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I AM SO FRIGGIN MAD RIGHT NOW I CAN HARDLY TYPE!!! so, my tax guy filed my taxes friday night, and i been happy all weekend. thanks to earned income credit i'm expecting back $4000, which i desperately need asap seeing as how i can't pay my util bill this month, and i got bills to pay off. he filed it all electronically, so i expected to have it back in one to two weeks.
my tax guy just called me and said there was a problem with it. apparently someone has already filed their taxes and claimed my daughter as a dependent. the only person who knows her SSN is her goddamn lowlife bastard of a father!!!! what really gets me is the jerk took me to court in November '04 to establish visitation, lower child suppport, and determine tax credit. he GAVE me the right to tax credit!! i have legal documentation showing that i have the right to claim my daughter, as i am providing over half of her support! now all that jerkoff has done is delay money that i desperately need to pay some bills! now i'm gonna have to get the document from my lawyer (if i can't find my copy) go back to my tax man, and we have to mail in a paper form. it'll be about a month before i see any money. i just want to that bastard!! he hasn't seen his daughter since May, then he has the balls to pull a stunt like this!!!!! | |
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ok, that sucks ass, im not gonna even try to sugar coat that
but, when they see that he was in the wrong, do you know what kind of punishment he gets ???? One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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nakedpianoplayer said: but, when they see that he was in the wrong, do you know what kind of punishment he gets ???? please tell me. it might make me feel better. | |
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fantasyislander said: nakedpianoplayer said: but, when they see that he was in the wrong, do you know what kind of punishment he gets ???? please tell me. it might make me feel better. i dont know sweetie, i was asking you.... call the tax man back and ask him and yes, even though we get pissed as hell at our child's "fathers".... it may help you to know that someone will take up for you in the long run One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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nakedpianoplayer said: fantasyislander said: please tell me. it might make me feel better. i dont know sweetie, i was asking you.... call the tax man back and ask him and yes, even though we get pissed as hell at our child's "fathers".... it may help you to know that someone will take up for you in the long run thanks. | |
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wow, That's really f'd up Fantasy. I hate it when assholes like this play these games without regard to how it affects others especially his own daughter. I have a daughter from a previous relationship who thankfully I've been able to be involved in her life as much as humanly possible (she's living with me now). I couldn't imagine a life without her.
Good luck with everything FI "be glad that you are free, many a man is not" | |
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CoJones said: wow, That's really f'd up Fantasy. I hate it when assholes like this play these games without regard to how it affects others especially his own daughter. I have a daughter from a previous relationship who thankfully I've been able to be involved in her life as much as humanly possible (she's living with me now). I couldn't imagine a life without her.
Good luck with everything FI thanks. you sound like a great father. wish there were more like you in the world. i still just can't believe this. he doesn't even see her, takes no interest in her life, and then he does this! she's not important enough for him to pick up the phone, but he'll use her for money. god, i'm still so | |
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fantasyislander said: CoJones said: wow, That's really f'd up Fantasy. I hate it when assholes like this play these games without regard to how it affects others especially his own daughter. I have a daughter from a previous relationship who thankfully I've been able to be involved in her life as much as humanly possible (she's living with me now). I couldn't imagine a life without her.
Good luck with everything FI thanks. you sound like a great father. wish there were more like you in the world. i still just can't believe this. he doesn't even see her, takes no interest in her life, and then he does this! she's not important enough for him to pick up the phone, but he'll use her for money. god, i'm still so It will take a little while but it will be okay. He will have to pay the IRS every penny back. | |
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I'm sorry to read this Fantasy | |
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guess you will have to result to streetwalking to pay the bills ---------------------------------
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easy girl... easy...
don't let your anger suck up all the energy, it's not worth it. but...what a bastard. yes SIR! | |
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If it was court appointed what he has done amounts to fraud..... if he cashed that check and can't immediatly repay in 30 days...they will dock his check hard.... he is about to get his in spades. | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: If it was court appointed what he has done amounts to fraud..... if he cashed that check and can't immediatly repay in 30 days...they will dock his check hard.... he is about to get his in spades.
