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Reply #90 posted 03/30/06 1:34pm

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ok, so first appointment with the otorhinolaryngologist. (ear/nose/throat doctor) we don't really know alot more than before. she goes in tomorrow morning for a CT scan to find out if it's in her lymph nodes. we know for sure it is papillary carcinoma, but won't know if there is a combination of papillary/follicular carcinoma (which is a bit more aggressive) until they take it out. we also won't know what stage it's in until they take it out.

he told her it has to come out. my sis wants to keep her thyroid, and so is looking into alternative therapies and treatments. i'm really worried. i'm afraid that if she delays too long it will be too late. the doctor said she needs to make a decision within the next month. so, what if she decides on one of these other treatments, wastes 6 months on that, finds out it doesn't work, and then decides to go for the thyroidectomy and finds out the cancer has spread to her lungs or bones??

sigh

one good thing, next week we're going to the cancer treatment center in tulsa, ok. i looked on their website, and it seems that they look at other treatments too, not just surgery. so, i'm hoping that if they look at everything and STILL say she needs the surgery she will heed their word a bit more than the single-minded midwestern doctors here.

i'm frustrated, b/c this is such an easy cancer to cure. why does she have to make this so much more difficult than it needs to be? sigh


Keep in mind, Hill, the power of belief... if she doesn't feel good about surgery, having it may make her feel worse, psychologically speaking. If she believes in the natural cure, it has a better chance of working.

It's kind of hard at this moment, I know... but please try to believe in her. She needs all the positive energy she can get... hug It's just fear, Hillster.


thank you heiress, but i'm afraid i'm with PREDOM on this one. cancer is cancer. "wishing" it gone with positive thinking isn't going to get rid of it. i am sending her positive energy, don't get me wrong. and i'm supporting her every way i know how. but the cancer has to come out if she is going to survive.

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Reply #91 posted 03/30/06 2:43pm

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ok, so first appointment with the otorhinolaryngologist. (ear/nose/throat doctor) we don't really know alot more than before. she goes in tomorrow morning for a CT scan to find out if it's in her lymph nodes. we know for sure it is papillary carcinoma, but won't know if there is a combination of papillary/follicular carcinoma (which is a bit more aggressive) until they take it out. we also won't know what stage it's in until they take it out.

he told her it has to come out. my sis wants to keep her thyroid, and so is looking into alternative therapies and treatments. i'm really worried. i'm afraid that if she delays too long it will be too late. the doctor said she needs to make a decision within the next month. so, what if she decides on one of these other treatments, wastes 6 months on that, finds out it doesn't work, and then decides to go for the thyroidectomy and finds out the cancer has spread to her lungs or bones??

sigh

one good thing, next week we're going to the cancer treatment center in tulsa, ok. i looked on their website, and it seems that they look at other treatments too, not just surgery. so, i'm hoping that if they look at everything and STILL say she needs the surgery she will heed their word a bit more than the single-minded midwestern doctors here.

i'm frustrated, b/c this is such an easy cancer to cure. why does she have to make this so much more difficult than it needs to be? sigh



Sweetie...she is just scared right now. News of this came fast and hard and I'm sure she's not thinking of things with a full calm and rational mind. Maybe if you continue to talk with her about it and help her do some research...maybe talk with some people who have had their thyroids taken out and have them tell her their stories...it may help. One of my best friends had most of her thyroid taken out and she's on meds...she's doing great! She had a baby (my God son, Camden) a little over a year ago and she's never felt better. smile hug Hang in there.
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Reply #92 posted 03/30/06 3:55pm

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Keep in mind, Hill, the power of belief... if she doesn't feel good about surgery, having it may make her feel worse, psychologically speaking. If she believes in the natural cure, it has a better chance of working.

It's kind of hard at this moment, I know... but please try to believe in her. She needs all the positive energy she can get... hug It's just fear, Hillster.


I am sorry to be so blunt Heiress but this is absolute categorical bullshit! I agree that a good positive attitude along with the recommended treatment is better than being down and scared about the treatment but sitting back and pretending it will all be ok if you have faith and eat a few mashed up leaves is SERIOUSLY asking for trouble on this one.

You know where I stand on this FI and I really believe by consulting the complementary therapists soon will lead her to make the right choice.


that's what i'm saying, man. just let her make her own decisions. nod she'll make the right one for her, in the end. she needs a quick fix now, doesn't she? whereas natural solutions are for the long run, and prevention pretty much.

because hasn't she had a sore throat for years and years? i understand, tho, that it's hard for some people to really be "in" their bodies and pay attention to what they're saying, for whatever complicated reasons.

for my own personal care, i see mainstream medical care as a last or emergency resort... a person really must be in your body 24/7 and responding to it (and in touch with your unconscious) to circumvent problems before they appear... and that's hard to do.

