Personally, I would never do this. I've been married to my wife for almost nine years, and the thought of tattooing her name anywhere on my body has never crossed my mind. We don't need to paint our love on our bodies. Our love is real on the inside, plus we're still very affectionate in public, so no further outward display is needed.
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it may be a sweet gesture, but in my eyes, getting a boyfriend's/girlfriend's name tatted on you is NOT a good idea. | |
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I had my wifes initials tattooed on me in Binary Code.... that way it's not so obvious, it's still meaningful to her and I, but if something happens, it's just a bunch of 1's and 0's that only fellow geeks could decifer.
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Handclapsfingasnapz said: it may be a sweet gesture, but in my eyes, getting a boyfriend's/girlfriend's name tatted on you is NOT a good idea.
"How U Doin'"!! Fuck the funk - it's time to ditch the worn-out Vegas horns fills, pick up the geee-tar and finally ROCK THE MUTHA-FUCKER!! He hinted at this on Chaos, now it's time to step up and fully DELIVER!!
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i have born to lose tattooed across my chest, it was my mom's idea. | |
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Considering how easily bored i get in relationhips i don't think that would be a good idea. Any guy that does that is stupid because most relationships and marriages are not going to last forever. | |
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Handclapsfingasnapz said: it may be a sweet gesture, but in my eyes, getting a boyfriend's/girlfriend's name tatted on you is NOT a good idea.
nope! my sister tattooed her now EX-boyfriend's name on her titty, now she's trying to change it to the name of their son. ' [Edited 2/13/06 10:32am] | |
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Spats said: Considering how easily bored i get in relationhips i don't think that would be a good idea. Any guy that does that is stupid because most relationships and marriages are not going to last forever.
you could always kill yourself right after getting the tat, that could qualify as forever. | |
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CherrieMoonKisses said: ...my boyfriend went and tattooed my name on his chest yesterday!! Im in a state of shock because I didnt believe he'd actually do it! I mean, wow. SO my friends are saying to me, THIS IS IT GIRL because guys dont do stuff like that just for fun! We've been together/talking for 1 year and 1 month. Isnt that fast? Isnt that hasty? Is he pushing it? I really care about him and he is supposed to be moving in with me in 2 weeks and stuff but wow, tattooing my name on him? I kinda feel flattered/worried/excited/weird. I told him, he knows, but he doesnt care/mind. The name is on him. And that is that.
Any similiar stories/advice? Boyfriend? Tattoo? Name of girlfriend?..... The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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DexMSR said: CherrieMoonKisses said: ...my boyfriend went and tattooed my name on his chest yesterday!! Im in a state of shock because I didnt believe he'd actually do it! I mean, wow. SO my friends are saying to me, THIS IS IT GIRL because guys dont do stuff like that just for fun! We've been together/talking for 1 year and 1 month. Isnt that fast? Isnt that hasty? Is he pushing it? I really care about him and he is supposed to be moving in with me in 2 weeks and stuff but wow, tattooing my name on him? I kinda feel flattered/worried/excited/weird. I told him, he knows, but he doesnt care/mind. The name is on him. And that is that.
Any similiar stories/advice? Boyfriend? Tattoo? Name of girlfriend?..... run for the hills! | |
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shucks thats a turnoff for me...to me i would be more afraid of why he did it. It seems so stalkish to me
be careful girl, if you guys get into an arguement or something, you may want to lock the doors after he leaves, and be sure to have a knife within good reach I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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PurpleKnight said: What a moron. Despite what we may want to think, no relationship is guaranteed to work out.
There really is a way to handle such a thing tho. In the event that one who tattoos a significant others name on them, they can always go back in to the tattoo parlor and tattoo a circle around the name with a line through it. Much like this: I actually knew a girl that did just that when she broke up with her girlfriend 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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I think the name thing is kinda stupid. . . usually doesn't look good. . . but I my ex-husband and I have matching tattoos that are meaningful to us, and I don't regret it. He was, and still is, an important part of my life. Seattle Org Invasion July 28th-30th http://www.prince.org/msg/2/177514
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And no, don't hold it against him or dump him or whatever. Look, I know SO MANY WOMEN who can't find a guy who will give them the time of day. . . who just want to feel acknowledged and important and cherished. You've got a guy who goes a little overboard in demonstrating his affection at times. I'd rather be the girl whose guy goes overboard, personally. As long as he's otherwise sane, I'd say you're lucky. Seattle Org Invasion July 28th-30th http://www.prince.org/msg/2/177514
Third Annual MinneVasion Oct 20-22nd http://www.prince.org/msg/2/183063 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: PurpleKnight said: What a moron. Despite what we may want to think, no relationship is guaranteed to work out.
