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PrintableI might as well be upfront and honest...*sigh*  ...
"She" was amazing...  ...we connected instantly and effortlessly, I felt like the luckiest man alive. We opened up to each other pretty quickly, and had an easy warmth flowing between us. I don't usually take the initiative, but I let myself be vunerable early with her...it truly was love and a sharing of souls.  Movies, dinners, phone calls...everything was simply more beautiful and pleasurable when she was with me. We laughed together constantly *smile*...and the intimacy was amazing.
Everything was going well for about a year or so...then, well...I hate saying it, but *sigh*...I caught her drinking a Pepsi.  ...I mean, she had no shame at all...practically flaunted it.  ...All I could think was "how could you??!!"...Then she stuck the dagger in my heart: she said "Actually, I really don't like Coke at all"...Oh, the pain!! 
I'm sorry...this is too hard to continue...*sniff* 
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Byron said: I might as well be upfront and honest...*sigh*
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"She" was amazing... ...we connected instantly and effortlessly, I felt like the luckiest man alive. We opened up to each other pretty quickly, and had an easy warmth flowing between us. I don't usually take the initiative, but I let myself be vunerable early with her...it truly was love and a sharing of souls. Movies, dinners, phone calls...everything was simply more beautiful and pleasurable when she was with me. We laughed together constantly *smile*...and the intimacy was amazing.
Everything was going well for about a year or so...then, well...I hate saying it, but *sigh*...I caught her drinking a Pepsi. ...I mean, she had no shame at all...practically flaunted it. ...All I could think was "how could you??!!"...Then she stuck the dagger in my heart: she said "Actually, I really don't like Coke at all"...Oh, the pain!!
I'm sorry...this is too hard to continue...*sniff*
.. [Edited 2/14/06 22:13pm] Oh my God, dude! 
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jone70 said: To make a long, annoying story shorter (and without going into too many personal details):
I dated a guy on and off for 5 years. He was the first guy that told me he loved me, was always talking about "let's get married, you're the one I want to be with"  ; he was my first love, my absolute best friend, the first guy I trusted 100%,... So I trusted him when he was hanging out with this "friend" he went to HS with. (He 'forgot' to mention he dated her in HS. ) And he dumped me for her. Then she told him she didn't trust him so he ran back to me. (My mistake for taking him back...) A month or two later he drove me to the airport to visit my family for the holidays. The last thing he said to me was "I love you." I came back a week later and he told me this girl and him were going to give it another chance. Five months later they were engaged.  Sixteen months later they were married and she was preggers at the wedding.
Cold. Definitely not as heartbreaking as some of the other stories...but it fucked me up. (I'ma go cry now.  )
I coped by making a list of 10 Things I Hated about him and whenever I would start to miss him or feel sorry for myself I would read it and remember why I was better off without him; that and I moved to New York. thats so shitty. I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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well i'm heartbroken right now. Here is why:
well start of the year my bf had been stressed out a lot. he kept acting like it was none of my business, everytime i would ask him what is wrong he didn't want to tell me, he would just say, it has to do with my family, and i don't think you should know about it right now. Well that along hurts because it made me feel like he didn't trust me enough to tell me what was going on with him. (me and him have been together about almost 2 years, but we've known each other and been friends for like 4 years before we finally hooked up). so he finally told me what these issues were with his family and that his parents were having a lot of problems. there are more family issues than this but the one about his parents is like the only one i know head on about. i didn't know what to do, i know i couldn't help fix his family problems but i told him that i could be there for him and support him. well as January went on we were very distant, our sex life came to sudden halt and he didn't like to talk too much i didn't know if the family issues were the only problem or if he was cheating on me or what...i didn't know what to think. then all of a sudden a week and a half ago, he told me that he didn't know how to handle all of this. he told me that he loved me and that he needed time for himself, he wanted space. at first i was understandable but then he was like "you are free to date other guys" this gave me trouble. I was like "so does this mean you want to date other females too?" he said "i really don't need to be dating anyone at this time". I was shocked, his whole attitude was, "you can't help my parents situation no more than i can, so i need time away from this relationship". THIS HURTS ME SO BAD since then i have cried every single day. i have been so stressed out as to why he is shutting me out over something that has absolutely nothing to do with me. i could understand if i was the one stressing him and he needed space, but it had nothing to do with our relationship, so why is doing this to us??? at the same time if he said he needed space, then who am i to deny it from him. i just don't get it..we are both in our early 20's so its not like he's a little boy thats scared his parents are going to break up. i just don't get that he's doing this at the expense of our relationship. since then he has text message me on my phone to tell me that he still loves me and that he is thinking of me, but now i'm confused. you don't want to talk to me because you dont' know how to handle your stress, yet you are still contacting me by text messaging??? how do u go from talking to someone all the time everyday for like almost 3 years, and then all of a sudden it comes to halt and stop, like you have been cut off....i've been pushed to the side and i don't like it. it's like he was saying i want to be with you but i can't right now. you are still my girlfriend, but you can date other guys while we are apart. i'm so angry with him right now that i don't even want to be with him anymore even if he calls me, and god knows when that will be. i thought that we had a strong connection to surpass anything but i guess i was wrong. i want to just find another guy quickly so that i can forget about him, but part of me doesn't. i don't know what else to do... i've been trying to cope the best i can, but somedays i just feel like i'm going to lose it... I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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I can't even bring myself to talk about it...
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applekisses said: I can't even bring myself to talk about it...
Was Pepsi involved, hun??...  | |
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Byron said: applekisses said: I can't even bring myself to talk about it...
Was Pepsi involved, hun??...  
