when your heart is broken in thousand pieces...

but every piece of it is still filled with love?

You drink...heavily.

wait til the love rebuilds into a beautiful new whole

MarieLouise said:

Did you and your boyfriend break up?

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[Edited 3/17/06 15:02pm]

isadora said:

He just confessed to me he cheated on me again. This is already the second time. On top of that, he's in love with the girl.

At the same time he says he's only in love with an image, and that he's cheating on me because he's not able to reach me, because the love that once was/still is so unbelievably strong is scaring him to death.

It's a complicated story. He doesn't want to break up. My mind is telling me to leave him, but my heart is yelling something else... When we would break up, we would see each other in our dreams every night.

It doesn't feel like I have to decide over a relationship, but over my life.

Please don't say this will change. It will fade, but it won't ever change. I know that.

CarrieLee said:

MarieLouise said:

Ow
Confusing. Think it through, do what you think is right.
A big

CarrieLee said:

After one week of three hours of sleep each night and two stomach-infections I don't think that's the best idea...

He hates it when I post his pick on the net, but right now I don't give a fuck about his stupid rules...



Sorry for being a so open foll. It's either this or doing things that are much more stupid.

I just saw this, pumpkin.



If anything he does is making you feel less than before, let him go.

HamsterHuey said:

That's the best advice so far...

I know it hurts, but you need to leave him. I don't care how 'great' a person is, or what the situation is. He told you he loved another woman and cheated on you...you need to leave.

and he has rules?

MarieLouise said:

What you do is stop reading so many romance novels.

CarrieLee said:

I agree with Carrie. Also you said he cheated on you "again," it doesnt sound good Marie. He has done it before.

Gotta let go.

It'll hurt with or without him, right? If you let go and move forward, you have a chance to heal. There may always be a tender spot. . . I understand. . . but right now your whole being is a tender spot. You can't live like that.


"Do What You Have To Do"

What ravages of spirit
Conjured this temptuous rage
Created you a monster
Broken by the rules of love

And fate has led you through it
You do what you have to do
And fate has led you through it
You do what you have to do ...

But I have the sense to recognize that
I dont know how to let you go
Every moment marked
With apparitions of your soul
Im ever swiftly moving
Trying to escape this desire

The yearning to be near you
I do what I have to do
The yearning to be near you
I do what I have to do

But I have the sense to recognize
That I dont know how to let you go
I dont know how to let you go

A glowing ember
Burning hot
Burning slow
And deep within I'm shaken by the violence
Of existing for only you

I know I cant be with you
I'll do what I have to do
I know I cant be with you
I'll do what I have to do

But I have sense to recognize that
I dont know how to let you go


Sarah-McLachlan-edit
[Edited 3/17/06 10:28am]

MarieLouise said:

I thought it was tommy lee

MarieLouise said:

I'm still suffering from something very similar that happened to me last year - you are right, it won't magically change or go away, but keeping busy seems to work pretty well. And take care of yourself first and foremost. If you are meant to be together, it will ultimately dawn on him, too.
The worst part is the betrayal and lies (wow, this feels all too familiar to me) - remember that his behavior towards you has been its own form of abuse....you look very young by your picture - do not start off your life by tolerating abuse - emotional or otherwise.

Why do women always get into relationhips like this? You NEVER see guys complaining about stuff like this.

Not here you don't...but they do.

Spats said:

I've tried to not comment on your stupid comments for months, after that awful thread, but for one time I ask you to stay off this thread if all you can say is this, stupid things, without any sense, nothing, nothing at all.

Of course we don't look like a happy couple in that pic.

CarrieLee said:

Yes, yes....I completely agree.

Spats said:

asswipe keeps saying

what?

MarieLouise said:

As the Queen of Posting Personal Shit on the Org, let me tell you that if it weren't him, it'd be somebody else. It's the nature of the place.

IrresistibleB1tch said:

Don't have any contact with him for 3 months. At the end of that time, things will be clearer. If you really can't live without him, you'll know. But probably, you'll find out that you really can.

Spats said:

It is generally not correct to use the words "always" and "NEVER" in the manner you used them

it tends to usually make one look foolish by doing so