brownsugar said:

Nope, you sure don't.

Romera said:

Dansa & Ivy - right on the money!

Women have been addicted to guys who are bad for them for generations. Mothers pass it on to daughters. it's in their makeup. Rarely do you see guys doing that.

i know guys that do it to.

Oh, this is going to get good!

Spats said:

You can't really believe that.

Guys get "addicted" to women who are bad for them. Guys do it for different reasons than do women (usually more superficial reasons...), but they definitely do it.

isn't this that author who writes black novels? i sure looks like him. and i know the name from working at Borders. these women are crazy! lol

http://www.dontdatehimgir...isplay%3D5

Spats said:

...and that's where YOU come in!

brownsugar said:

"he fucked all these girls and he was eating my jell-o pudding snacks! he's no good!!!!"

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

That's kinda like how Ronald McDonald and the Hamburglar broke up.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

Dont date him girl!

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

I don't get involved with women that treat me bad or cheat on me.

Spats said:

Spats said:

nakedpianoplayer said:

I hate Jackasses asses.

What's up with it, huh?
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this is the best thing invented since sliced bread













btw i hate these 1 2 3 pages crap

brownsugar said:

That's Michael Baisden from Love, Lust & Lies. He's on Power 106.3 here in Chicago. Dude comes off on the radio like he hates women.

Don't date him, girl!

Romera said:

stoppit!

it amazes me that none of you think its about time that the cheating, nasty men are found out to be what they are all this peace and good love crap forget that shit ! when a man breaks your heart into a million pieces and cheats on you like you were yesterdays thought, yeah, his ass SHOULD be talked about like the dog that he is.


seriously, are you all saying that noone out there thinks this is a good idea ?

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

The shit is so stupid. It reminds me of an old In Living Color sketch called "You Go, Girl."

nakedpianoplayer said:

I'm the type of chick that if I were to find out my man cheated on me, I would tell him about himself and move the hell on. I do not feel the need to get revenge on him and show the world how much of a dumbass I am by putting him on blast on the internet. Trust me: other women will not care if he cheated.

Romera said:

exactly.

Romera said:

oh yeah, i remember that shit..."mbutu? that's MY man's name!!!"

I can't believe someone would invade another person's privacy and post details about their lives for all the world to see just because they got played.

Ridiculous.

Romera said:

That is so very true.

If a woman began dating a guy whom she considered wonderful and perfect and with whom she felt she was in love, and she then saw her new guy listed on a site like the one being discussed here, more often than not she'd choose NOT to believe what was said about him. She'd just figure it was sour grapes or exaggeration, or outright lies. People often don't even heed the warnings of trusted close friends and family when it comes to their lovers -- why would a post on a website from some unknown person carry any real weight?

A site like this isn't going to change the mind of any woman who is in "twuuue wuuuuuv", or be very successful as serving as a warning to subsequent potential girlfriends of the men listed. Even Richard Ramirez got himself a woman who wanted to marry him (and did).

As for the site itself and its purpose, when I was younger I'd have thought such a site was great. As I've gotten older, though, I see the pointlessness of it.

whatever

call me the only one that would read the shit, but if it helps me see just a moment sooner that the man im looking at is a lying shit, im all for it

nakedpianoplayer said:

Just chiming in on why I answered the way I did:

It's inevitable b/c w/ the dependence we have on the internet these days, this is the electronic equivalent of gossip - "girl, that mf did THIS!!" in blog form. Yes it can be useful, but it will always be tacky. People are spiteful & can say anything about anyone, so it's a little more fucked up than gossip b/c it just lives forever on a page whether it's true or not.

For me it's not just about getting back @ dudes who cheat - when you think about it so many men cheat the site is kinda dumb BUT for the really dastardly ones & the women curious enough to bother, maybe it'll do some good. I just think on a human level it's not great. It's too easy to spread lies out of spite & I'd never want some shit about me spread across the web as truth when it's not. I'm just looking @ it as "person" instead of "woman scorned"... not to get all Princey on ya




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CalhounSq said:

i can accept your stand on this....

however, in this day and age, you can check out anything before you buy it, lease it, stay in it, or order it.... i dont know why it shouldnt be acceptable to check in to see what a potential mate would be.

sure, they can lie.... but again, i stand firm, if he's hurt a few women, he's likely to hurt more.

As long as women are perfect, never do anything wrong, are the most righteous sex ever created, go ahead and believe in that site. The same idea behind the TV show " Cheaters " drives this website, some inherent meaness to make others look bad. When and if the similar site for women is up, will there be any moderation on it when people really get nasty, and once this crap is out there, how can one really restore their character against the garbage written about them?


If you want to rely on this for the truth, why not go all the way and look up people's criminal records, their bad credit, bankruptcies and every other wart that could show up, that way you are fully informed on what could possibly happen when you date them. At the end of the day, no one living is without sin, so stop throwing stones less you want to get hurt.