girls.... its finally here



THIS is how we nail these bastards before they have a chance to hurt anyone else


turn those cheaters in


im so excited this is here guys, i hope you dont find your name here

ok boys... in all fairness, and before i get yelled at... there is a site thats comming up now for men to turn the horrible women in that they have dated as well.....


i think its GREAT that there is a place you can go and try to find out if a man is a cheater, its long overdue, and us women need to be protected....

inevitable... & in completely bad taste

Byron said:

CalhounSq said:

I agree...I got devastated by someone last year who makes cheating a sport, but despite that I STILL believe kindness begats kindness....you cannot combat people like that with bitterness and anger. You have to pity them....or take an uzzi to them - take your pick!

Interesting site. Kind of takes the responsibility off of both parties, dontcha think?

I couldn't tell you the number of women I knew in college who were sticking with blatantly bad men out of codependency and the misguided belief they could "change him."


My gosh, someone create BRUH SHE'S MENTAL.COM



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nakedpianoplayer said:

when the sight for cheating women opens up...

would you still find it "GREAT" if you saw someone had posted a pic of you filled with horror stories

Or in lets say in several yrs from now... you see a photo of your son on there filled with stories about what a nast human he supposedly was to some gilr he didnt even really date ?

just saying ... may seem like a "GREAT" thing until you examine the other side of the coin

Mach said:

All kidding aside, those that find it "great" only find it great in a vindictive manner....I find it potentially damaging to someone who maybe does not deserve it. There are always two sides to every story.
I have a brother who I suspect has not always been an angel, but he does not deserve global exposure for his wrongdoings....think twice about this, ladies! Take your aggressions out in kick-boxing class, then chill....

I think this kind of site is why the human race is doomed. Someone said "inevitable". Very true.

Sad, really.

"He's just not that into you".

Wake up, women. There's two sides to every story.

That is not denying that most men, of course, are dogs.

This site sounds as if it could lead to lasuits for slander/libel.

lovemachine said:

i can see this happening too thats the bad part about the site, people COULD lie - just because its written there doesnt mean its true, and i understand that.

but lets not fool ourselves... there are all kinds of people that get off on treating those that they date in horrible ways... there ARE professional liars out there, we all know that. its at least nice to know that there is a way to 'check' on the person that we are looking into dating.... just seems that now days you cannot believe someone on their word alone


i still say its a good idea... and if you arent an ass people are a whole lot less likely to say something nasty about you at least you have to be a bit more accountable for your actions knowing that there IS a way to get the word around that you are a cheating, lying, no good MF.

there are real HEALTH concerns with cheating.. its no longer just about doing something mean or cruel. if a man isnt going to be faithful, or has the capability of being the kind of man that is out for the 'score' of it.... frankly, i would say to myself that im not that lonely, and i dont need the problems.

Lord H'ammercy! Somebody at that site saw ONE too many episodes of Designing Women, !!!!

For those who remember or are cult fans of that sitcom, remember when Mary Jo had that hunk of a client who wooed her so slick that she finally gave in to dating him? Only to have him dump her the "morning after" and by accident she found out that he dumped so many chicks in Atlanta A SUPPORT GROUP HAD BEEN FORMED?!?!?! Then she turned around put him and his cheatin' ass homies on shout on commercial access cable???

Okay, okay, on TV it was funny as hell and made for good comedy, though in real life, I figure I'd have just left old dude alone and moved on...

...my sick twisted mind it still does give me a giggle, though, hehehhehe!

nakedpianoplayer said:

so ... do you still see/think of this as a "GREAT" thing ?

or now just a good idea ?

just trying to understand your perspective on it ... and if the table was oddly turned... like you miffed off someone on the Org and they posted one of your pics with a horror story attached to it ... what would your reaction then be ?

I started a thread about this site a while ago! Shit is still funny!

http://www.dontdatehimgir...isplay%3D5

Mach said:

when i am dating someone, i am dating that person.... it is not my practice to cheat on them. i do not think its fair to carry on in the world as if you are single when you have someone that believes you are only with them. i still say it is a good idea and a "GREAT" thing to have a way to stop this type of behavior

i know you are happily married, and i am so happy for you, really i am but sometimes those who are in a nice, secure, loving relationship forget what its like out here in the dating world.... thats not a bad thing, cuz i would love to forget the ins and outs of dating

however.... for those of us still in this stupid game... its nice to know that there is a place to go and see how someone who has dated them feels about their personality. if i were to talk about my ex's... i would have a lot of kind things to say about them - most of them are decent folks and our relationship just didnt work out for one reason or another thats ok... just because you date someone, or share time with them does not mean that you will end up together forever...

my sons father, he is still a great guy in my eyes... he has a lot to offer, and a wonderful personality, i still think of him as a friend and we have worked hard to be able to be "friends". i dont trust him as far as dating goes though, because he has NEVER been faithful, not to anyone hes ever dated. therefore, i would say it is in his nature to creep around and sleep with who he can, he just doesnt see it as a bad thing i however know that i cannot be with someone who doesnt value the rules of a relationship.... it doesnt work for me. while that is a personal choice for sure, for me i cant do it, it is a deal breaker....

i will say it again.... its nice to know that there is a place to go to find out what kinda man he COULD be before you completely hand yourself over.....and no, that isnt the ONLY way to find out.... you have to invest in a relationship first, learn about him, and you have to be able to trust. but if 10 women pop up saying hes a cheater - im probably going to start looking at him in a different way

IrresistibleB1tch said:

i dont feel so alone now

Byron said:

Yeah don't forget to add him girls!

Rule of thumb: If you feel the need to check up on your partner by visiting a site like this, then one of you has a problem and you'd be better off not being in that relationship.

nakedpianoplayer said:

what site?

IrresistibleB1tch said:

Brava!

ThreadBare said:

Byron said:

as for the website: bad idea. may as well trust yer instincts as opposed to checking on a fucking website.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

Exactly. Do women need to check out a website to find out if their man is cheating/was a cheater? Plus, who's to say the guy can't change?

I think the site's pretty pathetic. A bunch of angry, vindictive women who need to get up off their asses looking at a website and find a guy who will treat them right. Plus, some women don't even want the good guy types. They rather go into a relationship with a guy they know is an asshole and then straight diss them when they show their true colors.

We as women need to take responsibility for the part we play in this bullshit.

Romera said:

all in all you don't need a website to tell you if somebody ain't right.