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Milty said: well i'm going out with a woman who's 22 and i'm 32 and we seem to be doing fine. i do recognize that there are differences and yes we have had different experiences (she's had some that i have not even) but so far so good.
still tho....18 vs 35. hmm.... could be tricky. but you're talking about sex here right. maybe it could work as long as it's not a head fuck or it get's too serious. Well, I'm 21 and my fiance is almost 31, but that's a huge difference from 18! 18 year olds, like I said, are mostly still high school students! Basically the question isn't about age, it's about maturity. | |
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Byron said: TMPletz said: I wouldn't feel comfortable with it. She'd be as old as my niece, and that just doesn't seem right to me.
 Plus, I'm not convinced that really any 18 year old female, except in very rare cases, will be emotionally, spiritually and intellectually grounded enough to want a "sex-only" relationship with a 35 year old man for the right reasons...there will almost always be emotional issues behind her apparent desire to do so that never surface until after the relationship has started. The 35 year old man should be aware of this enough to cause it to keep him from entertaining the thought...but most men want so much to believe that this "built 18 year old simply just loves sex, and she wants to with me, boy have I got it made" that they tend not to look any further than their own surface fantasies. [Edited 2/23/06 16:42pm] That about sums it up! | |
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theVelvetRoper said: Milty said: well i'm going out with a woman who's 22 and i'm 32 and we seem to be doing fine. i do recognize that there are differences and yes we have had different experiences (she's had some that i have not even) but so far so good.
still tho....18 vs 35. hmm.... could be tricky. but you're talking about sex here right. maybe it could work as long as it's not a head fuck or it get's too serious. Well, I'm 21 and my fiance is almost 31, but that's a huge difference from 18! 18 year olds, like I said, are mostly still high school students! Basically the question isn't about age, it's about maturity. 21-18=3  | |
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abierman said: theVelvetRoper said: Well, I'm 21 and my fiance is almost 31, but that's a huge difference from 18! 18 year olds, like I said, are mostly still high school students! Basically the question isn't about age, it's about maturity. 21-18=3 Like I said, it's about maturity. I have a great job, I'm about to graduate from nursing school, I have my OWN place, I have my own brand new car, and I'm doing pretty damn good for myself for a 21 year old. Not many people my age can say that. There is a big difference from 21 to 18 if you're responsible. And since you're into math, a 17 year age difference when is a lot different than a 9 year age difference. [Edited 2/24/06 11:17am] | |
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Yall are flipping me out about this mature shit. All of this spiritual stuff that doesn't mean crap. Who gives a fuck about being Spiritual when you have a nice piece of 18-yr ass to bang? That's with any of this relationship shit... What do you think you have the patience to be Spiritual throughout a relationship anyway, huh? What's up with that? . | |
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theVelvetRoper said: origmnd said: Of course. But I would make it extraordinarily abundantly clear what it would entail.
Yeah, but someone so young is still impressionable and sensitve. They aren't yet an adult, even though it's legal. Most 18 year olds are still in high school for God's sake! If they had the Britney mentality, then it would just be temporary excercise. | |
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AlienX2050 said: .
Yall are flipping me out about this mature shit. All of this spiritual stuff that doesn't mean crap. Who gives a fuck about being Spiritual when you have a nice piece of 18-yr ass to bang? That's with any of this relationship shit... What do you think you have the patience to be Spiritual throughout a relationship anyway, huh? What's up with that? . funny thing is, if Spats said that the entire ORG would jump down his throat  | |
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XxAxX said: AlienX2050 said: .
