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Thread started 02/11/06 3:08pm

REDFEATHERS

Following the *Who went to College* Thread.. well..

.. why is it some of you got to college to study this, and go on to college/uni to study that, and you got the studying bug, but wont settle down and get a job?







Let someone with a genuine interest in the subject participate in the course, not someone who is scared or real working life just add another degress to their CV..
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Reply #1 posted 02/11/06 4:56pm

LleeLlee

Being a student is like living in a cocoon, it's safe. But shes going to have to start paying off her student debt sooner or later.
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Reply #2 posted 02/11/06 4:59pm

REDFEATHERS

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Reply #3 posted 02/11/06 5:04pm

LleeLlee

REDFEATHERS said:

LleeLlee said:

Being a student is like living in a cocoon, it's safe. But shes going to have to start paying off her student debt sooner or later.



Nooo.. *Mommy and Daddy* will, and they keep her in designer clothes and an apartment in Knightsbridge

but for how long can they do that for?

isnt it time she took responsibility for herself and started EARNING a wage??? neutral



I see, they'll do it until she gets married, (I bet her parents cant wait lol) She probably pops into Harrods for bread and milk.
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Reply #4 posted 02/11/06 5:12pm

REDFEATHERS

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Reply #5 posted 02/11/06 5:23pm

LleeLlee

are we the only two people here Red? eek
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Reply #6 posted 02/11/06 5:34pm

REDFEATHERS

LleeLlee said:

are we the only two people here Red? eek



falloff I think so..
that or 99.9% of the rest of the orgers are students.. in bed sleeping or couldnt give a fuck, what we say lol
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Reply #7 posted 02/11/06 5:46pm

LleeLlee

REDFEATHERS said:

LleeLlee said:

are we the only two people here Red? eek



falloff I think so..
that or 99.9% of the rest of the orgers are students.. in bed sleeping or couldnt give a fuck, what we say lol



students dont sleep! I'll bet your mate is still up knocking back the champers and Caviar.
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Reply #8 posted 02/11/06 6:04pm

Fauxie

I'm here! smile

I don't have anything to add though. shrug
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Reply #9 posted 02/11/06 6:05pm

REDFEATHERS

Fauxie said:

I'm here! smile

I don't have anything to add though. shrug


kisses I am going to bed now... come with me.. wink
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Reply #10 posted 02/11/06 6:10pm

Fauxie

REDFEATHERS said:

Fauxie said:

I'm here! smile

I don't have anything to add though. shrug


kisses I am going to bed now... come with me.. wink



But I just got up. sad

And I'm not tired.

Oh, that's not going to be a problem is it. razz
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Reply #11 posted 02/11/06 6:24pm

JasmineFire

i like the real world better than being a student because when i was in the real world i was able to have a life. as a student, all i do is study and post on the org. giggle
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Reply #12 posted 02/11/06 6:56pm

IrresistibleB1
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seems to me that it's up to each individual - nothing wrong with going to school while you're still trying to figure out what you want to "be when you grow up"... too many are stuck in jobs they don't really like. do whatever makes you happy - the more happy people, the better. and let others do what makes them happy.
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Reply #13 posted 02/11/06 7:54pm

Oceans

I know a few people that just keep doing one course after another...all in different areas...and never actually use them to get a job shrug (and their not getting any younger)
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Reply #14 posted 02/12/06 12:36am

heartbeatocean

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School is addictive. It's a bad habit that needs to break.
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Reply #15 posted 02/12/06 12:37am

PurpleKnight

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People will do what's right for them, but I personally don't really see the benefit of going to school when you don't know what you wanna be.
The world is a comedy for those who think and a tragedy for those who feel.

"You still wanna take me to prison...just because I won't trade humanity for patriotism."
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Reply #16 posted 02/12/06 12:42am

charlottegelin

I hated uni, so glad to get my degree and get ON with it!
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Reply #17 posted 02/12/06 12:44am

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charlottegelin said:

I hated uni, so glad to get my degree and get ON with it!


What made you dislike it so strongly?
The world is a comedy for those who think and a tragedy for those who feel.

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Reply #18 posted 02/12/06 12:49am

charlottegelin

PurpleKnight said:

charlottegelin said:

I hated uni, so glad to get my degree and get ON with it!


What made you dislike it so strongly?

just about everything! where do I start!
I had to live in a crummy, cold and mouldy little flat with this girl I hated. Getting to school on public transport took as long as it would've to walk there. I had no money. The lecturers did not care, many times I would get there and they were not in. My course (graphic design) was pretty much all practical, so we were working independently although it was a full week contact hours-wise. I found those with money had an advantage as materials were so expensive - yet I did not qualify for student assistance due to parent's income and they would not give me any money.
Thank god it was only 3 years.
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Reply #19 posted 02/12/06 12:54am

PurpleKnight

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charlottegelin said:

PurpleKnight said:



What made you dislike it so strongly?

just about everything! where do I start!
I had to live in a crummy, cold and mouldy little flat with this girl I hated. Getting to school on public transport took as long as it would've to walk there. I had no money. The lecturers did not care, many times I would get there and they were not in. My course (graphic design) was pretty much all practical, so we were working independently although it was a full week contact hours-wise. I found those with money had an advantage as materials were so expensive - yet I did not qualify for student assistance due to parent's income and they would not give me any money.
Thank god it was only 3 years.


Sounds like your experience was doomed from the start. I'd be curious to see how you react to it with better circumstances.
The world is a comedy for those who think and a tragedy for those who feel.