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Reply #93 posted 03/30/06 5:15pm

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Heiress said:

PREDOMINANT said:



I am sorry to be so blunt Heiress but this is absolute categorical bullshit! I agree that a good positive attitude along with the recommended treatment is better than being down and scared about the treatment but sitting back and pretending it will all be ok if you have faith and eat a few mashed up leaves is SERIOUSLY asking for trouble on this one.

You know where I stand on this FI and I really believe by consulting the complementary therapists soon will lead her to make the right choice.


that's what i'm saying, man. just let her make her own decisions. nod she'll make the right one for her, in the end. she needs a quick fix now, doesn't she? whereas natural solutions are for the long run, and prevention pretty much.

because hasn't she had a sore throat for years and years? i understand, tho, that it's hard for some people to really be "in" their bodies and pay attention to what they're saying, for whatever complicated reasons.

for my own personal care, i see mainstream medical care as a last or emergency resort... a person really must be in your body 24/7 and responding to it (and in touch with your unconscious) to circumvent problems before they appear... and that's hard to do.

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IMHO the best decision is to get it out NOW. Then back that up with whatever therapy she wants to help her feel better and be happy. Long story short...the experts have said remove it....if you take your car to the mechanic and he says "head gasket is gone" you don't drive around all the local garages till you find one that agrees with your feeling which is "flat tyre" and then get him to fix that. Bottom line.....sanctity of life.
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Reply #94 posted 03/30/06 11:13pm

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Heiress said:

PREDOMINANT said:



I am sorry to be so blunt Heiress but this is absolute categorical bullshit! I agree that a good positive attitude along with the recommended treatment is better than being down and scared about the treatment but sitting back and pretending it will all be ok if you have faith and eat a few mashed up leaves is SERIOUSLY asking for trouble on this one.

You know where I stand on this FI and I really believe by consulting the complementary therapists soon will lead her to make the right choice.


that's what i'm saying, man. just let her make her own decisions. nod she'll make the right one for her, in the end. she needs a quick fix now, doesn't she? whereas natural solutions are for the long run, and prevention pretty much.

because hasn't she had a sore throat for years and years? i understand, tho, that it's hard for some people to really be "in" their bodies and pay attention to what they're saying, for whatever complicated reasons.

for my own personal care, i see mainstream medical care as a last or emergency resort... a person really must be in your body 24/7 and responding to it (and in touch with your unconscious) to circumvent problems before they appear... and that's hard to do.

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problem is, we are now beyond prevention and the time when those natural cures may have worked. she now has full blown papillary carcinoma of the thyroid. the only way to get rid of it is to take it out. this is what all the doctors say. it has to come out, and she's still hoping for a "miracle pill" which will kill the cancer and leave her a healthy thyroid. that's just not gonna happen.
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Reply #95 posted 03/30/06 11:40pm

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Heiress said:



that's what i'm saying, man. just let her make her own decisions. nod she'll make the right one for her, in the end. she needs a quick fix now, doesn't she? whereas natural solutions are for the long run, and prevention pretty much.

because hasn't she had a sore throat for years and years? i understand, tho, that it's hard for some people to really be "in" their bodies and pay attention to what they're saying, for whatever complicated reasons.

for my own personal care, i see mainstream medical care as a last or emergency resort... a person really must be in your body 24/7 and responding to it (and in touch with your unconscious) to circumvent problems before they appear... and that's hard to do.

edit for clarity
[Edited 3/30/06 8:18am]


problem is, we are now beyond prevention and the time when those natural cures may have worked. she now has full blown papillary carcinoma of the thyroid. the only way to get rid of it is to take it out. this is what all the doctors say. it has to come out, and she's still hoping for a "miracle pill" which will kill the cancer and leave her a healthy thyroid. that's just not gonna happen.


Hopefully if she explores all the options & hears accounts of people like my mother who have had it taken out, she'll realize that the surgery really is the best option--especially for this type of cancer.

And it's not like a mastectomy or other surgery that will drastically change her appearance, and with pills she'll be just fine.

I can understand not wanting surgery, though. And I know someone who has survived for years & years with breast cancer using only natural remedies, but she had to drastically alter her lifestyle to follow all of those rules (and the cancer is still there), where my mother simply takes a pill to keep her metabolism right.
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Reply #96 posted 03/31/06 6:39am

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Heiress said:



that's what i'm saying, man. just let her make her own decisions. nod she'll make the right one for her, in the end. she needs a quick fix now, doesn't she? whereas natural solutions are for the long run, and prevention pretty much.

because hasn't she had a sore throat for years and years? i understand, tho, that it's hard for some people to really be "in" their bodies and pay attention to what they're saying, for whatever complicated reasons.

for my own personal care, i see mainstream medical care as a last or emergency resort... a person really must be in your body 24/7 and responding to it (and in touch with your unconscious) to circumvent problems before they appear... and that's hard to do.

edit for clarity
[Edited 3/30/06 8:18am]



IMHO the best decision is to get it out NOW. Then back that up with whatever therapy she wants to help her feel better and be happy. Long story short...the experts have said remove it....if you take your car to the mechanic and he says "head gasket is gone" you don't drive around all the local garages till you find one that agrees with your feeling which is "flat tyre" and then get him to fix that. Bottom line.....sanctity of life.


