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no...to do that i think is shallow and not focussing on what really matters...

SammiJ said:

I ain't sayin' she's agold digga, but she ain't messin' with no broke asians..

Imago said:

I hate U with a passion!

nope

Well I personally to old for that situation... however I can't think ANY young lady would be put off in the least!

andykeen said:

By telling yer truth? Oh hell no! You be you and what you are to have will come to you....

andykeen said:

Wow,thats strange. It wouldnt bother me.

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

Aww thanks

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

I agree. Girls love guys who are virgins. It makes them feel that they are the special "one".
I don't think Andy blew it for being honest. It's probably the way he dresses or something.

Imago said:

haha, hey Im acutally really hip lol

Btw I dont fink I agree with your statement, but that me

andykeen said:

clearly she wasnt all too sweet
people like that piss me off.

i couldn't wait to loose it... i was very casual about sex
and vowed that i wouldn't be one of those girls who regretted a one night stand

but once your virginity is gone andy, it's gone. (i have a knack for stating the obvious)

you have to decide whether you want to spend the rest of your life
with happy memories about the wonderful girl that you spent your first time with

or the drunken slut that you never spoke to again

your choice
but i know what i would choose

emm said:

lol thanks emm
and to U too sammij!

At your age (going by your profile that says you are 18) I can't understand how a girl would lose interst simply because you are a virgin. Personally, I'd be impressed that you didn't rush into sex at an early age.

By mid 20s, however, I'd imagine most chicks would find it a turnoff.

I think its NORMAL to be a virgin at 18....& if some chick changes her opinion of you JUST b/c of that...?,,,well, your better off with out her!~

((( )))

Being a virgin is fine depending on whether it is your choice or not.


Let's be honest. Most women will tell you that they want a man to know what he is doing.

Spats said:

Yeah cause frankly speaking they never have any idea what they are doing themselves. If they are bothering to do anything at all.

Oh, "just for ladies"? But that's discrimination!

Andy, you did the right thing mate. It would have been worse if it looked like you weren't sure what you were doing when the time comes to shag her. At least she'd understand. Besides, you gotta ask yourself, if she blanks you for being honest do you really wanna bird like that?

JDINTERACTIVE said:

Very true..... Cheers!

Here's the thing. She thought that you were going to rock her world. Or she was expecting that you would know what you were doing. Women, such as myself, would love to get a hold of you and make you a sexual dynamo! What you need to do is find yourself a sexual confident women/girl and tell her what is up. Your eagerness to learn and do what she says will give her a helluva confidence boost!

Honesty is the best policy, I operate it and have revealed to a lot of girls how much my friends bullshit accidently, saving them a lot of harm in the process.

For instance, a friend of mine is crazy about this girl in cali he's staying with as of today, but he told our band groupie that he wasn't into her at all (just to get in for a shot at a quick fuck methinks), but I wasn't aware of this. So the other night I told her how excited my friend was about going to see her, accidently revealing the truth. She thanked me, so stay honest and rewards are greater! If girls think they can trust you, they do and you'll be better off...even if that doesn't mean you get the sex you want like me

Spookymuffin said:

You dress very trendy so the ladies will dig that alot Spooky. It's your personality that is slightly repellent.

Imago said:

Rather that than my face.





.....Ouch! Oh no he didn't!

Spookymuffin said:

I've been a maneater before, but I never had a virgin...

I don't think I would make love to a virgin, unless I really really love this guy, then I would... I would only do it when there is not the slightest 'trophy-effect'.

I was asked before but I didn't do it, although I really wanted to make love with this guy. I know what sex can do with a person, and I think having your first time with someone who loves you is much better for your self-confidence.

Maybe you need to ask this girl why she reacted that way. If her reaction is out of respect, that's fine, but then it would be so much nicer to tell you straight in your face.

MarieLouise said:

Oh no! You're too cruel.
[Edited 3/25/06 9:54am]

i wouldn't mind if there wasn't so much emotional attachment to 'your first'. but since is usually, no.