Actually, it was Diet Coke with Lemon. | |
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When it didn't work out with a girl I thought i would marry 5 years ago, I slowly got more and more sick, physically, until I had to go to the hospital with some kind of organ rejection/hyper immune system going on in my body and that moved around from my stomach to my eyes to my feet... Racked up immense bills at the hospital and for medicine... but now, I'm completely healthy again... and debt free...
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gemini13 said: Ok, since some of you don't understand me very well, maybe this will help.
I met my daughter's father when I was 19. We were casual friends, but didn't start really dating until I was almost 21. I fell in love with him completely and dreamed of marriage and a happy life with him. He was very romantic in the beginning, and I thought that we were perfect together. I was all alone in the Bay Area while my family was about 200 miles away, and he was, for a long time, one of my only friends. We dated for six years, on and off. He began gradually acting different towards me. I was told on a daily basis that I wasn't good enough, that I was ugly, fat, and stupid. I took it from him because I loved him so much. He cheated on me at least five times that I know of. For example: He would break it off with me right before Halloween every year. I found out later it was so that he could go to the Exotic Erotic Ball without me wanting to be with him on that night. He called me one time and told me that I'd "better get my nasty ass tested because I was the dirty slut who gave him Chlamydia." I went to the doctor and found out I had nothing (one of the times he cheated on me).He would throw me away, then lure me back in, and I took it. When I tried to move on and date someone else, he would seduce me back into his life. I got pregnant in 95. He PURPOSELY impregnated me, there was no broken oops condom, or birth control snafu, he knew what we were doing and what would happen it we did it. I told him that I was pregnant, and he cut off all contact with me. I had the baby alone, and he didn't care one bit about it. I had to work to support my daughter by myself. He did attempt to be a father for about two years, when she was about three. I let him spend a lot of time with our daughter, and how does he repay me? By physically abusing her. He is now not allowed to be around her at all, and I haven't heard from him in almost eight years. The heartache I experienced cannot even be put into words. There is so much more to write, but I don't have enough space. It seems it will never heal. W That's a very harsh situation. I guess it must have taken some energy to come out of this strong. Good job. I hope your thrust in people isn't destroyed. That would be understandable, but surely makes life harder.  | |
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I met her in hotel lobby.....  oh sorry...wrong story....  
Seriously....it happened when I left for the Air Force.....maybe 17 years ago...I'm way over it....don't wanna say anymore.... (Ocean is around writing this all down ya darn fools....edit....edit I say!  )[Edited 2/15/06 7:24am] | |
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MarieLouise said: gemini13 said: Ok, since some of you don't understand me very well, maybe this will help.
I met my daughter's father when I was 19. We were casual friends, but didn't start really dating until I was almost 21. I fell in love with him completely and dreamed of marriage and a happy life with him. He was very romantic in the beginning, and I thought that we were perfect together. I was all alone in the Bay Area while my family was about 200 miles away, and he was, for a long time, one of my only friends. We dated for six years, on and off. He began gradually acting different towards me. I was told on a daily basis that I wasn't good enough, that I was ugly, fat, and stupid. I took it from him because I loved him so much. He cheated on me at least five times that I know of. For example: He would break it off with me right before Halloween every year. I found out later it was so that he could go to the Exotic Erotic Ball without me wanting to be with him on that night. He called me one time and told me that I'd "better get my nasty ass tested because I was the dirty slut who gave him Chlamydia." I went to the doctor and found out I had nothing (one of the times he cheated on me).He would throw me away, then lure me back in, and I took it. When I tried to move on and date someone else, he would seduce me back into his life. I got pregnant in 95. He PURPOSELY impregnated me, there was no broken oops condom, or birth control snafu, he knew what we were doing and what would happen it we did it. I told him that I was pregnant, and he cut off all contact with me. I had the baby alone, and he didn't care one bit about it. I had to work to support my daughter by myself. He did attempt to be a father for about two years, when she was about three. I let him spend a lot of time with our daughter, and how does he repay me? By physically abusing her. He is now not allowed to be around her at all, and I haven't heard from him in almost eight years. The heartache I experienced cannot even be put into words. There is so much more to write, but I don't have enough space. It seems it will never heal. W That's a very harsh situation. I guess it must have taken some energy to come out of this strong. Good job. I hope your thrust in people isn't destroyed. That would be understandable, but surely makes life harder. That's the thing....I used to be quite the peace loving idealist in my youth. Now I just don't trust people, and would really rather be cold to others instead of open. It's easier for me that way. | |
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This thread is way too long to read on one sitting, and it's just going to get longer and longer until the .org database will explode.
My worst heartbroken story involves the girl pretty much losing her sanity, ending up in a mental ward periodically, becoming an alcoholic slut by going to the bars each night at the age of 17 and starting to have sex with absolutely everybody and apparently many people at the same time (or so I've made to understood), me attempting to kill myself by slitting my wrists, becoming later a homeless drug-addict on the streets of London and never coping from it even after eight years. And I'm still a serious fuckin' mess. Inable to form a real relationship even to this day, that goes without saying. Oh, and one more thing: she really looked fucking hideous without any make-up on. 
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ufoclub said: When it didn't work out with a girl I thought i would marry 5 years ago, I slowly got more and more sick, physically, until I had to go to the hospital with some kind of organ rejection/hyper immune system going on in my body and that moved around from my stomach to my eyes to my feet...
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not fun! My father even said it was a suicidal thing... psychosomatic... who knows? But I'm completely healthy now. 
Novabreaker said: ufoclub said: When it didn't work out with a girl I thought i would marry 5 years ago, I slowly got more and more sick, physically, until I had to go to the hospital with some kind of organ rejection/hyper immune system going on in my body and that moved around from my stomach to my eyes to my feet...
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