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AndGodCreatedMe said: IstenSzek said: 95% of the time i just leave the stage quietly.
once you realise someone deliberately fucked u over, there is no need to spend more energy in trying to get even or letting them know how you feel about it. the sad thing is that i also forget quite soon and usually allow the same people to mess me up a second time. i love you. wasn't it you the one that threw a drink?  
it was me  and the only thing i felt when i did it
was ashamed. it was only the next day that i started to feel good about it and thought "you finally said what you wanted and did the right thing by throwing that drink in his face". lol. and true love lives on lollipops and crisps | |
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nakedpianoplayer said: ok, you all will be very proud of me...
i took the high road.. i returned his things that he left here, some tools (they were quite expensive).... i didnt cuss, throw things at him, or even talk out of the way about things... he came to get his things, and as i handed them over to him i simply stated that when i give MY word, it means something... and closed the door. that was my way of saying what i needed to say, i felt a bit better about it after that... he will probably never change, and perhaps he treats all the women he comes in contact with this way, but at least i went out looking good and staying classy. but damn if in my head i didnt have visions of hitting his dumbass over the head with the tools 
sorry, i just couldnt resist  You're my kinda girl.....classy, as I already suspected!   | |
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throwing one of his tools would have been fun though..... | |
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There but for the grace of God go I...
Unrepentant fools will eventually do themselves in. That applies to you and I as well - nobody is immune from reaping what they sow, karmic redemption, whatever you call it. So in other words, I do nothing. If someone's bothering me w/ their behavior, I just make a mental note to try to avoid doing the same as they are doing, to someone else. Oh, it's hard and we're all hypocrites but still... have to try. | |
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luv4u said: Karma is a bitch! What goes around comes around
   I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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abierman said: throwing one of his tools would have been fun though.....
damn straight it woulda been 
One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
love is a gift
an artist with no fans is really just a man with a hobby.... | |
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ok, as much as i harped on karma and all, i realize the need for immediate gratification.
you can always have a bunch of pizzas from different restaurants delivered to the person's home...just make sure to make the call from another enemy's phone, cuz they can trace that shit. | |
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Anx said: ok, as much as i harped on karma and all, i realize the need for immediate gratification.
you can always have a bunch of pizzas from different restaurants delivered to the person's home...just make sure to make the call from another enemy's phone, cuz they can trace that shit. now THERES an idea i can live with 
One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
love is a gift
an artist with no fans is really just a man with a hobby.... | |
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I don't get even.. It is bad on my soul.
I have learned to let go, and learn. ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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are you the type that walks away quietly ?
Usually, you just don't have other options. most of the time when people "fuck you over" you'd be too embarrassed yourself to retaliate on them, for it would just show how dependant you are on their existence to you whilst quite obviously you mean far less to them. So retaliation is usually not an option, it's too much an indication of weakness. And you wanted to retaliate because you felt weak in relation to them or in their presence anyway. are you loud about it ?
I can be very loud, I can lack manners sometimes. I am a total brute. But why be loud about something that will just drive you into sadness at the end? There's nothing genuinely loud about misery. do you damage property or things they gave you ?
Hah, no. do you burn the shit that belongs to them ?
I'd rather just light up one these days. do you get with their best friend ?
I tend to date pretty girls - their best friends are hardly ever nowhere nearly as attractive as they are so what's the revenge? what is it that you do when someone has messed your head and/or heart around ? Get really fucking depressed for months and months and months. I'm a hopeless self-tormentor. The point is - even if you wanted to retaliate don't do it under any circumstances. Because in the end it will just make you feel even shittier that you condescended into such behaviour. No name-calling, no abuse. That's the one final motif and you don't even have to take the other one into consideration at all. It's not about his/her feelings or taking into account his/her view. You'll just feel like a lesser person for having attacked someone. I learnt it the hard way as a younger person. [Edited 2/22/06 9:07am] | |
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superspaceboy said: Karma does all my dirty work.
Mine too. | |
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LleeLlee said: superspaceboy said: Karma does all my dirty work.
Mine too. In the meantime, I consult my Spite, Malice and Revenge Handbook. | |
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