thats the only thing keeping me from driving to his house and punching his lights out! and thanks guys. i've calmed down a bit now, i just really needed to vent there. | |
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jthad1129 said: guess you will have to result to streetwalking to pay the bills
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you know what to do with these. One of Dansa's org hornies
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DynamicSavior said: you know what to do with these. | |
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fantasyislander said: DynamicSavior said: you know what to do with these. One of Dansa's org hornies
Supa is my gay messiah and he eats homeless dandruff sammitches on the bus. HULK NEED LAID, HULK SMASH!! The reigning queen of GD. All bitches step down. Prince.org: Where's Mani? | |
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what a meanie! how did he think he'd get away with this? Or is it just to be spiteful? | |
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nilegettolrahc said: what a meanie! how did he think he'd get away with this? Or is it just to be spiteful?
i don't know. i really don't get it. HE took ME to court to get visitation established (after he'd voluntarily stepped out of her life) and LOWER child support. he offered to give up the tax credit, just GAVE it to me. after getting visitation established he flaked out on that and hasn't seen her since May, now he goes and does something like this, and he can't possibly think he'll get away with it! | |
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fantasyislander said: nilegettolrahc said: what a meanie! how did he think he'd get away with this? Or is it just to be spiteful?
i don't know. i really don't get it. HE took ME to court to get visitation established (after he'd voluntarily stepped out of her life) and LOWER child support. he offered to give up the tax credit, just GAVE it to me. after getting visitation established he flaked out on that and hasn't seen her since May, now he goes and does something like this, and he can't possibly think he'll get away with it! is he a bit, you know, stupid? | |
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nilegettolrahc said: fantasyislander said: i don't know. i really don't get it. HE took ME to court to get visitation established (after he'd voluntarily stepped out of her life) and LOWER child support. he offered to give up the tax credit, just GAVE it to me. after getting visitation established he flaked out on that and hasn't seen her since May, now he goes and does something like this, and he can't possibly think he'll get away with it! is he a bit, you know, stupid? let's just say that i'm glad my girl takes after me in the intelligence factor! | |
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usually if there is a change on who is claiming a dependant from one yr to the next U can not file electronicly... he may have not claimed her for taxes but the stinkn IRS system will kick back a claim if things are not matching... i went through this yrs ago when the father of my older girls took it upon himself to claim them w/o any legal docs... i had to go through an audit and prove that i provided more then have of their support based on the lill monthly childsupport he was giving me... it took me 2 yrs after that was cleared up before i could file electronily again... If U don't know someone with Autism....... U will...... April is Autism awareness month.... please get involved.... | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: If it was court appointed what he has done amounts to fraud..... if he cashed that check and can't immediatly repay in 30 days...they will dock his check hard.... he is about to get his in spades.
I'm so sorry to hear that this happened to you, Fantasy, that really, really sux. Your ex sounds like a first class asshole. How he thought he could do this and get away with it legally is beyond me. But don't give up, keep fighting the good fight. Once the IRS sees that you are the providing over half of the support to raise your daughter, they will see that what your ex did was just wrong, spiteful and mean. and you will come out ahead. RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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Want me to come over and fuck him up? | |
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psychodelicide said: Muse2NOPharaoh said: If it was court appointed what he has done amounts to fraud..... if he cashed that check and can't immediatly repay in 30 days...they will dock his check hard.... he is about to get his in spades.
I'm so sorry to hear that this happened to you, Fantasy, that really, really sux. Your ex sounds like a first class asshole. How he thought he could do this and get away with it legally is beyond me. But don't give up, keep fighting the good fight. Once the IRS sees that you are the providing over half of the support to raise your daughter, they will see that what your ex did was just wrong, spiteful and mean. and you will come out ahead. thanks. and thanks purplekisses too. venting on here really helped calm me down! now i only want to hurt him a little bit. | |
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mdiver said: Want me to come over and fuck him up?
yes please!! i could even pay you. i'll be getting $4000 back after all. i'll pay extra if you use a chair. | |
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mdiver said: Want me to come over and fuck him up?
such a gentleman! | |
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nilegettolrahc said: mdiver said: Want me to come over and fuck him up?
such a gentleman! Why thankyou! | |
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mdiver said: nilegettolrahc said: such a gentleman! Why thankyou! Phil & I could get medieval on his ass!!!! (sp.?) [Edited 1/22/06 16:23pm] | |
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abierman said: mdiver said: Why thankyou! Phil & I could get mid-evil on his ass!!!! (sp.?) | |
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