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thank you for telling us stu
you have been through so much your love is strong and wonderful and we have been witness to it please know that we all feel like we are there with you 
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oh my god, how awful, I am so sorry to hear this. Stay strong and know that we are all pulling for you guys and keeping you in our thoughts/prayers. I mean, like, where is the sun? | |
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I'm very sorry 2 hear that. Stay strong, Stuart. Listen to me on The House of Pop Culture podcast on itunes http://itunes.apple.com/u...d438631917 | |
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God be with you both and your families.
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Thank you all, I still can't believe this. I'm in shock. Drew was moved from ER to ICU. He has blood pressure and a heart beat on his own, but his breathing is controled by a respirator. He wouldn't be able to breathe without the machine. He was dead on arrival when we got there. They were able to revive him but Drew's brain was without blood or oxygen long enough that they suppect massive brain damage. We were told that if he does survive, he would never speak or walk again and would probably never come home.
We're waiting on a brain doctor specialist to give a diagnosis, only then will we know the extend of the damage. His parents and I have discussed terminating life support once all options have been exhausted. Know one has said it yet, but I think he may be a vegetable. Guys I'm dying over here. This is killing me and I don't know how I'm going to deal with this. Sorry for being hysterical, but I'm being stronge for those who are around me and I can't keep it up. This April would have marked our 11 year anniversary. 11 short years, we were supposed to be together much much longer. I can't believe our time is coming to an end. I can't believe this. I can't believe it, I can't. Socks still got butt like a leather seat... | |
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I don't know what to say. All I can do is pray for you and hope he gets better. | |
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CynthiasSocks said: Thank you all, I still can't believe this. I'm in shock. Drew was moved from ER to ICU. He has blood pressure and a heart beat on his own, but his breathing is controled by a respirator. He wouldn't be able to breathe without the machine. He was dead on arrival when we got there. They were able to revive him but Drew's brain was without blood or oxygen long enough that they suppect massive brain damage. We were told that if he does survive, he would never speak or walk again and would probably never come home.
We're waiting on a brain doctor specialist to give a diagnosis, only then will we know the extend of the damage. His parents and I have discussed terminating life support once all options have been exhausted. Know one has said it yet, but I think he may be a vegetable. Guys I'm dying over here. This is killing me and I don't know how I'm going to deal with this. Sorry for being hysterical, but I'm being stronge for those who are around me and I can't keep it up. This April would have marked our 11 year anniversary. 11 short years, we were supposed to be together much much longer. I can't believe our time is coming to an end. I can't believe this. I can't believe it, I can't. Stuart, you have every right to be "hysterical". You seem to be handling this far better than I would if I were in your shoes. It's good that you've been strong for those around you, but at this point you have to be strong for yourself and Drew. I know these words are of small comfort, but please know that you guys are in the thoughts and prayers of a whole lot of folks. 
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 ...All my thoughts and prayers to you both, Stuart.. ...there's so much beauty in everything you've shared so far of your relationship with Drew. Much strength and inner understanding to you right now, my friend... | |
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CynthiasSocks said: Thank you all, I still can't believe this. I'm in shock. Drew was moved from ER to ICU. He has blood pressure and a heart beat on his own, but his breathing is controled by a respirator. He wouldn't be able to breathe without the machine. He was dead on arrival when we got there. They were able to revive him but Drew's brain was without blood or oxygen long enough that they suppect massive brain damage. We were told that if he does survive, he would never speak or walk again and would probably never come home.
We're waiting on a brain doctor specialist to give a diagnosis, only then will we know the extend of the damage. His parents and I have discussed terminating life support once all options have been exhausted. Know one has said it yet, but I think he may be a vegetable. Guys I'm dying over here. This is killing me and I don't know how I'm going to deal with this. Sorry for being hysterical, but I'm being stronge for those who are around me and I can't keep it up. This April would have marked our 11 year anniversary. 11 short years, we were supposed to be together much much longer. I can't believe our time is coming to an end. I can't believe this. I can't believe it, I can't. my heart is breaking for you.... im so incredibly sorry sweetie One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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Stu, know that we love you and drew, and will do anything we can energy wise to pull drew through this battle between this plane and the next. | |
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CynthiasSocks said: Thank you all, I still can't believe this. I'm in shock. Drew was moved from ER to ICU. He has blood pressure and a heart beat on his own, but his breathing is controled by a respirator. He wouldn't be able to breathe without the machine. He was dead on arrival when we got there. They were able to revive him but Drew's brain was without blood or oxygen long enough that they suppect massive brain damage. We were told that if he does survive, he would never speak or walk again and would probably never come home.
We're waiting on a brain doctor specialist to give a diagnosis, only then will we know the extend of the damage. His parents and I have discussed terminating life support once all options have been exhausted. Know one has said it yet, but I think he may be a vegetable. Guys I'm dying over here. This is killing me and I don't know how I'm going to deal with this. Sorry for being hysterical, but I'm being stronge for those who are around me and I can't keep it up. This April would have marked our 11 year anniversary. 11 short years, we were supposed to be together much much longer. I can't believe our time is coming to an end. I can't believe this. I can't believe it, I can't.  I'm so sorry for the both of you Stu.. It just isn't fair.. I'm feeling very sad for you and you will be in my thoughts.. I wish I could be there and just hold you for a while... Much love sweetie The Borg... Partypoopers of the galaxy.. ( Medical Hologram )
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the fact that you were able to type the update means you are holding up better than I could expect. It sounds like you have support with you. Hold on to them and know that many, MANY people here love you and are thinking of you. I have no more words, only | |
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Stu.....I'm breaking down here.....why the good ones? WHY? Damn it!!!
My thoughts are with you & Drew. Hold on, buddy! We're here if you need us.....this place is real, your friends are!
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So sorry to hear that ,i will pray for Drew. | |
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I'm so sorry to hear what has happened to Drew. I'm praying for him to pull through and for God to give you and the family strength to handle these terrible times.
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Stu,
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Oh hon... I am so sorry. I will pray that u will have the strength to be strong enough for yourself. To cry, to smile, cry some more and be hysterical. You shared him, your relationship, his art (  ), with us. We have never met but, know that you have people who care.
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Can't this thread be made a STICKY??
Stu deserves it.. and maybe he can get some strength out of the fact that he can see all these people caring/ praying and thinking of him and Drew... The Borg... Partypoopers of the galaxy.. ( Medical Hologram )
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| With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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I just don't know what to say.... my thoughts and prayers are with you both. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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HowComeYouDontCallme said: Can't this thread be made a STICKY??
Stu deserves it.. and maybe he can get some strength out of the fact that he can see all these people caring/ praying and thinking of him and Drew... of course it can  In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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i am crying and speechless. my prayers are definatly with you. oh my god... Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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 Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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i'm sending you all the loving, comforting thoughts i can, and i know a lot of other people are doing the same. we're all here for ya, kitten. | |
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