Yall are flipping me out about this mature shit. All of this spiritual stuff that doesn't mean crap. Who gives a fuck about being Spiritual when you have a nice piece of 18-yr ass to bang? That's with any of this relationship shit... What do you think you have the patience to be Spiritual throughout a relationship anyway, huh? What's up with that? . funny thing is, if Spats said that the entire ORG would jump down his throat ...Or this:
"You gotta know though. There are some fine ass women on college campuses.... You know...hmmmm As long as they can take a really good fucking and a hard dick....I think I may give in. Yes sir...but they have to be built to take it. And willing to do it all. I can teach you but you have to be fearless..." Spats would be strung up...CC gets hugged...lol  Guess most here take his comments with a grain of salt because they know him in different capacities as where Spats is a one-note song... | |
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theVelvetRoper said: abierman said: 21-18=3 Like I said, it's about maturity. I have a great job, I'm about to graduate from nursing school, I have my OWN place, I have my own brand new car, and I'm doing pretty damn good for myself for a 21 year old. Not many people my age can say that. There is a big difference from 21 to 18 if you're responsible. And since you're into math, a 17 year age difference when is a lot different than a 9 year age difference. I actually had a 19 year old let it be known to me that she was 1,000% interested in me, in whatever way I desired...and I was 34 at the time...lol ...And yes, she was very pretty. I had been talking to her as a friend-only, basically giving her advice on things going on in her life (I'm every woman's counselor, I think)...and when she told me out of the blue that she wanted something sexual with me, I said "You know what I would say to you if you said you wanted some 34 year old guy to sleep with you...now why would I say anything different simply because I'm the 34 year old guy?"...After about 30 minutes of talking, and me convincing her that she was only feeling the way she was feeling because of other issues in her life, she reacted as if a light went off in her head and agreed with me. She called me her "guardian angel" after that...We stopped talking several months after that. And all I could think of at the time was how many men in my shoes would have taken advantage of her simply because she was 19 and willing.[Edited 2/24/06 11:58am] | |
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Handclapsfingasnapz said: hell no.
Ditto. | |
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AlienX2050 said: .
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Byron said: theVelvetRoper said: Like I said, it's about maturity. I have a great job, I'm about to graduate from nursing school, I have my OWN place, I have my own brand new car, and I'm doing pretty damn good for myself for a 21 year old. Not many people my age can say that. There is a big difference from 21 to 18 if you're responsible. And since you're into math, a 17 year age difference when is a lot different than a 9 year age difference. I actually had a 19 year old let it be known to me that she was 1,000% interested in me, in whatever way I desired...and I was 34 at the time...lol ...And yes, she was very pretty. I had been talking to her as a friend-only, basically giving her advice on things going on in her life (I'm every woman's counselor, I think)...and when she told me out of the blue that she wanted something sexual with me, I said "You know what I would say to you if you said you wanted some 34 year old guy to sleep with you...now why would I say anything different simply because I'm the 34 year old guy?"...After about 30 minutes of talking, and me convincing her that she was only feeling the way she was feeling because of other issues in her life, she reacted as if a light went off in her head and agreed with me. She called me her "guardian angel" after that...We stopped talking several months after that. And all I could think of at the time was how many men in my shoes would have taken advantage of her simply because she was 19 and willing.
[Edited 2/24/06 11:58am]  That's right. Plus, you have a one ready and willing waitress who'll take your order whenever you need it at a 24 hour diner! | |
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Byron said: theVelvetRoper said: Like I said, it's about maturity. I have a great job, I'm about to graduate from nursing school, I have my OWN place, I have my own brand new car, and I'm doing pretty damn good for myself for a 21 year old. Not many people my age can say that. There is a big difference from 21 to 18 if you're responsible. And since you're into math, a 17 year age difference when is a lot different than a 9 year age difference. I actually had a 19 year old let it be known to me that she was 1,000% interested in me, in whatever way I desired...and I was 34 at the time...lol ...And yes, she was very pretty. I had been talking to her as a friend-only, basically giving her advice on things going on in her life (I'm every woman's counselor, I think)...and when she told me out of the blue that she wanted something sexual with me, I said "You know what I would say to you if you said you wanted some 34 year old guy to sleep with you...now why would I say anything different simply because I'm the 34 year old guy?"...After about 30 minutes of talking, and me convincing her that she was only feeling the way she was feeling because of other issues in her life, she reacted as if a light went off in her head and agreed with me. She called me her "guardian angel" after that...We stopped talking several months after that. And all I could think of at the time was how many men in my shoes would have taken advantage of her simply because she was 19 and willing.
