Spats said:

something you are terribly lacking...
but it's ok...im sure life will change for u - on your death bed.

SammiJ said:

*Snicker

Weren't you the same woman who was literally counting the days and hours on this org to when you were going to "get it on" with your boyfriend? Look in the mirror,honey.

Spats said:

wtf does that have to do with anything - there's self respect on both side in this relationship, no one's calling shots, we decide together.
and dont fucking call me honey.
Ass.

What does it have to do with it? You said i don't have any self respect. And I am saying you aren't in the position to knock me for not having any and i gave an example why.

Spats said:

so let me get this straight..
i'm NOT supposed to miss the man i'm going to marry when he's so far away?
i'm NOT supposed to be excited knowing that he's coming to visit me?
i'm NOT supposed to care?

and because i do all of these, i have no self respect?
get your shit straightened out man, you're a wreck.

I remember that thread. You were counting down to when you were going to "get it on". I was complaining about it at the time and was told to get out of the thread.

Spats said:

but how does that amount to me having no self respect? i was excited about getting all cozy up with my man

you're not making any sense..


...perhaps you should lie down...
or go get high.

I don't think that is self respecting. If i was going to get it on with the Pretty blonde i would not do a countdown to it.

Spats said:

you must think we're only together for that...
you prolly don't know what it's like to be in a fruitful and loving relationship
and if u claim to know, you probably don't remember it all too well


i count down because:
a) im excited to see him cuz i haven't in months
b) i miss him terribly
c) did i mention i was fucking excited?


i have more self respect than you could ever fathom, believe me..and people here will tell u too

i think the real problem here is you have a complex with your own self respect - it needs a little rebuilding...

maybe it's in your cards...but i'm not reading them for you - get someone else to.
[Edited 2/16/06 10:52am]

I have been in "fruitful and Loving relationships" for periods of time. But then i either get bored or refuse to be whipped and decide it's time to move on.

Spats said:

Why don't you show the "pretty blond" some respect and call her by her fucking name instead of a description?

You, sir, are whipped by your own short-sightedness and own selfish motivations. If you can't understand how, then there truly is no hope for you and others like you.

You see it as "selfish motivations" and i see it as not wanting to be whipped. I go where i want go and when i wanna go. I do whatever i wanna do and whenever i wanna do it. Guys in realtionships or who are married can't seem to. They lose backbone and become whipped.

I don't understand what you mean by me being shortsighted. That needs some explanation.

Spats said:

That is all you fucking do idiot, go on about when you are gonna get some sacktime with the pretty blonde.

Except you don't get any.....ever.....

That made me smile.....

He's back. Are you confident enough now to post a pic of you are your woman? I promise i won't make any smart ass remarks. Just post them and i will not respond.

From now on, I am hoping all my threads turn into knock-down dragouts.

All this because I sent my wife flowers...

Spats said:

I have made a more than generous offer to you....take it or leave it

GottaLetitgo said:

I know what you mean.

(really weird double post was here)
[Edited 2/16/06 13:55pm]

If you are not going to post a pic of you and your woman then don't ever brag again about what you have and what i don't have. Because if you had what you claim then you would be posting the pics. Next.

Pletz, how am i shortsighted?

Spats said:

Because you're only looking at yourself in the "now" and not the big picture in life.

Spats said:

Thats just it.....I have posted....just because you didnt see that does not mean i didnt do it....you on the other hand have never posted anything so until you do.....go fuck yourself.

I will claim and say whatever i want, because i do have what i claim and i have posted plenty.

But you are nervous to let me see it. I have given my reason for not doing it. You don't have a legit one.

What's the big picture in life?

Spats said:

You think too much of yourself mate if you think i give a shit what you think and to imply i am nervous of your opinion is a joke. Your reason is a joke....."mommy i can't post" idiot.....I don't need a reason...I have posted and as i have said feel free to take me up on my offer.....it's still open.
[Edited 2/17/06 12:13pm]

spats, you are not a nice person.




too harsh edit.
[Edited 2/17/06 15:22pm]

Send them to me privately then if you are uncomfortable about it.

This guy takes shots at me all the time and I am the A-hole????

Spats said:

everyone's got a cross to bear, yours is the asshole-cross.....fo'sho!

fantasyislander said:

that's NOT nice to say to anyone.


gottaletitgo - good for you...if you get what you give...looks like you'll be getting a lot of love and thoughtfullness from your wife


(what this topic is actually about edit)
[Edited 2/17/06 13:34pm]

bizarre said:

what is that thing in your profile???

abierman said:

It's a purple frog thing. it's been around since the time of the dinasaurs, like the Coelacanth. kinda like prince.

j/k