alright, so its all happened to us at one time or another... someone comes into our lives and messes us up for a moment - it happens, its a fact.

but, what i wanna know is... how do YOU get even ???


are you the type that walks away quietly ?
are you loud about it ?
do you damage property or things they gave you ?
do you burn the shit that belongs to them ?
do you get with their best friend ?


what is it that you do when someone has messed your head and/or heart around ?

nakedpianoplayer said:

Live well, and act as if it didn't matter.
Gets them every time.

chalk it up as a loss. walk away and learn from your mistake.

if someone TRULY did me wrong, i don't do a damn thing. karma has its own way of settling the score, and when i hear about the person's comeuppance, i just kinda enjoy a private little smile and then i go on with my life.

Anx said:

Thank you for this post!



I will just do that

Thanx

AndGodCreatedMe said:

it will happen. and karma's revenge is better than anything you could ever possibly plan. so just sit back, wait, and enjoy.

yeah, yeah, yeah....


thats all well and good and what not....


but, hey, what about when you REALLY want to express your anger ?????


im looking for the stories of how to really let it out


and for the record, i LOVE the scene in "waiting to exhale" when she burns his shit up

If someone's truly hurt me I let them know. And that's about it.
I'm not the revenge type.

95% of the time i just leave the stage quietly.
once you realise someone deliberately fucked u
over, there is no need to spend more energy in
trying to get even or letting them know how you
feel about it.

the sad thing is that i also forget quite soon
and usually allow the same people to mess me up
a second time.

Anx said:

You're a Carson Daly fan too?

sorry...couldn't resist

But yeah...let karma get 'em

I'm also a huge fan of plotting revenges that I would never in a million years carry out...


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throw a fish underneath the hood of their car on a hot summer's day. that'll teach them.

or if you want to get technical collect a bunch of dog/human poo, urine, vomit (if you have some lying around) and any other bodily fluid, place it in a thin plastic bag and fill with water. now here's the tricky part place it in a box seal it with a almost impossible to cut packing tape and pray that they use a lot of force and sharp objects to get it open. Oh and have a neutral friend drop it at their door and make sure the package looks inviting.

CarrieMpls said:

Same here. I'll speak up for myself, explain my side. . .but in the end, I don't see the point of revenge. Unless you LIKE drama in your life. Which I don't.

IrresistibleB1tch said:

youre reasonable... and i respect that.... but its not very much fun.

nakedpianoplayer said:

you know, i always tell myself i will get even with people on a
much later date, when they don't expect it anymore.

like wait for 2 or 3 years, even be friendly to them and stuff,
go out with them and then one night just completely fuck up their
car and be all "oh, who would do a thing like that" the next day.



the bonus is that you never stay mad for long enough and forget
all about the revenge part. but it does make you feel like you
still have control and can get back at them whenever you want to.
eventhough, fcuz, you never really do.

i usually did a releasng ritual ... ya know writting out emotions and all the YUCK then burning it as a release in the fire for transformation ...

i am not into getting even ...



when i was 16 .... once i thought about flooding a basement of a girl that flirted with my boyfriend... had it all planned out the BAM realized that that would be a bad thing to do to her parents

that's a juicy story huh ?

i try to walk away/ignore the person harassing me. revenge is never really sweet - we pay for our acts of revenge
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nakedpianoplayer said:

i thought my ideas were kinda fun.

sinisterpentatonic said:

your ideas were fun

im currently looking for a baggie to put some dog shit in except, mines gonna be a bit different than yours, im not going to go to the trouble of wrapping it in a box im just going to THROW IT AT HIM




relax guys, im just kidding.. but hey, it makes me feel better to think about doing it

IstenSzek said:

i love you.

wasn't it you the one that threw a drink?

sinisterpentatonic said:

sometimes, the thought is what counts, not the actual deed

Right now, I am witnessing the ride a friend is taking in a affair. This ride was first meant for me. I was very pissed off in the beginning, maybe even angry, especially towards my friend and was thinking about getting even.
Right now, being a spectator, I am so glad that I'm not the one on the ride because it is messing him up, and she is showing her true colors which aren't that pretty. I guess I'm glad it's him, not me.....this feeling kinda gets me even!

(nakie, you know the story ....I'm doing great!)

see, heres what happened... tell me what you think now...


so, i went to the paint store to buy some paint. this guy there was like ALL OVER me.... wanting to talk, lets get together, can i take you out to dinner, this type of thing.

now, normally i would have just said forget it, but this day i was in a playful mood, so i figured what the hell....

things were great.. what a nice guy he was... we had a lot of fun hanging out for a few days... he promised my son those gecko's that jake wanted, he had a friend that is getting rid of his, so he thought jake would like to have them.... but THEN...


he decided he wanted some sex... i explained that it would take more than the 4 or 5 days i had known of him to feel like jumping in the sack with him

now the fucker doesnt call anymore, wont answer his phone.. the one time i did speak with him though, he understood that making a promise to a child and then breaking it is not a cool thing to do

and for the record, since i dont trust men anyway, i typically dont let them become involved with my kids this soon, its just that he turned out to be one of the guys that was helping me move, so the kids met him then.... my mistake, i know.


so, whatever, i will buy the damn gecko's for my son... and he will be fine, but i still cant understand why a grown man would involve a child in his issues and THATS why im mad. as for me, i could really give a fuck if hes around or not to be honest

abierman said:

see sweetie i told ya that, remember ?

its great that its him, and not you... he/she got what they deserved


and im so glad you are doing great

Mach said:

IrresistibleB1tch said:

no, thats ok, you can ask, tell, or let me know what you wanna say... its ok...

IrresistibleB1tch said:

now I'm curious.....

abierman said:

me too

(one of my revenge in my head stories)

There was girl in high school that I despised. She was just evil. I think she set out to be mean to me or do things that just truly pissed me off.

She had this Noid suction cupped in her window. I wanted that Noid so bad I plotted and schemed on how I was going to steal it...even my mom told me to!

But alas...I am chicken-shit and NEVER EVER carry out any of my revenge plans, silly as they may be.


BUT...at our 10 year reunion, she sat and basically appologized to me for 45 minutes for how much of a bitch she was in high school and how she realizes now how much the things she said and did could hurt people. You wouldn't believe how awesome that was, and how much better I felt after.




Ohhhhh how I wanted that Noid

(told to make nakkie laugh since she was lookin' for stories. This one was *SO* high school it makes me giggle )