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Reply #30 posted 03/21/06 4:40am

IrresistibleB1
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Mach said:

IrresistibleB1tch said:



it's very frustrating to me, too. it must come from a sense of insecurity. i always wished that people who are in that state could see how positivity can make a huge difference, but they seem to be so deep in that set of emotions, it's practically impossible to get through.


nod

lately i have been surrounded by some people that act like they are owed something ... yet they give out very little

i have been trying to release them in love and form new boundries
those kinds of people can suck your energy dry

rose


nod that's exactly what i'm learning with my sister, who suffers from borderline personality disorder. it's challenging, but very much worth it - for her and for me. peace
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Reply #31 posted 03/21/06 5:08am

MickG

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U-all owe me a little respect. biggrin
News: Prince pulls his head out his ass in the last moment.
Bad News: Prince wasted too much quality time doing so.
You have those internalized issues because you want to, you like to, stop.
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Reply #32 posted 03/21/06 5:25am

emm

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mymocha said:

I owe myself.....but just don't know how to do it.


yeah i was going to say that too sad
doveShe couldn't stop crying 'cause she knew he was gone to stay dove
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Reply #33 posted 03/21/06 5:30am

jerseykrs

Quite a few people owe me an apology.

And quite a few people owe me my vengence.
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Reply #34 posted 03/21/06 5:37am

onenitealone

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Agree with so many comments on this thread. clapping


Financially - there is someone who owes me quite a bit of money. nod (I posted about it a while ago). It's a bit upsetting because the person in question was someone I once classed as a good friend - we lived together, in fact - but he's now disappeared off the radar. It's not money I can afford to lose but - if that's the way he wants to treat his 'friends' - to hell with him. I don't need people like that in my life. Asshole.

Plus, karma's a bitch and he's already had part of his come-uppance. If I never see the money ever again, fate's already kicked him hard up the ass. I'll settle for that.


Emotionally - nobody owes me anything. We are responsible for our own thoughts and actions. If I'm honest, there was a period in my life where I was more than happy to lay the blame for certain things at my father's feet. And I was right. He's an asshole too. smile

However, you get to a certain point where you realise there's only so long before you start to take accountability for your own actions. We all have a past, we've all had trials and tribulations and - most likely - they have an impact on who we are and how we behave. But some people love to bleat and wallow in 'victim' status. As if they have no control whatsoever over their actions. And I actually know a few people like that.

Obviously this doesn't apply to everyone - some people need more constructive approaches such as therapy. It depends on the individual. But, as someone else said, you just have to forget the past and move on. And you end up removing the power of the person who supposedly 'owes' you.
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Reply #35 posted 03/21/06 7:16am

PANDURITO

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Mach said:

lately i have been surrounded by some people that act like they are owed something ...

Are they dressed in tails, as Pink Panthers, or Franciscan monks ? smile
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Reply #36 posted 03/22/06 9:55am

Mach

PANDURITO said:

Mach said:

lately i have been surrounded by some people that act like they are owed something ...

Are they dressed in tails, as Pink Panthers, or Franciscan monks ? smile


no no no! they are all naked nod
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Reply #37 posted 03/22/06 10:40am

littlemissG

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IRS- TAX REFUND!! dancing jig
No More Haters on the Internet.
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Reply #38 posted 03/22/06 10:42am

Novabreaker

She still owes me an explanation. pout
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Reply #39 posted 03/22/06 11:15am

lillith

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i don't think the world owes me anything...but i think i have a friend that owes me $20...but i don't remember. oh well...its only twenty bucks.



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you're only as old as you feel..............so how old do i feel horny

Now that food has replaced sex in my life, I can't even get into my own pants.
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