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What does one say? As many of you know, or have read in the past I was stalked for 2 1/2 years.
Today I found out that the lady who was so cruel died. A part of me feels compassion, and the other part feels that she suffered so awfully because of all the horrible things she has done. Not only to me, but to many, many people. In a sense I feel a new freedom, and now I can remove the padlocks from the gates of my house. ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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Wow- I am sure you have some mixed emotions right now.
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for some reason, i did not know about your stalker situation, but may i just say that i admire you for feeling compassionate toward somebody who has hurt you so much.  | |
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I know you went through hell with this, you're a brave lady | |
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don't feel bad about it if you feel relieved at this.
she caused you hell and now you can finally breathe, knowing that she will never be back. and for you, that is a good thing. so enjoy the feel of being free. and true love lives on lollipops and crisps | |
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What an emotionally puzzling situation.
You're a good person, sag. Remember that always and allow yourself to feel whatever it is you're feeling.  |
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Now you can move on and start a brand new life. Good luck 
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sag10 said: As many of you know, or have read in the past I was stalked for 2 1/2 years.
Today I found out that the lady who was so cruel died. A part of me feels compassion, and the other part feels that she suffered so awfully because of all the horrible things she has done. Not only to me, but to many, many people. In a sense I feel a new freedom, and now I can remove the padlocks from the gates of my house. i can relate. i think in a way both of you are free now. light a candle for her but let it burn out. | |
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| your compassion may be the greatest gift she has been given
your gift to yourself is your feelings of freedom
and i do believe that karma has a way of comming back to us in the ways we send out our energy typo [Edited 3/17/06 18:09pm] | |
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XxAxX said: i can relate. i think in a way both of you are free now. light a candle for her but let it burn out.
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I had no idea, Sag. | |
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Awww Yoli! I am glad you are free of her ever reaching damaging effects and sorry that her life was a tragedy that has ended in the same state! | |
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It takes some person to feel compassion for someone like that. I respect you highly my dear Yoli.
Now let this filter through your thoughts for some time and then let that part of your past come to rest. Take care, Orgnote if you feel like it. You don't scare me; i got kids | |
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XxAxX said: sag10 said: As many of you know, or have read in the past I was stalked for 2 1/2 years.
Today I found out that the lady who was so cruel died. A part of me feels compassion, and the other part feels that she suffered so awfully because of all the horrible things she has done. Not only to me, but to many, many people. In a sense I feel a new freedom, and now I can remove the padlocks from the gates of my house. i can relate. i think in a way both of you are free now. light a candle for her but let it burn out. How beautifully put. Good idea | |
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XxAxX said: sag10 said: As many of you know, or have read in the past I was stalked for 2 1/2 years.
Today I found out that the lady who was so cruel died. A part of me feels compassion, and the other part feels that she suffered so awfully because of all the horrible things she has done. Not only to me, but to many, many people. In a sense I feel a new freedom, and now I can remove the padlocks from the gates of my house. i can relate. i think in a way both of you are free now. light a candle for her but let it burn out. 
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Thank you all for the wonderful words of love.
This weekend I took the padlocks off of my gates, and was able to park my car in the driveway for the first time in 2 years.. No worries of having the tires slashed, no worries of having my garden torn apart. The feeling I had so freeing, so final, so closed.  ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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