[Edited 2/24/06 11:58am] I would have hit that like an 18-wheeler truck. I mean, if she had some sexy ass and was clean...I would have made her feel better. Nothing like sexual healings when you're emotionally broke. okay? . [Edited 2/24/06 14:22pm] | |
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I'll answer this question in fifteen years when I'm 35.  | |
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AlienX2050 said: Byron said: I actually had a 19 year old let it be known to me that she was 1,000% interested in me, in whatever way I desired...and I was 34 at the time...lol ...And yes, she was very pretty. I had been talking to her as a friend-only, basically giving her advice on things going on in her life (I'm every woman's counselor, I think)...and when she told me out of the blue that she wanted something sexual with me, I said "You know what I would say to you if you said you wanted some 34 year old guy to sleep with you...now why would I say anything different simply because I'm the 34 year old guy?"...After about 30 minutes of talking, and me convincing her that she was only feeling the way she was feeling because of other issues in her life, she reacted as if a light went off in her head and agreed with me. She called me her "guardian angel" after that...We stopped talking several months after that. And all I could think of at the time was how many men in my shoes would have taken advantage of her simply because she was 19 and willing.
[Edited 2/24/06 11:58am] I would have hit that like an 18-wheeler truck. I mean, if she had some sexy ass and was clean...I would have made her feel better. Nothing like sexual healings when you're emotionally broke. okay? . [Edited 2/24/06 14:22pm] Are you deprived of sex? | |
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theVelvetRoper said: AlienX2050 said: I would have hit that like an 18-wheeler truck. I mean, if she had some sexy ass and was clean...I would have made her feel better. Nothing like sexual healings when you're emotionally broke. okay? . [Edited 2/24/06 14:22pm] Are you deprived of sex? Why do you ask that buddy? You have a problem with sexual relations with an 18 yr? What's the problem? Not everyone is all about being Psychologically connected when having sex.. . [Edited 2/24/06 15:07pm] [Edited 2/24/06 15:08pm] | |
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Byron said: XxAxX said: funny thing is, if Spats said that the entire ORG would jump down his throat ...Or this:
"You gotta know though. There are some fine ass women on college campuses.... You know...hmmmm As long as they can take a really good fucking and a hard dick....I think I may give in. Yes sir...but they have to be built to take it. And willing to do it all. I can teach you but you have to be fearless..." Spats would be strung up...CC gets hugged...lol Guess most here take his comments with a grain of salt because they know him in different capacities as where Spats is a one-note song... i didn't really like this guys post. just didn't say anything. now i wish i had. i don't know him in any other capacity. i guess when he was here before i was over in P&R more. either way, what he's said in this thread makes him sound like a pompous asshole.
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theVelvetRoper said: Byron said: I actually had a 19 year old let it be known to me that she was 1,000% interested in me, in whatever way I desired...and I was 34 at the time...lol ...And yes, she was very pretty. I had been talking to her as a friend-only, basically giving her advice on things going on in her life (I'm every woman's counselor, I think)...and when she told me out of the blue that she wanted something sexual with me, I said "You know what I would say to you if you said you wanted some 34 year old guy to sleep with you...now why would I say anything different simply because I'm the 34 year old guy?"...After about 30 minutes of talking, and me convincing her that she was only feeling the way she was feeling because of other issues in her life, she reacted as if a light went off in her head and agreed with me. She called me her "guardian angel" after that...We stopped talking several months after that. And all I could think of at the time was how many men in my shoes would have taken advantage of her simply because she was 19 and willing.
[Edited 2/24/06 11:58am] That's right. Plus, you have a one ready and willing waitress who'll take your order whenever you need it at a 24 hour diner!The heart-shaped saltines and the stilletos get me everytime..lol  | |
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No. I wouldnt date someone that much younger than I. | |
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AlienX2050 said: .