I guess I'm just wishing people took better care of themselves... I'm taking this as a reminder to do the same, for myself...
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Reply #97 posted 03/31/06 6:41am

Heiress

fantasyislander said:

Heiress said:



that's what i'm saying, man. just let her make her own decisions. nod she'll make the right one for her, in the end. she needs a quick fix now, doesn't she? whereas natural solutions are for the long run, and prevention pretty much.

because hasn't she had a sore throat for years and years? i understand, tho, that it's hard for some people to really be "in" their bodies and pay attention to what they're saying, for whatever complicated reasons.

for my own personal care, i see mainstream medical care as a last or emergency resort... a person really must be in your body 24/7 and responding to it (and in touch with your unconscious) to circumvent problems before they appear... and that's hard to do.

edit for clarity
[Edited 3/30/06 8:18am]


problem is, we are now beyond prevention and the time when those natural cures may have worked. she now has full blown papillary carcinoma of the thyroid. the only way to get rid of it is to take it out. this is what all the doctors say. it has to come out, and she's still hoping for a "miracle pill" which will kill the cancer and leave her a healthy thyroid. that's just not gonna happen.


was just talking to F about a bunch of people we know who don't have thyroids... including his father (i had forgotten about that)... he lives a very active life, although he is retired. losing a thyroid certainly doesn't have to be the end of the world! this guy is looking after our entire house project (voluntarily, as a kind of hobby) and chases E around a couple of times per week... and he's no young'un.

surgery just SOUNDS dern scary to people... in the end, it doesn't have to be a big deal.
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Reply #98 posted 03/31/06 9:46am

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At last it sounds like we are all on the same page grouphug and here is to hoping your sis joins us soon. In the meantime we can all be eating well in the hope none of us end up in a similar situation.

Love and Hugs FI hug
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Reply #99 posted 03/31/06 10:19am

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At last it sounds like we are all on the same page grouphug and here is to hoping your sis joins us soon. In the meantime we can all be eating well in the hope none of us end up in a similar situation.

Love and Hugs FI hug


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Reply #100 posted 03/31/06 11:58am

Heiress

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PREDOMINANT said:

At last it sounds like we are all on the same page grouphug and here is to hoping your sis joins us soon. In the meantime we can all be eating well in the hope none of us end up in a similar situation.

Love and Hugs FI hug


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Reply #101 posted 03/31/06 12:15pm

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woot! I love the org!


me toos
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Reply #102 posted 03/31/06 12:34pm

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mdiver said:

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me toos
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hug


you guys touched
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Reply #103 posted 03/31/06 1:57pm

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touched such love on my thread! grouphug wink






does anyone know anything about the Hoxsey cancer treatment center in tijuana, mexico? this is the main "alternative treatment" my sister is looking into.
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Reply #104 posted 03/31/06 1:58pm

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touched such love on my thread! grouphug wink






does anyone know anything about the Hoxsey cancer treatment center in tijuana, mexico? this is the main "alternative treatment" my sister is looking into.



Isn't that what Coretta Scott King was doing? They did NOTHING for her, if that's the case.

sigh
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Reply #105 posted 03/31/06 2:00pm

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applekisses said:

fantasyislander said:

touched such love on my thread! grouphug wink






does anyone know anything about the Hoxsey cancer treatment center in tijuana, mexico? this is the main "alternative treatment" my sister is looking into.



Isn't that what Coretta Scott King was doing? They did NOTHING for her, if that's the case.

sigh



is this where she went? i remember it was somewhere in mexico, but i haven't had a chance to look it up yet . . .
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Reply #106 posted 03/31/06 2:02pm

applekisses

fantasyislander said:

applekisses said:




Isn't that what Coretta Scott King was doing? They did NOTHING for her, if that's the case.

sigh



is this where she went? i remember it was somewhere in mexico, but i haven't had a chance to look it up yet . . .


If it wasn't that particular facility, it was something similar.
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Reply #107 posted 03/31/06 2:06pm

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applekisses said:

fantasyislander said:




is this where she went? i remember it was somewhere in mexico, but i haven't had a chance to look it up yet . . .


