Do you feel like the world owes you something? Do you feel like others owe you? Not monetarily, not favors per se, but are you doing your part, or thinking you deserve more simply because you exist? Are you a person who believes in redemption and giving some grace, or vindictiveness and retaliation?

nobody owes me nuffink or nuffink
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Two people from eBay owe me a total of $76.

Other than that, no one.

I am just so tired of people who think the world owes them something, that they can't just live life without having to get back at people or be the victim all the time....

their is one person who i felt owed me but i let it go. they can have it. all i know is i want to be happy, and letting go is the only way to achieve that. i don't believe in vindictiveness, that gives the other person too much of my power.
[Edited 3/20/06 19:21pm]

bluesssss

it's hard to find redeeming qualities in people who are constantly using others
hopefully there is a way for you to cut that negativitiy out of your life??



btw

nobody.

now give me candy damnit





J/K

Mach said:

I have some sour fruit jellies you can have

charlottegelin said:

what would i owe you then ?

Mach said:

nothing! I have enough to share

The US fuckin Government! They owe my people big time!

You owe me $50

CynthiasSocks said:

Moving to P & R Discussion



Just kidding.

althom said:

I've got your $50.

TMPletz said:

*^%#^#^%$#@

althom said:

TMPletz said:

bluesbaby said:

My father acts very much like this. He's dug himself a hole and expects others to help him dig out of it, he won't admit he's done it to himself AND he feels slighted that I'm not bending over backwards to dig him out.


Plus he is ALWAYS going on about how AWFUL and STUPID people are and how much he'd like to kick so and so's ass or how they're "not worth the powder it would take to blow them to hell".

I've been having quite a difficult time dealing with him. He's so full of negativity and rage and he is such a taker that I don't like the way I feel around him.

emm said:

I can't cut it all out yet, but I will not deal with people who do it the same way.....

and

Mach said:

I am preaching on gluttony soon candy, dammit!

althom said:

Nothinbutjoy said:

Nothinbutjoy said:

He sounds pretty toxic. It's especially hard when it's your dad... Keep your boundaries.

I owe myself.....but just don't know how to do it.

Money's too tight to mention

Yeah there is someone that owes me a huge debt....I will never collect though.....i have tried...but if they don't wanna pay you can only try as long as you have the strength...and i don't anymore. It's funny i used to get all hung up on stuff like this but now i am content that there is such a thing as natural justice. You can't go treading on people and taking all that they hold dear without a consequence.
It's time to move on.
[Edited 3/21/06 3:10am]

yes... it's so far in the past now that it's forgotten about but she is one person I will never ask for it back anyway

as far as anyone emotionally oweing me or anything like that... hell no. If I'm lucky enough to be included in some positivity and love thats my good luck not what I think I'm entitled to

bluesbaby said:

it's very frustrating to me, too. it must come from a sense of insecurity. i always wished that people who are in that state could see how positivity can make a huge difference, but they seem to be so deep in that set of emotions, it's practically impossible to get through.

IrresistibleB1tch said:

lately i have been surrounded by some people that act like they are owed something ... yet they give out very little

i have been trying to release them in love and form new boundries

those kinds of people can suck your energy dry