There really is a way to handle such a thing tho. In the event that one who tattoos a significant others name on them, they can always go back in to the tattoo parlor and tattoo a circle around the name with a line through it. Much like this: I actually knew a girl that did just that when she broke up with her girlfriend and what if they get back together? | |
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Any woman that needs to feel important and cherished by the guy she is with has self esteem issues. They should see a therapist instead. | |
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Spats said: Any woman that needs to feel important and cherished by the guy she is with has self esteem issues. They should see a therapist instead.
so what, she should expect to feel worthless and unwanted? you really have no clue, do you? what an ass . . . | |
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No, anyone with some esteem does not need someone else to do that for them. They live in the Needy Neighborhood. Not enough attention from Daddy. I have never needed a woman to make me feel important or cherished. Good Grief, Charlie Brown. | |
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Spats said: No, anyone with some esteem does not need someone else to do that for them. They live in the Needy Neighborhood. Not enough attention from Daddy. I have never needed a woman to make me feel important or cherished. Good Grief, Charlie Brown.
So, you don't care if you're important to your (potential) life partner. Ok. But you're not normal. Don't berate the rest of us. Seattle Org Invasion July 28th-30th http://www.prince.org/msg/2/177514
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Spats said: I have never needed a woman to make me feel important or cherished. Good Grief, Charlie Brown.
Nor has a women ever felt the need to make you feel important or cherish you.... HA.... bizach! | |
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DynamicSavior said: dumbass
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pardonme4livin said: Nothin' personal hun, but this is REALLY bad luck..... I hope it works out for ya....
He didn't follow the rules of tattooing: 1. No tattoos above the collar or below the elbows 2. No tattoos of names or likenesses of living people (that means your kids too!) 3. No tattoos while under the influence Errrrr...crash...You my child's name IS forever. | |
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Rinluv said: To tell the truth I wouldn't and wouldn't want my girlfriend to put my name on her body. They shouldn't have to permatley write somebodies name on thier body to show them how much they love them or whatever the case may be. It's a sweet and lovely gesture. But you never know what can happen relationship wise. I wouldn't incourage it, even if my girl wanted to do it.
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brownsugar said: run!
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Cherries...it's a very sweet jesture ...but you could have tagged his ass with a pendant with your initial(s)/name on it...
You do that for him then... | |
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Yes, i have had girlfriends who wanted to do that. They were wasting their time because i didn't need it. I am not needy for that stuff. | |
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I know he's not crazy, Im the crazy one.
I know we may not be together forver, he hates to think of that but yesterday I forced him to say it. Now he's saying because theirs such a big deal over it, he's getting it covered. He doesnt want to do it but he said he wasnt taking it as serious as everyone else is. He figured it was a loving gesture. Now his feelings are hurt, he's annoyed and may cover it. Im still like this! & | |
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CherrieMoonKisses said: I know he's not crazy, Im the crazy one.
I know we may not be together forver, he hates to think of that but yesterday I forced him to say it. Now he's saying because theirs such a big deal over it, he's getting it covered. He doesnt want to do it but he said he wasnt taking it as serious as everyone else is. He figured it was a loving gesture. Now his feelings are hurt, he's annoyed and may cover it. Im still like this! why does he care what every one else thinks? so what if we wouldn't do it | |
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brownsugar said: CherrieMoonKisses said: I know he's not crazy, Im the crazy one.
I know we may not be together forver, he hates to think of that but yesterday I forced him to say it. Now he's saying because theirs such a big deal over it, he's getting it covered. He doesnt want to do it but he said he wasnt taking it as serious as everyone else is. He figured it was a loving gesture. Now his feelings are hurt, he's annoyed and may cover it. Im still like this! why does he care what every one else thinks? so what if we wouldn't do it Not everyone on here. My family and his. He could give a damn about online peeps. But now he's saying he's gonna keep it because it means something to him and he doesnt have to explain himself to anyone. & | |
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