I just saw the cutest older guy in the coffee shop ,he had dark hair ,brown eyes ..nice body .He was eating a sandwich and every little bite he took made me have dirty thoughts ,his mouth was so sexy and he had some stubble and slightly messy hair like he just woke up

He gave me a little smile as i left as he knew i had spent 20 minutes staring at him ,he also checked out my bum as i walked out the door!

I so want to date an older/more experienced guy ,so are they better in bed?!

Nikki23 said:

yes i am!

Mazerati said:

Ok ,explain how you are better!

Of course we are.

Nikki23 said:

My wife says that as I have got older Im looking better and sexy (hes says with a smile on his face)
I think Im more Attentive than when I was younger. when I was younger is was a case of now its more and fun always has been fun !!!! but even more so

jerseykrs said:

Well i have no doubts about you ,you sexy Photowhoring Italian guy

you're not old though!

Nikki23 said:

Let me pretend to be for this thread at least.

Nikki23 said:

haha im italian too

oldpurple said:

Well see this is part of it ,young guys are a pain in the ass . I think older guys as well as having more experience might be more respectful and less as you put it!

All down to experience, you probably reach a plateau though, so don't go dtating an 80 yer old and expect him to swing you round and make your hair curl. I have heard great tales from friends of mine who tried 40/50 year olds and were pleasantly surprised.

I just keep getting older and hopefully keep getting better

PREDOMINANT said:

No i will pass on the 80 year old thanks!

Do older guys know how to really please a woman, does that naturally come with age? i know from experience young guys can be so selfish when it comes to sex.

Mazerati said:

Italians do it better i've heard

"You don't need no young man, you need someone with experience...I can make it so nice!"

The two oldest guys I've slept with weren't good lovers at all. I don't know if that says something about me or them though.

Pffffft!

jerseykrs said:

Amen

Yes they are better.

I prefer older guys. They seem to get all excited to be hooking up with someone younger than them (not that Im a spring chicken, I'll be turning 30 this year, but back in the day, LOL). Younger guys are too flippant and sometimes arrogant, that it's not as fun.

It's not about age, it's about experience. Generally, if a guy has had at least 1-2 long term girlfriends, that's enough to teach him what he needs to know. No matter the age.

CarrieMpls said:

Fauxie said:

it's all relative to YOUR age.
i'm 38, but i have this 15 down, 10 up range when it comes to casual sex---15 years younger or 10 years older--give or take. the best sex usually comes from people within +/- 5 years my age at the time. if you go too young, the things that you do as simple foreplay ( licking the spine, eating slightly warm cherries off the ass, going downtown with crushed ice cubes in your mouth, licking sensitive area between the thighs), usually gets them all worked up and in a frenzy. when you go older, a good hard thumping usually works just fine

Men are kinda like banannas. They're lousy when they're green, you gotta get em when they're ripe. But they go bad and start decaying soon after that.

CarrieMpls said:

co-

Yes. YES YES YES YES YES.

Tom said:

Very good analogy. I always have dated older men and reaped many benifits in experience from it. But I will not go beyond the 10+ range. Older men do tend to be more focused on quality rather than quantity (...of positions and # of "performances") unlike younger men. But aside from all that, the kind of person he is, is your definite indicator to how he will treat you.

purpleizpassion said:

Attitude and experience.

Attitude. . .yeah, of course it's individual, and not that some younger guys don't have this down, but the older guys do tend to lose the hangups over how sex is supposed to go. They're willing to toss out the script. Which is great for women, because often we aren't reading off of the same script.

Experience. . .I told my man that I'm sure he was born 15 years ahead of me just so he could learn to perfect the art of oral sex. Gawd damn. Carrie has the right idea on this one.

I want an older man too
I'm tired of men who wont grow up

Lizzy7701 said:

Byron said:

no thanks.. too old

I'm only 28