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Life is not Fair.... The Plain Jane Coffee Shop Girl has asked me if i want to go to a New Years Eve Party with her.Normally this would be great. I want the woman to do the approaching. But i want it to be a woman that turns me on!!!!! This sucks. And of course the Pretty Blonde has not invited me to do anything. This has not been my year.
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Spats said: The Plain Jane Coffee Shop Girl has asked me if i want to go to a New Years Eve Party with her.Normally this would be great. I want the woman to do the approaching. But i want it to be a woman that turns me on!!!!! This sucks. And of course the Pretty Blonde has not invited me to do anything. This has not been my year.
Life is not fair. 2006 will be different, Spats! You and me are gonna bring it hard! brangin' the edit [Edited 12/29/05 15:40pm] | |
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2the9s said: Spats said: The Plain Jane Coffee Shop Girl has asked me if i want to go to a New Years Eve Party with her.Normally this would be great. I want the woman to do the approaching. But i want it to be a woman that turns me on!!!!! This sucks. And of course the Pretty Blonde has not invited me to do anything. This has not been my year.
Life is not fair. 2006 will be different, Spats! You and me are gonna bring it hard! bring what? brangin' the edit [Edited 12/29/05 15:40pm] looking for you in the woods tonight Switch FC SW-2874-2863-4789 (Rum&Coke) | |
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AnckSuNamun said: 2the9s said: 2006 will be different, Spats! You and me are gonna bring it hard! bring what? Ask shantih! | |
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You are the worst actor ever. Trolling for attention again? [Edited 12/29/05 16:51pm] | |
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life's not fair. that's why the good lord invented board games. | |
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2the9s said: Spats said: The Plain Jane Coffee Shop Girl has asked me if i want to go to a New Years Eve Party with her.Normally this would be great. I want the woman to do the approaching. But i want it to be a woman that turns me on!!!!! This sucks. And of course the Pretty Blonde has not invited me to do anything. This has not been my year.
Life is not fair. 2006 will be different, Spats! Golly Gee 9s does this mean spats is gonna bless the org with even more ignorant bullshit then he did in 2005. Spats, I bet that pretty blonde has not asked you out cause, she don't like your plain jane ass either. [Edited 12/29/05 16:12pm] | |
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That could be the reason i don't know. I think i am plain but women i have been with have said i am good looking. If i was ugly they would not have hooked up with me. | |
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or they felt sorry for you. there is such a thing as sympathy sex . . . | |
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Spats said: That could be the reason i don't know. I think i am plain but women i have been with have said i am good looking. If i was ugly they would not have hooked up with me.
You think the only reason you could get laid is because you're good looking? That's generally the last thing I look for. Maybe you're selling yourself short. | |
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I don't think i am selling myself short but pretty women do not usually hook up with nasty looking guys unless they have money. And i am not rich. | |
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Spats said: I don't think i am selling myself short but pretty women do not usually hook up with nasty looking guys unless they have money. And i am not rich.
I don't agree that pretty women hook up with guys just because they're good looking. Pretty women have more choice - they can have it all | |
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it is a truth that life is not fair
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you should go with her. | |
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Spats said: I don't think i am selling myself short but pretty women do not usually hook up with nasty looking guys unless they have money. And i am not rich.
More overacting! :blah: :blah: :blah: :blah: | |
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Lleena said: you should go with her.
it might be fun. what the hell, it's new years! | |
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JasmineFire said: Lleena said: you should go with her.
it might be fun. what the hell, it's new years! yes, but I can imagine spats making the poor girl feel like he's doing her a huge favour, he should go and enjoy it and be nice to her. | |
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Lleena said: JasmineFire said: it might be fun. what the hell, it's new years! yes, but I can imagine spats making the poor girl feel like he's doing her a huge favour, he should go and enjoy it and be nice to her. | |
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I told her I would let her know tommorrow. My first thought was to say no but I just told her i didn't know because i may have plans. I was too nice, The thought of going out with someone who does not turn me on and to a party where i am not going to know anybody just depresses the hell out of me. | |
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Spats said: I told her I would let her know tommorrow. My first thought was to say no but I just told her i didn't know because i may have plans. I was too nice, The thought of going out with someone who does not turn me on and to a party where i am not going to know anybody just depresses the hell out of me.
