Just thought to ask, some women feel that it is a "girl's" or "feminine" holiday, while some guys (who are in relationships) feel like it doesn't hurt for females to splurge on them instead....what r ur thoughts on this???

yes it is overrated.
But I still want flowers.

The whole day caters to women. Listen to any radio show or the news and they are always making suggestions to men on what to do for their woman and what to get her. Yadda, Yadda, Yadda. Not the other way around. It is a woman thing. it's not for men. And yes it's overrated.

Somebody doesn't have a boyfriend. I see you eyein that coke bottle.

It's mostly overrated, but I think it's still a fun excuse to go out and have a nice date. My boyfriend and I are both getting each other gifts; i'd feel weird if he just got me something.

I always manage to be single on V day...




So BAH HUMBUG!!

Nikster said:

Co-sign to that. Does anybody think that having a husband/boyfriend/significant other in their life is overrated? I do.

2freaky4church1 said:

actually i do have a boyfriend...

The guys always get the raw end of the deal on this day.

althom said:

The straight ones. It's a huge gay holiday in my home! As big as my cock!

CynthiasSocks said:

althom said:

Bambi don't hate me because I'm beautiful... loved and blessed!

It's the same with clubs. All of them have "ladies night" or "ladies get in free before 11 pm". Crap like that. It all caters to women. It makes you sick

Spats said:

The club world isn't the real world.

You'll find that out in about ten years.

I would love flowers and chocolates and more flowers and more chocolates and more flowers and some more chocolates.

The club world is very real.

I am not seeing anyone right now but when I am I loveeeee this holiday....

CynthiasSocks said:

I usually love this holiday even when I'm not dating anyone...(I love most holidays...as some one dear to me pointed out I'm a "holiday whore" ) but... I'm just having trouble getting into the spirit of anything lately. I'm feelin' the funk.

That's because you are a woman and the day us catered to women. Men don't get shit.

I always get a kick out of watching all the queers scrambling to find a boyfriend for V day, going to the bars and putting on a nauseating public display of affection show, then watching their relationship crash and burn a week later.

Yeah but they get in free. It's not fair

Spats said:

Put a dress and wig on and go down, you'll probably get in.

Spats said:

Isn't that basically catering to straight men? If I was a straight guy, I would want to walk into a bar full of nice looking women, not a handful of nasty old drunk men.

Women generally don't seem to bring alot of money out to the bars, particularly younger women. Many of my (straight) female friends, will go out with like 5 bucks to their name, and still manage to drink like a champ. Guess who's picking up the tabs?...

Gotta lure them in somehow...

LleeLlee said:

Tom said:

Dont worry Spats I got ya covered...

Spats said:

Spats said:

talk to me about fairness when women receive equal pay, are fairly represented in corporate board rooms and in political offices, and are no longer treated as second class citizens by the medical establishment.

until then, it would serve you well to focus on things that really matter.

And tell me about fairness when they start paying for the dates, doing the asking, proposing marriage. Women only want equality when it suits them. Until they want equality in EVERYTHING then i will listen about things not being fair for women.

Spats said:

just because the women YOU meet don't do those things doesn't mean they're not done. have you considered that these women didn't WANT to buy you dinner, or didn't WANT to marry you? introspection is a very attractive trait in a man, by the way!