You have to ask yourself, do you value her friendship enough to accept the fact that you obviously have more 'romantic' feelings for her than she does for you? If she is important enough to you that you are willing to put up with that then remain her friend, but realize she may just be playing you. (I hope you are not paying for the dinners!!)

And this "someone else" she is in love with--where is that person? Are they dating? Or is it unrequited love? If she's so in love with someone else, why is hanging out with you instead of them? (I'm sure you're charming & all, but...)

Some girls just thrive off of constant male attention...She sounds like that type of girl. I would forget her and direct your attentions towards someone who isn't playing games...and whatever you do--don't buy her a V-Day gift!

'you can fill the canals with nice people'.....it's a dutch saying when it comes to a situation.....

forget her and move on!

abierman said:

Blimey, what's the rest of that saying...? It sounds like a death threat!

I was having a conversation on the weekend and someone mentioned the expression 'the game of love'. I was thinking about it and it suddenly occured to me that this is the only game I know of that has no rules whatsoever. So much for a 'game'. Even Scrabble - or wars - have rules.

onenitealone said:

no death threat.....that's the saying.....

If that's what she is doing it is still more of the lame game playing women love to do. Don't fall for. Kick her useless ass to the curb.