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Thread started 01/23/06 6:45am

CarrieMpls

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gloomiest day of the year

It figures: Today is year's worst day

By SHELLEY EMLING
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Published on: 01/23/06
London — Having a bad day? No wonder. According to one scientist, today, Jan. 23, is the gloomiest day of 2006.

Cliff Arnall, a health psychologist at the University of Cardiff in Wales, has devised a formula that combines personal and seasonal factors to calculate the year's emotional low point.

Arnall said January is a time when people are simply working and don't have a lot of events or holidays to look forward to.

They are struggling to cope not only with the bleak weather, but also with debts from holiday spending.

It's also a time when people are starting to feel like failures because they've broken their resolutions so shortly after making them.

On paper, the formula looks like this:

W + (D-d) x TQ

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M x NA

The variables are (W)eather, (D)ebt, (d) monthly salary, (T)ime since Christmas, time since failure to (Q)uit a bad habit, low (M)otivational levels and (NA), the need to take action.

"All these elements converge to make for a very unhappy day on the 23rd of January," Arnall said.

He said his formula holds true for the United States as well as Britain, except perhaps in places such as Texas, Florida, or California where better weather could help lift the day's depressing mood.

But Arnall said there are ways to beat the late January blues. Instead of trying to turn over the same old new leaf every New Year's Day, he suggested, why not resolve to make a change in a different month, such as March or April?

"I also advise people to do the unusual every January," he said. "Go for a walk in the woods or just get out and about."

Arnall suggested groups of friends could throw parties to celebrate the 23rd, since being around people you like can boost your spirits.
People also could resolve to make a budget for their holiday spending next December.

Leslie Godwin, a Los Angeles-based author and life transition coach, agreed that January is a tough time of the year. She encouraged people to exercise, whether the weather's bad or not.

"Exercise releases hormones that give us a sense of well-being, and it should be seen as an antidote to feeling down or blue," she said.

But even if you aren't exercising, there is some good news: It's only six months until what Arnall figures will be the happiest day of 2006 — June 23.

"In June, there is a lot more of an emphasis on nature, with plenty of flowers and trees in full bloom," he said. "There's also the likelihood that people are seeing more of their neighbors because of more daylight."

It might be expected that a formula for unhappiness would be created in Britain. According to Ruut Veenhoven, a sociologist at Erasmus University Rotterdam and creator of a new "life satisfaction index,"
Britain is ranked below 20 other nations, including far poorer countries like Ghana, Mexico and Uruguay, when it comes to happiness.

The index, which asked people in 90 countries to rate how happy they were on a scale of 1 to 10, found Malta to be the happiest country, with the United States ranking 13th alongside Guatemala, Norway, and Uruguay.
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Reply #1 posted 01/23/06 6:46am

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CarrieMpls said:


It's also a time when people are starting to feel like failures because they've broken their resolutions so shortly after making them.

lol This is why I never make resolutions.
"I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven
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Reply #2 posted 01/23/06 6:47am

CarrieLee

Eh I think it's a load of crap. I'm in debt from the holidays and it's raining and snowing today...and I'm not in a bad mood at all. Go figure!
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Reply #3 posted 01/23/06 6:48am

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CarrieLee said:

Eh I think it's a load of crap. I'm in debt from the holidays and it's raining and snowing today...and I'm not in a bad mood at all. Go figure!


I'm in debt and it's cold as heck outside, but other then feeling abit tired, I'm having a grand day as well.

smile
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Reply #4 posted 01/23/06 6:48am

TheCatWoman

Hmm and I thought today was a most beautiful day, in my world. smile .. All is well and everything going good biggrin
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Reply #5 posted 01/23/06 6:48am

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CarrieMpls said:

CarrieLee said:

Eh I think it's a load of crap. I'm in debt from the holidays and it's raining and snowing today...and I'm not in a bad mood at all. Go figure!


I'm in debt and it's cold as heck outside, but other then feeling abit tired, I'm having a grand day as well.

smile



See, another one! thumbs up!
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Reply #6 posted 01/23/06 6:50am

Anx

all this stuff may be true, but the days are also starting to get longer, which means more sunshine, which for at least some of us (though i'd wager for most or all of us) has a positive effect on our energy and outlook.
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Reply #7 posted 01/23/06 6:50am

susannah

Ugh. It wouldnt be gloomy for me if I didnt have such a bad cold sad IM pumped full of pills but my heads still splitting and my sinuses are so blocked I can barely see! And that wouldnt be so bad if I didnt have three exams this week. Im never gonna study like this!