Yall are flipping me out about this mature shit. All of this spiritual stuff that doesn't mean crap. Who gives a fuck about being Spiritual when you have a nice piece of 18-yr ass to bang? That's with any of this relationship shit... What do you think you have the patience to be Spiritual throughout a relationship anyway, huh? What's up with that? . 
Satan already has your soul, doesn't he?  | |
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fantasyislander said: i didn't really like this guys post. just didn't say anything. now i wish i had. i don't know him in any other capacity. i guess when he was here before i was over in P&R more. either way, what he's said in this thread makes him sound like a pompous asshole.
if i'm wrong . . . i think - i think cc is trying to provoke here. whether that is provoking discussion or provoking a fight i'm not sure yet lol in either case this is his thread and people can choose to participate or not what i find objectionable about that other nameless twit is that any thread he posts on gets taken over and turned ugly. not fair to the thread starter.  She couldn't stop crying 'cause she knew he was gone to stay | |
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emm said: fantasyislander said: i didn't really like this guys post. just didn't say anything. now i wish i had. i don't know him in any other capacity. i guess when he was here before i was over in P&R more. either way, what he's said in this thread makes him sound like a pompous asshole.
if i'm wrong . . . i think - i think cc is trying to provoke here. whether that is provoking discussion or provoking a fight i'm not sure yet lol in either case this is his thread and people can choose to participate or not what i find objectionable about that other nameless twit is that any thread he posts on gets taken over and turned ugly. not fair to the thread starter. I personally think that spats is trying to provoke as well...either discussion or a fight..lol ...But nobody really knows him (her?)...so nobody gives him the benefit of the doubt.
Me, personally...I think there are better ways of provoking discussion than constantly pushing everyone's buttons. And you avoid unnessesary ugliness in the process...
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emm said: fantasyislander said: i didn't really like this guys post. just didn't say anything. now i wish i had. i don't know him in any other capacity. i guess when he was here before i was over in P&R more. either way, what he's said in this thread makes him sound like a pompous asshole.
if i'm wrong . . . i think - i think cc is trying to provoke here. whether that is provoking discussion or provoking a fight i'm not sure yet lol in either case this is his thread and people can choose to participate or not what i find objectionable about that other nameless twit is that any thread he posts on gets taken over and turned ugly. not fair to the thread starter. yeah, i wasn't going to say anything about it until byron mentioned it. and i COMPLETELY agree with you on that other "nameless twit"!! | |
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 ...well, I'm 35 now. Yes, I've THOUGHT about it (many, many, many times) but I don't think that I could go through with it. Maybe it's cause I'm a dad now and I have a daughter...but I don't think that I could seriously go through with it.
However, a buddy of mine a few years ago (he was 19 at the time) hooked up with a 35-year-old woman (one night stand) and he said that it was AMAZING. Go figure!By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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The youngest I've tried dating is 10 yrs younger than myself, and both times were negative experiences, primarily because the guys were so unsure of themselves and shy, which sometimes came off rude. I felt like I had to make all of the decisions and guide all of the activities, almost like I was an older sister.
Because of this, I couldn't muster up even the smallest sexual desire for either of these guys. If anything, I just wanted to get away from them ASAP! I couldn't even get so far as to make myself think of it in terms of sheer sexuality.
Maybe if I'd gotten drunk?  | |
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nope....
at 32 the youngest i'd go for is 21...and even thats a stretch...for sex only.  you're only as old as you feel..............so how old do i feel 
Now that food has replaced sex in my life, I can't even get into my own pants. | |
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half your age plus seven years is the limit. a psychotic is someone who just figured out what's going on | |
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It's odd that we're all quite willing to accept an 18 year old as an adult when sending them off to war. You know, it's like: "It's okay for you to die in a foreign country and kill others, but not okay for you to sleep with someone twice your age".
My cousin's 32 and he lives with a 19 year old girl in a house they own equally. When you see them together, they look like a couple of twenty-somethings. I guess he's young for his age and she's old for her age. I don't know. He dated her for two years before I actually found out her age. | |
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