DynamicSavior said:

i know thats the last thing you wanna hear

brownsugar said:

that's nuts!

saintsation said:

Fuck You.

charlottegelin said:

OKAY! ENOUGH WITH THE FUCKING AND THE NUTS!!

DynamicSavior said:

co-fuck you.

it's one thing for you to decide you are not gay. it's a whole other when you are telling gay men t go straight because our lives are a waste

cborgman said:

Hey you, you don't know me, u be surprise what i went throught the last 3 years up to now.

cborgman said:

Hey you, you don't know me, u be surprise what i went throught the last 3 years up to now.

DynamicSavior said:

And this is your response to me, i'M HURT!!! But real advice, move on, there are way others out there. Just have a better attitude than u have with me and evertything will be fine. Are u going to send me anothe rfuck you cause i will rescind my hug

saintsation said:

Wait..YOU want sympathy after telling me to go straight? Let me clue you in on something here. Unlike you TRYsexuals who take people for a test drive and then toss them to the side because of the revolving door that is your sexuality, I don't have the "luxury" to choose whether I want to be gay or straight. I can't turn it on and off like a light switch. Like YOU do so non chalantly. So I would HIGHLY appreciate it if you didn't come to me with that "stop being gay" bullshit. I get enough of it to my face without having to come on here and have someone else deal it out to me.

I seriously want to blow something up or burn something down...

Well i am sorry to hear that! Go straight! The gay lifestyle is a waste of time ! Switch over!!

saintsation said:

And the girls will be saying the same about you- no flower buying ass!

saintsation said:

And the girls will be saying the same about you- no flower buying ass!

CynthiasSocks said:

Flowers my aunt fannie!!!! You right instead of taking him or her to Niagara falls, Vegas, or to a nice restaurant, just buy cheap flowers!! That way sound better.

i thought we were friends cynthia!! So u jumping off my posse too!!
[Edited 3/16/06 22:17pm]

What kind of bullshit is that?

Okay..remember that guy I was dating? Guess what. He just told me that he's moving back to Pittsburgh, and next week no less. But before all this..he tells me that he's still in love with his ex and all this bullshit. Okay...
If you're still in love with someone who dogged you and shit, why the HELL would you even try to pick something up with someone else when you're still carrying baggage and shit? What kind of bullshit is that? And I mean, if he wasn't interested in me, he could've told me a WHILE ago and saved me some fucking time. Seriously, what the fuck? I am SO fucking pissed right now. I could fucking slap him inside out. Fucking bastard. I want him to leave. He BETTER leave. He better get the fuck away from me and stay away. So I asked him if he was interested in me and he gave me some bullshit answer. I could just FEEL the rejection coming on. He said "oh...I have all this drama in my life and I'm not ready to settle down blah bleh bley BULLSHIT so on and so forth..OH! But i'm still so in love with my ex and I just want to kick it with my girlfriends." Oh you can kiss the BLACKEST part of my ass. And you know what? It didn't even bother me that he doesn't want me. I'm so fucking used to the rejection that it didn't even "hit" me like it used to. This is some fucked up shit for real. I don't even know what I'm supposed to be feeling right now. Right now I'm just PISSED THE FUCK OFF. I wasted my time with this piece of shit bastard. I wish I never met him.
Thoughts?
and p.s. please don't turn this into an intervention kissie huggie "you'll be alright" type thread. I don't want to hear it.

DynamicSavior said:

It's exactly the type of bullshit that you're always going to get if you're after the type of people that don't fit you.

DynamicSavior said:

yeah, men fucking suck. last one i dated called me all the time, took me on
holiday, let me sleep over etc etc. then i get the feeling he might not be
as interested as i thought so i back off and he just keeps calling asking me
to go out and shit.

so last time he calls to go out together i ask him if i can spend the night
cuz i want to have some drinks and if i can't stay at his place i have to
call my friend to see if she can let me sleep on her couch that night.

you know what he says "you can stay over, yes, and i guess you could sleep
with me but if i hook up with someone else tonight, you know to take them
home, you can still sleep on an airbed in the livingroom".



drop dead you fucking loser. what the fuck are you calling me for and being
all nice and friendly and shit when your only objective is to fuck me when
you can't get someone else. that was so rude i couldn't even believe that he
actually suggested it. damnit man.

his response? "so do you have feelings for me? perhaps we better just be
friends than". o.m.g. some people are just too selfish for words.



so now that i didn't call him anymore or beg for attention, he's back on my
wires texting me to know how i'm doing. as if i'm gonna react to any of
that bs. soon as he's got me to come over to his place he'll have what he
wants (affirmation that he is the greatest guy of all time who can get them
all wrapped around his finger) he will give me the brush off again.

and even if that isn't his intention, he can still fuck the hell off cuz i
sure won't forget what was said. geez.

See? That's that shit that turns the nice guys like us into bitter bitches. I'm trying not to let that happen to me. I don't want to FINALLY meet someone and have all the feelings be mutual only for me to be like "I Don't know..I've been hurt in the past blah blah blah." I could just him right now.

DynamicSavior said:

yeah, that's my biggest fear too, that i will become one of those
bitter cynical bitches one day.

but right now i'm still willing to give everyone a fair shot cuz,
in all honesty, the "new" guy can't help what the others did and
he might be very nice indeed.

however, you do get better and quicker at weeding out the bad 1s
as soon as their shitty behaviour starts popping up.

i used to be all shy and coy and not say anything. but i've now
learned to pull open a can of whoop ass so fucking big that it
scares even the most advanced players out there.

no more messing with isten

IstenSzek said:

I know that's right. I wouldn't drag my own shit into a relationship. I mean, what if we were together and he told me he still had feelings for his ex? Then what? I'm thankful that didn't happen.

Don't hate us, LESBIANS HAVE ISSUES TOO ya know....gigglin!

Whap!!

DynamicSavior said:

exactly, you should resolve that kind of shit before you start
dating someone else. or at the very least, if you still have a
bit of feelings for your ex but won't get back with them, than
don't hang that shit on your new boyfriend.

or the ones that constantly keep talking about how so and so is
soooo incredibly handsome. oh, did you see that guy? oh he was
so damn goodlooking. oh, there's this guy at work flirting with
me who's soooo hot. oh, i was at the supermarket and this guy
wanted to give me his number and he was soo hot with such a wow
body.



hello, i'm not your girlfriend ok, i'm your partner you bitch,
can't we talk about something normal instead of your cruising
for other tricks?

that kind of stuff makes me so incredibly tired. it's like i
just switch off right when they start a sentence like that.

UGGH!!!