a reason, it's just plain cruel. Then you try to think about it over and over in your head on what, when , why, and how it happened, like a tape playing the events in your head again and again, but it doesn't make you fell better...you only feel worse.

It's best to remember you did all you can and that you did your part, not him. If he truly loves you, he would have talked things out with you on the breakup and be straightforward about things concerning the relationship. Believe me...if he doesn't see eye to eye with you on things, and be honest for once, then he's not worth keeping. He's not worth your tears at all.

Dry those eyes and treat yourself to a treat or a gift for yourself. Buy nice things for yourself, treat yourself to a massage, a good comedy movie, a nice fudge sundae, whatever makes you feel better, and enjoy your single life. Be freinds with yourself, you deserve it. There are much better guys out there than you think. I hope this works and I hope you feel better.