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PrintableSammiJ said: Mach said: I agree same as long as when u get back home you're getting some, and no one else but u is on his mind? i say why not 
u can even show them hoes up and do a strip for him when u get home umm, without devulging too much, that night, the sex was taken to a whole other level...it was intense. We were both feeling a little high . [Edited 2/2/06 9:06am] | |
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Strip clubs are sooo overrated. I thought i would love it when i went once but the women all looked liked skanks. | |
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Spats said: Strip clubs are sooo overrated. I thought i would love it when i went once but the women all looked liked skanks.
really? not the one I went to, some of the women did look a little skanky, but most seemed very friendly and sweet. I was impressed at how well groomed they all were. It's something that you don't think about right away, but they all mostly had perfect hair, perfect nails, perfect makeup. It kind of made me see why men go to strip clubs. . | |
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charlottegelin said: Byron said: Just be careful if he suggest installing a pole in the middle of your bedroom...
 you mean not everyone already has one of those? | |
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TMPletz said: charlottegelin said: you mean not everyone already has one of those?oh, I don't have any issues doing a strip tease for my boyfriend - it's a lot of fun when he lays in bed and watches me and asked me to turn around etc, I wouldn't want to bother with a pole tho...too much trouble. I'm not that good... . | |
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Why dont you just do a lapdance for him? | |
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JDINTERACTIVE said: Why dont you just do a lapdance for him?
i probably will, now that I saw what it's supposed to be like...maybe I'll surprise him for valentine's? . | |
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gabeez said: Spats said: Strip clubs are sooo overrated. I thought i would love it when i went once but the women all looked liked skanks.
really? not the one I went to, some of the women did look a little skanky, but most seemed very friendly and sweet. I was impressed at how well groomed they all were. It's something that you don't think about right away, but they all mostly had perfect hair, perfect nails, perfect makeup. It kind of made me see why men go to strip clubs. . It's amazing isn't it. It depends on what kind of club you go to. The smaller, skankier bars attracted more of that type of woman but the classier clubs are known to check you nails, hair, girls were told to cover up any tatoos with body make up, even weigh you! | |
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I went to two strips clubs in D.C. with my ex-boyfriend.
They were smaller clubs, but they were well-maintained and the girls weren't skanky. I did not know, however, that they get totally naked in D.C. | |
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I look at the situation as being similar to doing drugs together. A few times can make you closer and be an incredible, exciting experience, but after a while the illusion wears off--especially for women.
Then, if it keeps going, or becomes more regular, it could be a problem. Seeing as it's early in the relationship, things are probably more free between you two. But I think the twinge of jealousy you felt that night will probably not go away, but in fact grow. I don't think it was a mistake to go, though. I like that you opened yourself to the true mind of a man. Women want honesty, but too often they don't want certain types of male honesty! [Edited 2/2/06 11:10am] Check this song out at:
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andyman91 said: I look at the situation as being similar to doing drugs together. A few times can make you closer and be an incredible, exciting experience, but after a while the illusion wears off--especially for women.
Then, if it keeps going, or becomes more regular, it could be a problem. Seeing as it's early in the relationship, things are probably more free between you two. But I think the twinge of jealousy you felt that night will probably not go away, but in fact grow. I don't think it was a mistake to go, though. I like that you opened yourself to the true mind of a man. Women want honesty, but too often they don't want certain types of male honesty! [Edited 2/2/06 11:10am] well, i know that from the beginning I wanted him to feel that he didn't have to bullshit me about things. In the past few years, I've tried to be more open to by boyfriend's - figuring they would find it less necissary to lie if they knew i wouldn't freak out about them looking at other women. As long as consideration is maintained. The idea of being with someone and they are not being themselves seems like a big waste of time to me. My boyfriend was really considerate when we were at the club, he sent a few ladies away when I was in the bathroom, telling them to come back in 5 minutes cause that's when I'd be back. I wanted to be a part of it, not just for it to have been all about him and without telling him, he did just that. Once his lap dance was over, he seemed anxious to go back to the hotel... 
Perhaps it wasn't a mistake, I guess only time will tell? . [Edited 2/2/06 11:31am] | |
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gabeez said: andyman91 said: I look at the situation as being similar to doing drugs together. A few times can make you closer and be an incredible, exciting experience, but after a while the illusion wears off--especially for women.
Then, if it keeps going, or becomes more regular, it could be a problem. Seeing as it's early in the relationship, things are probably more free between you two. But I think the twinge of jealousy you felt that night will probably not go away, but in fact grow. I don't think it was a mistake to go, though. I like that you opened yourself to the true mind of a man. Women want honesty, but too often they don't want certain types of male honesty! [Edited 2/2/06 11:10am] well, i know that from the beginning I wanted him to feel that he didn't have to bullshit me about things. In the past few years, I've tried to be more open to by boyfriend's - figuring they would find it less necissary to lie if they knew i wouldn't freak out about them looking at other women. As long as consideration is maintained. The idea of being with someone and they are not being themselves seems like a big waste of time to me. My boyfriend was really considerate when we were at the club, he sent a few ladies away when I was in the bathroom, telling them to come back in 5 minutes cause that's when I'd be back. I wanted to be a part of it, not just for it to have been all about him and without telling him, he did just that. Once his lap dance was over, he seemed anxious to go back to the hotel...
Perhaps it wasn't a mistake, I guess only time will tell? . [Edited 2/2/06 11:31am] That's a good attitude. It's impossible for a man to not check out other women. That doesn't mean he has to cheat or love you any less, but he has to look. I do wonder if you will lose interest, though. You were in Vegas, it was the first time, everything was perfect. Everything's definitely not always beautiful at strip clubs, even expensive ones. I guess the ones I like the best are not nude. You can have alcohol (these are California rules) and the women are prettier. It's slightly classier. Plus, there's a lot to be said for leaving something to the imagination! Check this song out at:
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andyman91 said: gabeez said: well, i know that from the beginning I wanted him to feel that he didn't have to bullshit me about things. In the past few years, I've tried to be more open to by boyfriend's - figuring they would find it less necissary to lie if they knew i wouldn't freak out about them looking at other women. As long as consideration is maintained. The idea of being with someone and they are not being themselves seems like a big waste of time to me. My boyfriend was really considerate when we were at the club, he sent a few ladies away when I was in the bathroom, telling them to come back in 5 minutes cause that's when I'd be back. I wanted to be a part of it, not just for it to have been all about him and without telling him, he did just that. Once his lap dance was over, he seemed anxious to go back to the hotel...
Perhaps it wasn't a mistake, I guess only time will tell? . [Edited 2/2/06 11:31am] That's a good attitude. It's impossible for a man to not check out other women. That doesn't mean he has to cheat or love you any less, but he has to look. I do wonder if you will lose interest, though. You were in Vegas, it was the first time, everything was perfect. Everything's definitely not always beautiful at strip clubs, even expensive ones. I guess the ones I like the best are not nude. You can have alcohol (these are California rules) and the women are prettier. It's slightly classier. Plus, there's a lot to be said for leaving something to the imagination! yea-I may lose interest, it's new to me so I was so intrigued. I still am, but you know, sometimes the idea of something is hotter than the actual act. I don't want to let things get too far...I probably wouldn't have liked all nude, topless is as mush as I can handle. There was drinking at the place we went to, but also lots of security. The women seemed to be in a safe environment - with the exception of these booths that were available for private lapdances - I'm not sure how that works.... . [Edited 2/2/06 13:42pm] | |
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