Why do I believe the bullshit I'm told.... could it be that I just want so much for it to be true.. I only end up hurting myself everytime.. I've had enough of that to last me forever..I'd like to think I'm smarter then that after all the shit I've been thru..

I get so frustrated
Actions speak louder then words so I know it's all bullshit and I should just move on...

but then what if I'm wrong

if it keeps happening over and over you are not wrong to give up on it. move on. please trust me when i say this.
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If it happens repeatedly, it's time to move onto better things or a better person. No point being miserable.

cosign... Lizzy I've kinda been going through that cycle for a while now battling with myself (in a different situation though I'm going to guess) it's hard but you've just gotta put aside those that aren't there for you there's a line that can always be crossed

Lizzy7701 said:

You are wrong. To understand truly what is going on you must keep your mind objective. People are: mentally in flux, emotionally unsertian, biasly driven, complex creatures, that are all the time changing.

To percieve another to be a way then to see it another way is just self doubt.

No one owes you a darn thing in life. The world isn't a nice place. On that note it isn't a evil place. It is just a rock floating in space with humans on it.

You must thus find what makes you happy and focus on making yourself happy, this is not a job you can expect another to fulfill.

The Human race had the ability to believe. It is a powerful ability. Great things can come of it. You however have to remain objective even in your beliefs. You have to choice to believe in the right things or if you choose the wrong things. The choice is all on you.

Believe me, I know what I am talking about

MickG said:

I know ...

Sometimes the boundaries between 'truth' and 'lies' are very small. Maybe try to figure out if you are lying to yourself, instead of focusing on the ways people are betraying you.

I know, small talk, and I don't know how to put this philosophy in practice myself, but still, if you want to talk... I'm here.

Communication, Lizzy, that is the most powerful tool people have on interactions with eachother. Search yourself, understand what it is YOU want, then try to communicate, CLEARLY, what it is you want from another. If THEY do not want to communicate about it, you shouldn't just bursh there failure to communicate aside as a flaw in their charactor, because it gives you a clear perspective into their mindset.

If one doesn't wish to communicate with you, it is becase that one is unintrested in fulfilling your disires, and thus they have another motive, but they are too much of a coward to come out clearly and express what it is they want, they are too fearful of your rejection of their desires, that is assuming they have a clear picture of what it is they desire, when most don't.

Lizzy7701 said:

The past week has really been tough... I know what I need to do.. it's just doing it..
I know what would make me happy.. again it's just doing it...

I just get so tired of things and even thinking about it...




Thanks Mick it all makes since..


oops
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Lizzy7701 said:

Mick?

funkpill said:

Nope

Lizzy7701 said:

Yup..

funkpill said:

Thanks


Brownsugar, Luv, Natisse, Mick, MarieLouise

Lizzy7701 said:

Lizzy7701 said:

I think we have just scratched the serface and I think we need to go deeper.

however, this might just be me, because I am one that always likes to go deeper.

Lizzy7701 said:

just remember that in certain situations you can't let your heart override what is the truth.

brownsugar said:

TALK!!!


She's afraid of my Uno skills Brown...

MickG said:

I fool myself into thinking what I want is what it is... I know this and I sometimes hate myself for it... I hate arguing and fighting so I'll do anything to avoid that... even if it's just letting things go on.. I'm weak sometimes and I don't know what to do about things..

I'm just a mess...


thanks

funkpill said:

he's still dreaming..

Lizzy7701 said:

There is however the theory of the "self fulfilling prophic", most often examined in negitive cases, I have found it also works well with the positive cases too. It is the fact that if you believe in something hard enough it will come true. I have seen it done.

MickG said:

I know what I want and what I need to do.... it's just doing it that's hard for me... there are alot of things going on that I need to deal with and I don't know how... leaving the one I don't love anymore and realizing I'll never be with the one that I do..

Lizzy7701 said:

yeah right...

Anytime my dear, anytime...

funkpill said:

your on

Lizzy7701 said:

You always have us. Please feel free to post, or send me an orgnote for more helpful advice.

I would like to examine what you thinking is on the topic of "don't love anymore" but alis, I could go on forever...

Lizzy7701 said:

Then I accept the challenge..

poor thing..

funkpill said:

Lizzy7701 said:

You will me after you're beaten...

funkpill said:

ok ok... you made me laugh...

cute that you believe that..