Buh. neutral
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Reply #8 posted 01/23/06 6:53am

Heiress

oh boy, i've had gloomier... it's nice and sunny here. a month ago or so my house was burning down, and last week my best friend's 14-year-old son died. then i get a text from another friend, saying her baby is in the hospital...

today is looking up, quite frankly!
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Reply #9 posted 01/23/06 6:54am

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CarrieMpls said:

CarrieLee said:

Eh I think it's a load of crap. I'm in debt from the holidays and it's raining and snowing today...and I'm not in a bad mood at all. Go figure!


I'm in debt and it's cold as heck outside, but other then feeling abit tired, I'm having a grand day as well.

smile


Yay!
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Reply #10 posted 01/23/06 7:21am

Anx

PS:




lol
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Reply #11 posted 01/23/06 7:23am

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Anx said:

PS:




lol


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Reply #12 posted 01/23/06 8:34am

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I'm actually in a fantastic mood today biggrin

It's my father-in-law's b-day...4 days till my 5th wedding anniversary...the sun is shining (even though it's cold)...and my co-worker just went home leaving me in peace 'n quiet woot!
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Reply #13 posted 01/23/06 10:26am

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It's 10:30am and the sun is shining and I get to have Shredded Wheat for breakfast! I'll let you know how the rest of my day goes.
I mean, like, where is the sun?
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Reply #14 posted 01/23/06 10:27am

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Natsume said:

It's 10:30am and the sun is shining and I get to have Shredded Wheat for breakfast! I'll let you know how the rest of my day goes.


yay!


** eagerly anticipating the reports as the day goes on **
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Reply #15 posted 01/23/06 11:05am

TRON

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This is insane, cuz I had a REALLY fucking hard night last night. Figures.
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Reply #16 posted 01/23/06 11:06am

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TRON said:

This is insane, cuz I had a REALLY fucking hard night last night. Figures.


hug

I miss you.

hug
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Reply #17 posted 01/23/06 11:08am

TRON

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CarrieMpls said:

hug

I miss you.

hug

I miss you too! You should come out for my 30th birthday. :hint hint: nod
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Reply #18 posted 01/23/06 11:09am

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TRON said:

CarrieMpls said:

hug

I miss you.

hug

I miss you too! You should come out for my 30th birthday. :hint hint: nod


hmmm

When is it?
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Reply #19 posted 01/23/06 11:10am

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CarrieMpls said:

hmmm

When is it?

2/17. You'd have a free place to stay. :tempt tempt: lol
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Reply #20 posted 01/23/06 11:12am

SammiJ

i guess u can blame canada (DO NOT start singing that damn song!)

we're having elections today, i gotta go vote soon
new prime minister! woot!
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Reply #21 posted 01/23/06 11:17am

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TRON said:

CarrieMpls said:

hmmm

When is it?

2/17. You'd have a free place to stay. :tempt tempt: lol


pout

I sooooo would but I'm leaving for London the week after that.

I'll be sure to send you a nice birthday message, though. batting eyes
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Reply #22 posted 01/23/06 11:19am

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SammiJ said:

i guess u can blame canada (DO NOT start singing that damn song!)

we're having elections today, i gotta go vote soon
new prime minister! woot!

You're probably right. Canada is right outside my window! omg
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Reply #23 posted 01/23/06 11:20am

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CarrieMpls said:

pout

I sooooo would but I'm leaving for London the week after that.

I'll be sure to send you a nice birthday message, though. batting eyes

I would SO love to go to that!

Remind me to tell you something VERY soon. It's VERY important. wink
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Reply #24 posted 01/23/06 11:21am

susannah

SammiJ said:

i guess u can blame canada (DO NOT start singing that damn song!)

we're having elections today, i gotta go vote soon
new prime minister! woot!


giggle

Sorry Sammi!!
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Reply #25 posted 01/23/06 11:21am

Mach

It's gloomy weather outside... but i heart it


and i feel preety dang fine myself woot!
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Reply #26 posted 01/23/06 11:22am

SammiJ

susannah said:

SammiJ said:

i guess u can blame canada (DO NOT start singing that damn song!)

we're having elections today, i gotta go vote soon
new prime minister! woot!


giggle

Sorry Sammi!!

you did it didn't you?! huh?! hmm


shrug lol hug rose
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Reply #27 posted 01/23/06 11:27am

susannah

SammiJ said:

susannah said:



giggle

Sorry Sammi!!

you did it didn't you?! huh?! hmm


shrug lol hug rose


boxed

You put it in my head!

lol hug
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Reply #28 posted 01/23/06 11:29am

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TRON said:

CarrieMpls said:

pout

I sooooo would but I'm leaving for London the week after that.

I'll be sure to send you a nice birthday message, though. batting eyes

I would SO love to go to that!

Remind me to tell you something VERY soon. It's VERY important. wink



Well, tell me now, dammit!

smile
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Reply #29 posted 01/23/06 11:31am

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CarrieMpls said:

Well, tell me now, dammit!

smile

It's too complicated and takes time. Gimme a day or two, k? wink
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