"You still wanna take me to prison...just because I won't trade humanity for patriotism."
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Reply #20 posted 02/12/06 12:57am

charlottegelin

PurpleKnight said:

charlottegelin said:


just about everything! where do I start!
I had to live in a crummy, cold and mouldy little flat with this girl I hated. Getting to school on public transport took as long as it would've to walk there. I had no money. The lecturers did not care, many times I would get there and they were not in. My course (graphic design) was pretty much all practical, so we were working independently although it was a full week contact hours-wise. I found those with money had an advantage as materials were so expensive - yet I did not qualify for student assistance due to parent's income and they would not give me any money.
Thank god it was only 3 years.


Sounds like your experience was doomed from the start. I'd be curious to see how you react to it with better circumstances.

I would have loved the whole thing had I been able to live at home with my parents, had a car and had loads of disposable income.

Having said all that, I have had some great jobs thanks to that piece of paper and the folio I made at school. One or 2 friends I still keep in touch with after 15 years!
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Reply #21 posted 02/12/06 1:38am

meow85

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Without first reading the replies, let me say this: Knowledge is never wasted.


If I could find a way to support myself properly while doing it (as in, higher than minimum wage) I'd seriously consider being a perpetual student. nod
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Reply #22 posted 02/12/06 1:54am

CalhounSq

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I loooooved my life as a student! love But my last degree is the top one in my field pout lol And the loans are a BITCH, I should be glad I can't go back eek But it was great... I miss it sometimes sigh
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Reply #23 posted 02/12/06 2:18am

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CalhounSq said:

I loooooved my life as a student! love But my last degree is the top one in my field pout lol And the loans are a BITCH, I should be glad I can't go back eek But it was great... I miss it sometimes sigh


What field would that be?
The world is a comedy for those who think and a tragedy for those who feel.

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Reply #24 posted 02/12/06 2:32am

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PurpleKnight said:

CalhounSq said:

I loooooved my life as a student! love But my last degree is the top one in my field pout lol And the loans are a BITCH, I should be glad I can't go back eek But it was great... I miss it sometimes sigh


What field would that be?


lurking y'all nosey lol



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Reply #25 posted 02/12/06 2:39am

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meow85 said:

Without first reading the replies, let me say this: Knowledge is never wasted.


I agree. You may be interested in learning something that you may not wish to pursue in your future career. Just because you may not go into a field in which you studied, it doesn't mean studying what you did was wasteful. I am a little biased here as I did do a degree in something that I am not directly using in my career, however what I studied I feel I do use in various ways in many aspects of my life including my job, and it has contributed to who I am as a person.

At least she is doing something! smile I had a friend like that, but she eventually found what she wanted to do, not all of us are blessed with knowing what we want to do in life straight away, maybe she is just finding her feet, slowly! wink
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Reply #26 posted 02/12/06 9:32am

susannah

Well, not that I read all the replies, but heres my 2 cents anyway. Im a student, studying a Bachelors degree, and I plan to go on to study a masters after it, but *only* becuase I need it to get anywhere in my line of work. Also, my degree is entirely vocational so theres no room for mucking about not knowing what I want to do.If I dont do it now Ill end up going back when Im 35 and working full time, and paying for it myself too. The one and only reason Im going to uni is so I can get a decent job and earn decent money, I have no desire to be this skint for any length of time! Its an urban myth that all students get parental help to put them through uni, and thats all Ill say on that particular subject...
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Reply #27 posted 02/13/06 8:50pm

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Diva said:

meow85 said:

Without first reading the replies, let me say this: Knowledge is never wasted.


I agree. You may be interested in learning something that you may not wish to pursue in your future career. Just because you may not go into a field in which you studied, it doesn't mean studying what you did was wasteful. I am a little biased here as I did do a degree in something that I am not directly using in my career, however what I studied I feel I do use in various ways in many aspects of my life including my job, and it has contributed to who I am as a person.

At least she is doing something! smile I had a friend like that, but she eventually found what she wanted to do, not all of us are blessed with knowing what we want to do in life straight away, maybe she is just finding her feet, slowly! wink

nod I've got my beauty diploma and am a licensed esthetican now. But where do I work? In a clothing store. lol

But every once in a while I find a use for what I learned, and who knows? Maybe eventually I'll find a job in the field that I'd be happy with.
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Reply #28 posted 02/14/06 12:58am

Heiress

I'm kind of eager to get back to work, actually...nod I've taken advantage of a three-year-break, staying home with my child most of the time, to go back to school. She'll be going to school herself next year, so I can go back to work if I want without leaving her in daycare full time (which I don't want to).
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Reply #29 posted 02/14/06 3:34am

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I don't think that education necessarily has to link to employment. Although many of us use higher education to launch our careers it doesn’t have to be the sole driving force to learn.

There are numerous factors that I believe motivate people to obtain a higher education.

Primarily because “it’s what you do” peer pressure, parental pressure everyone is going to uni, so I will too. Then the decision becomes what to study, at 18 many of probably don’t know what we “want to be” and plump for a subject that interests us, that my best friend is taking, that my parents/teachers think I will be good at.

Upon Graduation you are stuck! Bad advice/choice at 18, a bit more wisdom and life experience and we realise that that wasn’t what we wanted but the thirst to learn/achieve is not gone. Personally I realised that my degree was not good enough to enter the workforce at a position I was happy with, so I followed up with a post grad. education.

Now I don’t need any more education I am qualified to do what I do? No way! Keep topping up, keep studying, along side work, or instead of work. Some of us may be perpetual students but I don’t see problem as long as the study is benefiting you in some way.

Linking back to my first statement, some people undergo a programme of higher education just because they are curious about a subject or simply want to know more about it, this can hardly be frowned upon in a society of increasing ignoramuses.

Learning new stuff is good – however you do it.
Happy is he who finds out the causes for things.Virgil (70-19 BC). Virgil was such a lying bastard!
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