If it wasn't that particular facility, it was something similar.



she went to baja california, mexico, to a holistic healing center there.
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Reply #108 posted 03/31/06 2:09pm

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applekisses said:

fantasyislander said:

touched such love on my thread! grouphug wink






does anyone know anything about the Hoxsey cancer treatment center in tijuana, mexico? this is the main "alternative treatment" my sister is looking into.



Isn't that what Coretta Scott King was doing? They did NOTHING for her, if that's the case.

sigh



That is because it's bullshit!
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Reply #109 posted 03/31/06 2:19pm

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fantasyislander said:

applekisses said:



If it wasn't that particular facility, it was something similar.



she went to baja california, mexico, to a holistic healing center there.


Herbalist treatments are one thing, but don't even get me started on holistic therapy. Treatment essence, I will give you a treatment essence fart . Money-grabbing parasites preying on vulnerable patients.
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Reply #110 posted 03/31/06 2:41pm

Heiress

PREDOMINANT said:

fantasyislander said:




she went to baja california, mexico, to a holistic healing center there.


Herbalist treatments are one thing, but don't even get me started on holistic therapy. Treatment essence, I will give you a treatment essence fart . Money-grabbing parasites preying on vulnerable patients.


what is a treatment essence? i like essential oils. they are my home medicine chest (aspirin is the hardest "drug" i have here).

but i must admit, homeopathy does absolutely NOTHING for me. i have, however, cured a few of my own health problems with energy work - done on myself, for myself, by myself...

people like me should be studied. lol i feel rather freakish.
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Reply #111 posted 03/31/06 2:46pm

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PREDOMINANT said:



Herbalist treatments are one thing, but don't even get me started on holistic therapy. Treatment essence, I will give you a treatment essence fart . Money-grabbing parasites preying on vulnerable patients.


what is a treatment essence? i like essential oils. they are my home medicine chest (aspirin is the hardest "drug" i have here).

but i must admit, homeopathy does absolutely NOTHING for me. i have, however, cured a few of my own health problems with energy work - done on myself, for myself, by myself...

people like me should be studied. lol i feel rather freakish.


Holistic "medicines" are solutions of plant extract (for example) that have been diluted so much that only the "essence" of the plant remains. ie only the fact that the plant was once there gives power to the water (I suppose) that remains. wacky
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Reply #112 posted 03/31/06 2:49pm

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Heiress said:



what is a treatment essence? i like essential oils. they are my home medicine chest (aspirin is the hardest "drug" i have here).

but i must admit, homeopathy does absolutely NOTHING for me. i have, however, cured a few of my own health problems with energy work - done on myself, for myself, by myself...

people like me should be studied. lol i feel rather freakish.


Holistic "medicines" are solutions of plant extract (for example) that have been diluted so much that only the "essence" of the plant remains. ie only the fact that the plant was once there gives power to the water (I suppose) that remains. wacky


so it's like the opposite of an essential oil? hmmm
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Reply #113 posted 03/31/06 2:50pm

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Holistic "medicines" are solutions of plant extract (for example) that have been diluted so much that only the "essence" of the plant remains. ie only the fact that the plant was once there gives power to the water (I suppose) that remains. wacky


so it's like the opposite of an essential oil? hmmm


Exactly, totally opposite, essential oils are distilled from plants, super concentrated plant juce.
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Reply #114 posted 03/31/06 6:18pm

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applekisses said:



If it wasn't that particular facility, it was something similar.



she went to baja california, mexico, to a holistic healing center there.


My mom's friend who decided not to get traditional treatment for her breast cancer went for treatment in Mexico, as well.

Like I said, she survived for many years with cancer (at least 10 years, I lost touch with her eventually) but she had to drastically alter her lifestyle, she was sick, and she still had the cancer in the end.
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Reply #115 posted 03/31/06 6:27pm

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Isn't that what Coretta Scott King was doing? They did NOTHING for her, if that's the case.

sigh



That is because it's bullshit!



Total bullshit. I'd lose my mind if somebody I cared about was going for "alternative" cancer treatment without attempting conventional treatment. Because while she's wasting time, those cancer cells are multiplying. . .

I'm sorry about your sister, fantasyislander. Hopefully she'll come around. Thyroid replacement medication really isn't a big deal.

I'm sure, though, that the emotional stuff that she's going through, and that you and your family are going through, IS a big deal. Take care. rose
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Reply #116 posted 03/31/06 11:31pm

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SeattleInvasion said:

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That is because it's bullshit!



Total bullshit. I'd lose my mind if somebody I cared about was going for "alternative" cancer treatment without attempting conventional treatment. Because while she's wasting time, those cancer cells are multiplying. . .

I'm sorry about your sister, fantasyislander. Hopefully she'll come around. Thyroid replacement medication really isn't a big deal.

I'm sure, though, that the emotional stuff that she's going through, and that you and your family are going through, IS a big deal. Take care. rose


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