not to mention how unkind it is to her energetically ... i dont understand why you would mislead someone you "may" have plans ? do you ? and why if it depresses you so to go to a party where you wont know anyone...would you even consider saying yes ? | |
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Mach said: Spats said: I told her I would let her know tommorrow. My first thought was to say no but I just told her i didn't know because i may have plans. I was too nice, The thought of going out with someone who does not turn me on and to a party where i am not going to know anybody just depresses the hell out of me.
not to mention how unkind it is to her energetically ... i dont understand why you would mislead someone you "may" have plans ? do you ? and why if it depresses you so to go to a party where you wont know anyone...would you even consider saying yes ? He thinks he's doing an act of kindness | |
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Teacher said: Mach said: not to mention how unkind it is to her energetically ... i dont understand why you would mislead someone you "may" have plans ? do you ? and why if it depresses you so to go to a party where you wont know anyone...would you even consider saying yes ? He thinks he's doing an act of kindness oh i see ... kindness huh | |
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Mach said: Teacher said: He thinks he's doing an act of kindness oh i see ... kindness huh Yeah. I so wish there was a guy around me who could behave like Spats. | |
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Spats said: I told her I would let her know tommorrow. My first thought was to say no but I just told her i didn't know because i may have plans. I was too nice, The thought of going out with someone who does not turn me on and to a party where i am not going to know anybody just depresses the hell out of me.
You should go. She may be a wonderful girl and you may find that you like her in spite of her "plainess". If not you might meet someone that you might like at the party. Or you can stay home and rent "Shallow Hal" and watch it until you learn that looks are not as important as character. "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"-Dr Seuss
Pain is something to carry, like a radio...You should stand up for your right to feel your pain- Jim Morrison | |
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I don't have any firm plans yet. I was not purposely misleading her. I guess i just wanted to put off saying no. | |
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Spats said: I don't have any firm plans yet. I was not purposely misleading her. I guess i just wanted to put off saying no.
Don't let her hang too long. If you really don't want to go, give her time to find another date. "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"-Dr Seuss
Pain is something to carry, like a radio...You should stand up for your right to feel your pain- Jim Morrison | |
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I was hoping to avoid the coffee shop tomorrow. Seriously, I don't want things to be awkward in there from now on if i say no. They have the best hot chocolate.
It was interesting watching the girl being nervous asking me because i have been on that side of the fence when i was younger and asking women out. I have to admit that i got off on making someone nervous. | |
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Spats said: I was hoping to avoid the coffee shop tomorrow. Seriously, I don't want things to be awkward in there from now on if i say no. They have the best hot chocolate.
It was interesting watching the girl being nervous asking me because i have been on that side of the fence when i was younger and asking women out. I have to admit that i got off on making someone nervous. if you say no, she might add "things" to your hot chocolate. | |
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Spats said: The Plain Jane Coffee Shop Girl has asked me if i want to go to a New Years Eve Party with her.Normally this would be great. I want the woman to do the approaching. But i want it to be a woman that turns me on!!!!! This sucks. And of course the Pretty Blonde has not invited me to do anything. This has not been my year.
Life is not fair. Amigo, learn these 2 lessons early and well: Charm is deceitful and beauty is fleeting. The type of happiness it sounds like you're seeking often comes most significantly in the package we're not expecting. Everyone has their preferences; I certainly do. Later you'll kick yourself for letting some special women get away because they didn't fit your "it." Second, on your "I want the woman to do the approaching" tip, you really should believe in yourself more ... enough to be direct with women who do attract you. Women appreciate a man taking the risk. | |
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