so many women with men who ain't shit-ain't got shit-ain't trying to do shit. why is that?

Blondes ?

Boredom
Low self confidence

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or the challenge. To reveal the good part in them. If it can occur.

Many people need people they can defend.

This thread reminds me.
I could use a blowjob right now.
From an Austrian leprechaun.
Then maybe I can find out where they hide their gold.

Well, I'm a Bad Girl who likes Good Boys...Boys Who Listen and give me Control. Not into Bad Boys....I Like Sexy Guys But I am the BOSS IN BED...

meltwithu said:

i've heard of this. never understood it. if you can't treat me right you're outthadoor!!

fantasyislander said:

exactly ...having said that tho you can be a "bad boy" but still be sexay

that's a common misconception that guys have that they have to have this "wild, bad boy" persona to get a girl's interest but it aint like that at all, really, in fact quite the opposite

.. I've never been with a "bad boy" .. Never been the type to find them attractive. NOTHING attractive about them at all. You can't even possibly take them serious.

TheCatWoman said:

exactly ...no point to it at all if they only could see that lol

a lady told me once that bad boys will fuck the dog shit out of you , make you wanna buy them shit and appeal to your passionate emotional side, while good guys treat you right, buy you things and bore you to death

Natisse said:

meltwithu said:

Them kinda woman must have emotional problems ..whats more important a good fuck or a good man?

TheCatWoman said:

well she's a emotionally stable, financially well off person-- i think maybe she's more at that phase to have her boots knocked good than be pampered.

Ran out of replies as TheCatWoman

meltwithu said:

well then, by all means, bore me to death!!! besides, there are plenty of good men out there who know how to "knock boots good"!

meltwithu said:

well, you can still get ur boots knocked by a geek.. oops . I mean a good guy .. matter fact they freaky

TheTigerWoman said:

As I've heard it, it's the "Bad-boy-who-really-has-a-heart-of-gold-and-wants-to-become-his-better-self-through-that-special-woman's-love-and-he-doesn't-care-if-he-never-gets-to-see-her-naked" syndrome...and women have been falling for that for decades...lol...and of course they always get to see her naked...

(Cue movie scene): "But he does love me, mama...he does!!"

*Girl runs out of house, and onto the motorcycle of good looking bad boy in leather jacket, clutching him around his waist as he drives off...*

There's also usually a decent looking good-boy who gets straight A's who loves her as well but "doesn't understand" her like the good looking rebel does...toss in a scene later in the movie where the bad boy breaks down and cries to the girl, showing vunerability for the first time in his life and the heart that lives beneath the leather...and you have an entire audience of swooning females sighing and wishing they could find the bad boy who's heart and life are touched and reformed only by them...

Then of course they leave the theatre and find out that the bad boys in real life usually have a record, a drug problem, cheat and lie like crazy, have bad breath and smelly feet and are terrible in bed...

Byron said:

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Mach said:

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Byron said:

Mach said:

A gentleman always corrects a lady's post...

Byron said:

thank you

Byron said:

Yeah...

What Byron said...

I think a lot of people are a little more fucked up than they realize & seek drama in their lives. This comes out through the tiffs they get into w/ folks, the kinds of friends (& ex friends) they have, the men/women they choose, etc.

Some women think they're SO fucking amazing that they can change him/tame him, just enough to stay w/ her.

I don't really get it. I've never even been attracted to dudes like that. I know what it's like to be loved, I know the kind of love I deserve. I'm figuring dudes like that can't live up to my standards so I don't even think of fucking w/ them...

meltwithu said:

Because they like ugys that look like they can fuck good plain and simple.

Nobody dont want no nerdy punk who just lays there and have the woman do all the work..fuck that

I've heard of this, and a few girls I know are in now or have been in this situation. It never ends well.



It's not for me. While I can't stand the "good guy" type -I'm too young to settle into domesticity and movie nights, I wouldn't date a bad boy or girl either. Something in the middle is ideal. Bad enough to have fun with, but good enough to take home to meet the family.

meow85 said:

I mean who u wanna be with Urkel or LL Cool J?

paisleypark4 said:

Can't it be a mix between them?